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What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?


Sep 15, 2010 @ 4:17 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
cum4mesoon


Posts: 134
I caught my older daughter having sex with her boyfriend tonight. I went to bed after the news. Both girls were in bed. I woke up, looked at the clock it was 12:42 AM. I heard noises coming from the livingroom. I quietly got out of bed, went down the hallway. There was enough light coming through the livingroom window so I could see my daughter and her boyfriend on the couch having sex. I let out a yell, which made matters worse because my younger daughter came running out of her room to see what was going on. Needless to say I was madder than hell. We sat in the livingroom talking. I told them if they were going to have sex that was their business but I didn't want them having it in my house or atleast when her younger sister or I were home. I told the younger one the same went for her.
How would you have handled something like that? Should I have been harder on them or was it better not giving them a big lecture?
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 6:35 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
aspiringwriter


Posts: 456
I can't say how I would've handled it. But I can say this:
When I was still in high school, a friend of mine and I got a little "extra friendly." My mother came home earlier than expected and walked in on us. Needless to say all three of us turned several shades of red and the moment was deader than disco. My mom closed the door and left (presumably to try to remove that image from her head). My friend and I got dressed. I walked to her to the train, and we talked things over. Like a man ready to be executed, I slowly made my home. My mother asked me if I had used protection (I had). Then told me to make sure she never had to see that again. I assured her she wouldn't and that was that.

I was glad that she had left it at that. I really don't think a talk would have been appropriate. I had already chosen/was choosing what I was doing with my body. I can't see a lecture changing anything. My mother's priority (I think rightly) was to make sure I was safe. I think I was amply punished by the embarrassment of the whole ordeal.

However, if I were you, I would threaten the boyfriend. I'd make sure I really put the fear of God in him. Then I'd force him to do all sorts of menial jobs around the house, just so I could be lazy.
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 8:35 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
rub_this_penny


Posts: 125
My father caught my sister and her bf. He physically threw her bf out of the house then grounded my sister for a month.
If I had kids it would depend on their age, if they were old enough to be serious or if it was casual sex. Their going to have sex anyway and there are worse places to have it than in the house
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 8:45 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
loveablejanet


Posts: 269
I would probably kill him and ground her until she was old enough to get her own olace to live
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 8:45 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
kill AND ground?? hmm that thar woman is STRICT .
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 8:57 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
loveablejanet


Posts: 269
When I have kids I will be
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 8:59 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
*runs up benind loveable n wraps arms round her n nibbles her neck..whispers in her ear...''wanna just practice that with me a bit???" n blows on her soft wet skin*
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Sep 15, 2010 @ 9:06 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
StraddleMyNose


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I would ground her until she was 30.
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Sep 17, 2010 @ 9:51 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
loves2love23


Posts: 174
nothing. I wouldn't be happy but their going to have sex someplace it might as well be here
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Sep 18, 2010 @ 11:48 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
DEVILSADJUTANT


Posts: 150
I would toss them a condom and give them some words of wisdom :

'' Put it on before you put it in . Five minutes of pleasure could cost you eighteen years of misery .''

Unless of course they were allready practicing safe sex then good for them .
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Sep 21, 2010 @ 5:15 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
amy_on_the_loose


Posts: 121
I'm positive my son and his girlfriend are having sex in the house when i'm not home. 1) I find condoms in his dresser drawer 2) his bedspread is messed up and 3) often there is the smell of sex in his room when I get home. I can't say i'm thrilled about them having sex in the house but I remember when I was their age and having sex. Who am I to reprimand him for doing what I did at his age. Knowing their practicing safe sex makes it much easier to cope with
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Sep 27, 2010 @ 6:55 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
smile4connie


Posts: 181
We got caught by my mother. She gave us a lecture about safe sex that lasted for what seemed like hours . I think I would do the same thing
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Sep 30, 2010 @ 8:48 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
passionatepaula


Posts: 156
Nothing I was their age once to
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 6:58 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
patty19


Posts: 618
i'd probably just tell them to be careful. like passionatepaula I was having sex when I was younger so how could I give them hell for having it right?
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Oct 15, 2010 @ 12:25 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
aqua_mom


Posts: 80
Mine is different. I didn't catch either of them having sex. I did overhear their conversation one afternoon. I was in the livingroom reading. They were out at the pool. Then sliding door was open just enough for me to hear them. They were talking about different things then sex came into it. I couldn't believe it when my son asked her how far she had gone. Her answer was "I let a boy put his hand inside my bra and pants" His next question was " Have you let a boy fuck you yet" Thank god she said no. He told her about what he had done with one girl in particular in detail. My daughter giggled and said "really? you fucked her?" I was surprised but not shocked. It took me some time to think about how I was going to handle this without either of them knowing I overhreard them. I took one at a time in my room for a talk. I told both of them that I wasn't going to tell them I was giving them permission to have sex but if they decided to have it to first think of could happen that would have an affect on their lives forever then explained the importance of birth control. Other things we discussed also. My daughter thanked me and told me she would remember our talk. My son told me he and his father had already talked about sex
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Oct 18, 2010 @ 7:21 AM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
anewwoman


Posts: 240
Probably forget I was their age once and start screaming at them
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Oct 22, 2010 @ 12:33 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
attractivelatinmom


Posts: 261
Nothing. I might not be happy but sex is so open now getting angry or upset wouldn't stop them from having it again somewhere else
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Oct 22, 2010 @ 12:35 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
i just wanna catch ALM gettin warmed up for it...i'll give her a bit of help then..ohhh...son or dauughter..sorry i got cumfuzzed
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Oct 22, 2010 @ 12:42 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
attractivelatinmom


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Oct 22, 2010 @ 12:50 PM What would you do if you caught your son/daughter having sex?    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
that ^^^^^ was NOT the desired affect
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