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Aug 24, 2007 @ 4:01 PM Swinging Relationships    

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I was wondering how long some of the couple on here have been together. How was your relationship before you began swinging? and how is it after?

Do you feel you have a more honest relationship then people who do not swing?

What are the pros and cons?

Do you practice Polygamy? or is it just whatever goes?

Thanks :)
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Feb 3, 2008 @ 3:26 AM Swinging Relationships    

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Well I just met my new man in nov or dec and we started out swinging. It just turns us both on to see the other get fucked and sucked by another. We've had females and males and couples and WOW its the best, most turned on and closest i've ever been with anyone. Before him I'd only had FFM threesomes (love women too yummy!) and the same woman with different men. She and I were even better together in this relationship. I think it depends on the trust and respect you have for one another
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Feb 3, 2008 @ 8:49 PM Swinging Relationships    

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I think if you have trust and respect for a person, the last thing you'd do is screw around with other people...but these days having that kind of an opinion makes me weird, it would seem...
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 7:41 AM Swinging Relationships    

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I guess I can see it working if all parties were of the same mindset on shared sex.
But what about falling in Love, where you don't want anyone else.
Don't you miss that feeling
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Feb 9, 2008 @ 4:53 PM Swinging Relationships    

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But what about falling in Love, where you don't want anyone else

oh yeah ......i agree
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Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:33 PM Swinging Relationships    

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what ever makes me and my partners happy works for me
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Feb 29, 2008 @ 9:50 AM Swinging Relationships    

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I truly think happiness is the common denominator for all who seek satisfaction in any relationship as well as in life. Quality of life is another component for which happiness can be attained. With all of that being said. I truely beleive quality of life and happiness is different for everyone. I do not beleive what will make me happy is also the same things that will bring you solace to you. If you find satisfaction or fulfillment in watching your wife/woman fucked by others, it is not up to anyone else to dictate or determine the morality in what will make you happy. If the visions of different women blowing your man/husband render you tingly, wet and blissfully excited, the approval of others as well as the morality of others is not something you should seek. Happiness is not a privlege in my opinion but a right. If it makes you happy, Be happy. Because those who judge you will not make you happy.

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Mar 29, 2008 @ 12:22 AM Swinging Relationships    

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Very well said LickHer !

This is really hard because my wife and I share the same account, and folks get us confused when she posts with this account. Anyway, this is CloudDancer, the male half of CloudDancer and StarDuster.. Let me give you my 2 cents.

We have been married almost 8 years, and at first we had some jealousy and mistrust, because of past things that neither one could turn loose of.

One evening we sat down and actually talked, not just small talk, but actual communication.

I knew she was Bi, and at the time I had never seen two women together, and she said she would be willing to show me that if we could find a lady that we would both be comfortable with. We met a gal from this area that we just hit it off with immediately, you know the kind,, something just clicks. They showed me the most beautiful thing I had ever seen, two women making love.

After that we decided that we would like to share with a couple, and we did find a few couples but mostly they were only wanting the woman satisfied while the mans viagra tried to kick in. Then we found a couple that we could be really good friends with and go places and do things, and we all shared everything with each other. Hell his dick even worked

It's really hard to explain but my wife and I sharing imtamacy with another couple has brought us so much closer together. All the jealousy is gone and we trust each other totally.

If you have ANY doubts about jealousy or trust, you MUST get them worked out with your partner BEFORE you try any sort of swapping. If you are feeling pushed into it, or if you are pushing your partner into it, then it won't work. Everybody involved has got to want it and be comfortable with it. One person with misgivings can ruin it for everybody and even break up a relationship.

As far as the question about "Can you be in love with your partner and still swing". YES definately, swapping/swinging is not looking to replace love or even find new love, it is an extension of the love you have for each other.

Talk it over with your partner, don't just jump in the sack with the first person that wants to "meet for coffee"

It can be great or it can be a disaster, it just all depends on what you are looking for.

Sorry I rambled on so long.


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Apr 3, 2008 @ 2:20 PM Swinging Relationships    

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well my hubby and i have been togther 7 years and we have been swinging aswell as me being a pro domme for the last 3 years and we have grown closer over the last 3 years than we were before we were swinging so as for us it has been grate and we will never stop
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Apr 3, 2008 @ 5:17 PM Swinging Relationships    

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Swinging,for me, doesnt have anything to do with wanting anyone else. I don't, I only want my husband, the extra body is nothing more than a tool
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Apr 6, 2008 @ 1:08 PM Swinging Relationships    

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Estoy de acuerdo, Nada como la fidelidad
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Apr 6, 2008 @ 6:01 PM Swinging Relationships    

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Can you speak English please?
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Apr 6, 2008 @ 9:24 PM Swinging Relationships    

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english.......english........english..........that enough.......
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Apr 6, 2008 @ 10:23 PM Swinging Relationships    

Posts: 10,449 for me
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Apr 7, 2008 @ 2:59 PM Swinging Relationships    

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You have me speechless.
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Apr 7, 2008 @ 10:09 PM Swinging Relationships    

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Try moaning then ..............
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Apr 9, 2008 @ 8:31 AM Swinging Relationships    

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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm oh yeah Spunk, mmmmmmmmmm
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Apr 9, 2008 @ 8:54 PM Swinging Relationships    

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just swinging through..........
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Apr 10, 2008 @ 12:32 AM Swinging Relationships    

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Try swingin' in the direction....
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Apr 10, 2008 @ 4:23 PM Swinging Relationships    

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We have been married for over 6 years... we started 'playing' about 6 months after marrage. We/he stopped about a year ago... seemed we were closer for the first 5
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