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Sex on a First Date


Aug 8, 2007 @ 5:37 PM Sex on a First Date    
alybai42


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Waiting on the 1st date
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Aug 8, 2007 @ 7:08 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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Aug 8, 2007 @ 11:33 PM Sex on a First Date    
alybai42


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Want to wait with me Y
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Aug 9, 2007 @ 7:52 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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ynot
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Aug 9, 2007 @ 7:53 PM Sex on a First Date    
Aphrodite669


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Aug 9, 2007 @ 7:56 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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Aug 9, 2007 @ 8:10 PM Sex on a First Date    
Aphrodite669


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Aug 9, 2007 @ 8:44 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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i'm too much a good boy for sex on first date
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Aug 9, 2007 @ 8:58 PM Sex on a First Date    
borachone


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Yep an' I'll be preachin' in church Sunday
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Aug 9, 2007 @ 10:23 PM Sex on a First Date    
Lisa46


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hey Bora is that the Church called BS??? gimme the address and I'll be sittin in the front pew
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Aug 9, 2007 @ 11:01 PM Sex on a First Date    
getinmyarms


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this thread has degraded into flirt digression, Pardon me for saying so.
I know there was a blog about this at one time but, let's hear it everyone. What about sex on a first date? You meet you are very attracted to each other should you go for it or hold back?

This is such an interesting and controversial subject, us old farts remembering the days before AIDS, when you could have sex without guaranteed lethal consequences, there was only the consequence of; will they want to learn more about me tomorrow, or was it only to get through the loneliness and emptiness of of waking alone, again and again and again.
Is it the attitude of " I'm going out to score?" or is it the fact that you met online, talked two hours a day for a month, got in a plane with your heart in your chest, beating at 134 per minute in anticipation of FINALLY meeting the ONE, you meet they are just what you thought they were, you want them?
That actually begs the question, if you have talked hundreds of hours on the phone two hours a night for months, is the first physical meeting the first date??
There are so many variations.......
Email, email, phone, extensive phone, nightly for weeks or a month, face to face and she says, WE JUST MET (read, she isnt interested, or read I am not interested) the lie is, we didnt just meet, the truth is Me of She isnt interested, so, sex? nope
Email, email, phone, extensive phoning, meet, attraction is there, dinner, back to the hotel, sex? it happens. If the expectation of continued growth is there, and both have that expectation, and both have that chemistry, and both have the belief system that under those conditions, its Hell Yes, then hell yes.
I think I just put in 4 cents, not my 2 cents, send your check or money order to Getinmyarms, c/o AMD for my refund of the extra 2 cents.
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 2:11 AM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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you were DAMN GOOD on the first date YNOT
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 9:52 AM Sex on a First Date    
alybai42


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No date Just sex
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 10:12 AM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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getinmyarms............and here i thought i was clear.........NO to first date sex.........NOW a better question.....when you've talked on the phone/IM'd n here in forums for MONTHS.............IS that a first date? NOW you got something to think n get back to me on sir
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 11:07 AM Sex on a First Date    
new_england_girl


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Not on the first date. I love sex but i'm not that easy. I think if a woman gives in on the first date he will think she's a slut and might not ask her out again
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 11:20 AM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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soooo......again.........WHAT IS the first date? first time face to face even if you talk for months?

just askin here........
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 11:37 AM Sex on a First Date    
new_england_girl


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To me, atleast, a first date is when you actually go out together
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 12:24 PM Sex on a First Date    
Aphrodite669


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Yes, face to face for the first time is a first date...just saying
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 3:21 PM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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sounds good to me Y
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Aug 10, 2007 @ 11:42 PM Sex on a First Date    
regularguy354


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I have long believed it depends on the date. :)
I've had sex on the first date more than a time or two, but only if there was a comfortable connection. And I don't think a woman who has sex on the first date is a slut, I think of her as being just as human as I am.
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