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Apr 26, 2007 @ 5:29 PM Sex on a First Date    
bandengor


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pisst(whispering)that's just nice talk, he really does want to do you on the first date.
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 5:30 PM Sex on a First Date    
westside231


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mmmm whispering is the best....so close where you can just feel his lips........but still not making love on the first date....


and bandegor duh.
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 5:38 PM Sex on a First Date    
sumdaysoon


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i won't make love of the first date either.........
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 5:40 PM Sex on a First Date    
bandengor


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I know we covered this already, but what is considered the first date? If you have been emailing/chatting/talking on the phone or whatever, for months, is the first physical meeting still considered a "first" date?
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 5:47 PM Sex on a First Date    
sumdaysoon


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face to face is at least the third date.........i was holding that back until i got a meeting..........
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 9:39 PM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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We ain't doing a meeting about cheating the Time System for first sex fucking. Just forget it.

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Apr 26, 2007 @ 9:57 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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you tell em' shells..we don't put out on first dates do we............
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:02 PM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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NO WAY baby!!
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:04 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:05 PM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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...still got peanuts on your hairy chest YNOT?
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:26 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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peanuts' my dog ya dork
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Apr 26, 2007 @ 10:34 PM Sex on a First Date    
shellsmack


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You must of missed my post about eating peanuts off your chest and then continuing on to look for mixed nuts.

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Apr 26, 2007 @ 11:17 PM Sex on a First Date    
openlove


Posts: 30
sex is natural.

It doesnt matter if it happens on the first date or on the hundredth date.

everyone has their own standards.

when you enter someone's china shop, you have to make sure you pay attention to the rules and that you have enough space to manuever.
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 4:16 AM Sex on a First Date    
me248


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will I have sex on a first date?.....not typically.....I'll admit it's happened, but I find it more fullfilling to wait until you know a bit about your potential partner.....that way the communication is much better, you are more comfortable expressing your needs....and the sexual tension has had that much more time to build between you....all that leads to better sex (at least from my past experiences)....

when I have sex, I'm sharing the most intimate parts of not only my body, but also my desires....and I don't really want to do that with a stranger.....my heart runs deep, and if I'm choosing to have sex with you, it's almost 100% likely it's because I care for you immensly, and I want to see more of you, learn more about you, and share more experiences with you. In other words it's not something I generally take lightly....My heart doesn't take one night stands well, I care too deep to share myself that way, and then walk away never to see that person ever again......that's not to say that sometimes I don't want too just rip each others clothes off immediatly....because let's face it our libedo's are what they are....but I try to stay in control so that I can feel good in the long run, and not just for the moment.

now take into concideration that my feelings about this, go back to what you consider as a first date.....
when you go out with someone for the first time where you are approached in person, and asked out, (not previously having spoken to him before) that's a real first date....and there will be no sex from me.
however.....if you have been chatting via e-mail.....IM's....telephone conversations....camming, or whatever, for some time...... then you decide to meet in person, it doesn't really feel like a first date......techniqually it still is....but your on a different level at that point....you've already pretty much discovered that your compatable mentally and emotionally....now your just have to find out if that person was being real, or if they act completely different in person than they did behind the security of technology, and distance....that doesn't take long at all.....and once that's established then you want to know if your compatable physically....so if the chemistry's there....then sex on this scenario of a first date, is definitly a possibility from me.

ok, there was my long winded answer.....now go back to whatever it was you were doing
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 7:23 AM Sex on a First Date    
Lisa46


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awe Me2 you said it wonderfullly!!!! I agree with her! ^^^^^^^^^^^
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 8:56 AM Sex on a First Date    
sundance64


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me too!

But what about when sex IS the first date? I guess you could say that taking a break long enough to go and get carry-out pizza...that could've been considered the 'date'...or getting up and getting donuts and coffee and the KrispyKream the next morning...maybe that was a 'date'...nah, the whole weekend was centered around sex! Anything outside of that was just taking a breather...
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 3:02 PM Sex on a First Date    
theobono


Posts: 28
have we met?



we should...my kinda gal
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 7:03 PM Sex on a First Date    
Natgoat


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Sund . . . I'd date you AND your glasses...but that Belly...!!!
*GASSSPPP!!!* . . Ohhhh..Myyy...!!!
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Apr 29, 2007 @ 11:32 PM Sex on a First Date    
sundance64


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I guess I forget that there are new people who don't know me.

For the two gentlemen above me...my last post was in reference to my first 'date' with Canuhelpme258...we both got alot of ribbing from our friends on this site before we actually 'met' that we wouldn't just have sex on our first date...that sex would be the first date.
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Apr 30, 2007 @ 12:13 AM Sex on a First Date    
Natgoat


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Some got it...and Some Don't...!!!
Nothing wrong wirh Sex..AS the Date...!!!
Boff yer'Sox Off...!!!
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