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Sex on a First Date


Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:26 PM Sex on a First Date    
tlc0766


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I know there was a blog about this at one time but, let's hear it everyone. What about sex on a first date? You meet you are very attracted to each other should you go for it or hold back?
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:29 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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well outside the persona people see of me here...i'm a bit diff in person ..ask those who know....

mmmm ..frist date...i just go with the flow...i do NOT expect it....might not initiate it....depends....but IF the connection is there and it's MUTUAL.............AND we been talking enough prior to know (for me) it's prob not a one time only ( i dont do one night stands...yea yea you read that right) then i go for it........my $.02
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:33 PM Sex on a First Date    
tlc0766


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that's kind of my feel on it too Y go with the flow of course if I'm drinking tequila my clothes have a tendency to fall off on their own accord
note to self DO NOT DRINK TEQUILA ON FIRST DATES!
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:40 PM Sex on a First Date    
ynot7769


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note to self DO NOT DRINK TEQUILA ON FIRST DATES


*jots down note to MYSELF.......pour LOTS of tequila in whatever TLC drinks if we ever meet n then molest the hell outa her..... 2 or 3 times*
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:44 PM Sex on a First Date    
tlc0766


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2 or 3 times*
that's all???
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:44 PM Sex on a First Date    
innocent_1


Posts: 147
I don't do sex on a first date. I would rather wait and get to know them. With the current bf it wasn't until the 6th date.
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:46 PM Sex on a First Date    
geena


Posts: 119
that reminds of of a concert I went in Hard Rock, we got free tickets and a bundle of free drink tickets, Petron was overflowing that night and I didn't know how I was up stage, good thing it wasn't an orgy yeah do away with tequilas on first dates
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:47 PM Sex on a First Date    
geena


Posts: 119
Erratum: it's Patron not Petron see what I mean?
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:47 PM Sex on a First Date    
bandengor


Posts: 7,768
Sex on a first date? With a complete stranger... No. With someone you already know but for various circumstances have not had a date til now .... possibly. Depends on chemistry/connection and the repercussions.
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 12:49 PM Sex on a First Date    
Vinnie29


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Ok there was a blog going on this last week and I gave my opinion on it. Which was a 'No' Now, since then i have Ive asked a few close friends about it and they say that of all the one night stands they've ever had, none of them have ever led to a meaningful relationship.
But I also tend to agree with ynot. I think that if there is a mutual connection there and you've been chattin for a while leading up to it then go for it.
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 1:00 PM Sex on a First Date    
geena


Posts: 119
I think that's true, sex is just sex, but it leaves a lasting impression on the partner. It's better to get to know first, and better to do away with tequila for a while, right TLC?
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 1:07 PM Sex on a First Date    
tlc0766


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yes I am going to be good, and I don't mean good at it which btw I am lol.
if I ever get to go on this first date damn snow!!! well at least I am going to try and will definetly stay away from the tequila. I do have to say though that my ex felt like he had hit the jackpot with me. He never held it against me because we had sex on our first date, of course we had worked together for a year or more and it wasn't like we didn't know each other. But someone I just recently quit seeing, I think he did judge me because of it, but I think that was his hang up not mine because I did want to have something of relationship with him, but I now realize he was just another jackass over all.
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Jan 25, 2007 @ 1:53 PM Sex on a First Date    
geena


Posts: 119
Amen to that TLC, exactly same experience except we remained friends and I have to admit I loved him so much. . personal problem but I will move on
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Jan 28, 2007 @ 7:20 AM Sex on a First Date    
canuhelpme258


Posts: 3,351
and the second date and third... now I need a forth,
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Jan 29, 2007 @ 10:01 AM Sex on a First Date    
Swingking


Posts: 41
yesyesyesyesyes
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Jan 30, 2007 @ 6:43 PM Sex on a First Date    
JJN4Fun


Posts: 2,999
I rarely have sex on the first date, but there is at least one man I'd make an exception for... Mmmmm, me want some of that...yes, I do!
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 9:22 AM Sex on a First Date    
CrazyCraveman


Posts: 3,937
I rarely have sex on the first date, but there is at least one man I'd make an exception for... Mmmmm, me want some of that...yes, I do!

Why thank you Sxze...


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Feb 1, 2007 @ 2:28 PM Sex on a First Date    
tlc0766


Posts: 989
EUREKA!!!!! ladies I have come up with the perfect way to keep from letting yourself from having sex on the first date! It was so simple I can't believe I didn't think of it before. DON'T SHAVE YOUR LEGS!!!! you know there is no way you are getting naked with a man the first time if you hve stubble on the legs, damn am I a genius or what??
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 7:12 PM Sex on a First Date    
PrincessKissy


Posts: 4,018
I'd have to have a date before I could have sex on it. I'll just stay here behind my monitor, where I am safe!
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Feb 2, 2007 @ 1:45 AM Sex on a First Date    
jezzarae


Posts: 263
Its funny how as I have gotten older my opinion on this subject has changed a lot. When I was young I would never ever considered have sex on a first date. As we get older I think we develop more confidence and maturity lets us know exactly what we want out of life. Now I would listen to my instincts more. If I am very attracted to the guy and he is to me then I would definately consider sex on a first date. I cant say I have actually done it but I know if the circumstances were right I would.
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