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Jun 17, 2006 @ 8:10 AM I have never tried it    
scarletsara


Posts: 77
Does each couple have their own set of rules? Wouldn't it help to be freinds
first. I am curious about how this works
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Jun 17, 2006 @ 8:25 AM I have never tried it    
stivvy


Posts: 2
I haven't tried yet either. But have friends that have and they all have their own preferences. Wanna do it together?
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Jun 18, 2006 @ 1:00 AM I have never tried it    
PEEKACHOO


Posts: 3
done it! yes, each couple has their own set of rules. and most couples prefer to be friends first and make sure all are comfortable before it progresses. but there are some couples out there just looking for a one night stand and don't care to even get to know their partner. if you have any more questions, feel free to write me and ask.
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Jun 22, 2006 @ 12:30 PM I have never tried it    
Fred1624


Posts: 2
Peekachoo's right, each couple has their own rules, and yes, they usually do want to be friends with the person/people/couple and just let things "happen" at their own pace as opposed to forcing things.
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Jun 30, 2006 @ 4:08 PM I have never tried it    
hottsally


Posts: 2
My bf and i met a couple in our neighborhood. We meet for drinks and snacks and we girls try different kinds of costumes: lacey stockings, garter belts, hot panties, and slut skirts. We like tio tease the guys.[B] We often get into 3 some.
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Jul 8, 2006 @ 5:24 PM I have never tried it    
ginger23


Posts: 13
Whenever I find myself in a couple relationship again I will go to a swingers club with my partner. I should also join a swingers club now so I can meet hot couples. I think for single women its free to join.
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Jul 14, 2006 @ 6:09 AM I have never tried it    
mordechai


Posts: 5
when i was with my last GF it seemed to work out best if i let her pick and choose our next encounter. i always knew she had good taste so it didnt matter much too me. our main rule was we always did things together never apart. you know for safety reasons, even if all i did was watch. i think the biggest concern is always trust.
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Sep 10, 2006 @ 1:35 AM I have never tried it    
doug0534


Posts: 8
Yeah all are correct, and, if your making friends with people you are entering in a relationship. Its a hard thing to find sometimes. People have diffrent tastes and things that excite them. I will say the same thing as other people. communication is very important. expecialy with your partner!
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Dec 14, 2006 @ 7:46 AM I have never tried it    
allforyou999


Posts: 180
Been in the swinging scen for almost 10 years. Single men are sought out for couples and I have had a great time and made some great couples friends. Its best that you find a partner that will swing with you. Most clubs don't let single men in so find a swinging partner and I can tell you its great.
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Dec 26, 2006 @ 4:03 PM I have never tried it    
allforyou999


Posts: 180
Here is a great swingers site

http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=coupleswantme
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Jan 7, 2007 @ 4:05 PM I have never tried it    
swingpup


Posts: 26
What you're going to discover is that some couples desire friendship first and other don't. For some swinging is a social situation as in if they play they play no big deal and for others it's a "we are going to play" situation. Most swing clubs that are legitimate will be {email address removed}.com
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Jan 26, 2007 @ 10:15 PM I have never tried it    
honeynme


Posts: 1
We set our rules.Sometimes it may be a person we've known for a while. We never try to have any type of relationship with them.
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Feb 1, 2007 @ 2:59 AM I have never tried it    
bruiser139


Posts: 1
so am i lets make are own rules

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Feb 24, 2007 @ 2:21 AM I have never tried it    
lk4th


Posts: 13
i've been w/my friend for about 4 years now. i prefer it that way, but it's gotten more personal.
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Feb 24, 2007 @ 2:22 AM I have never tried it    
lk4th


Posts: 13
it's fun, try it
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Feb 24, 2007 @ 5:50 AM I have never tried it    
canuhelpme258


Posts: 3,351
everyone is different from soft swinging to swapping to full on orgies... just find what works for you and for the love of sex let everyone know what is fair game before hand!
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Mar 9, 2007 @ 10:23 PM I have never tried it    
lk4th


Posts: 13
Depends how close u r. Laugh it off the next day...knowing u both enojoyed it!
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 12:23 PM I have never tried it    
blackdomme


Posts: 39
Definitely different for every couple; some swap, some don't. I recently joined a very cool swing club locally with a special "gentleman friend" and I think we will become regulars. He's more of an exhibitionist than I am but I had no problem letting others watch us. There are nights when single men are not allowed, but single women are welcome anytime (of course!). Certain rooms are only for couples, one is an "anything goes" room where there have been full-blown orgies; even saw one woman enjoying 6 guys at the same time. whew!

What can become a pain in the neck is when single guys would approach and touch me during our funtime without even asking, or they would stand there stroking themselves and start begging, totally breaking my concentration and enjoyment. They got set straight pretty damn quick by him so no worries. And as soon as he would leave to go get us drinks or make a bathroom run, the single guys would approach me and some became real pests (no thanks, not interested; I brought my own Magnum Meat... lol). Not sure what it is but do they think that just because they see a woman having sex in the club that she will do it with ANYBODY?? I also figured that the single guys came with a woman and then pay her way in and they go their separate ways; obviously she wasn't that into him or he wouldn't be trying to weasel in on other people's fun.

The club has rules and they make sure they are enforced, so it definitely makes it a fun place to be. The couples that we met and chatted with are really cool, but I have yet to find one that I might consider swapping with; he would like the girl but the guy she would be with had no appeal to me whatsoever. Plus my "friend" is interested in seeing me and another girl together, but I'm not bi so that won't happen (unless I just fake it for his enjoyment). I would have no problem watching or joining him and another girl, however, I just don't care for her to be all over me.

Having a good time so far. :-)
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 5:32 PM I have never tried it    
naughtyjenna


Posts: 229
All the clubs have rules etc. Blackdomme I am sorry, guys just think you want them. That sucks!!
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May 15, 2007 @ 8:40 PM I have never tried it    
LustyWoman


Posts: 86
Single men are sought out for couples

This is really quite untrue. Single men wanting to do a threesome are a dime a dozen Very easy to find this.

What isn't so easy is a single bi fem willing to swing with them.

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