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Feb 6, 2007 @ 5:07 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
Swingking


Posts: 41
DP DP DP DP DP
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Feb 8, 2007 @ 4:29 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
dp28


Posts: 1
Ok, you're crazy!!!!!! If you care for this girl at all, you wil allow her to have her way. My boyfriend did it for me twice and it has made our relationship stronger than ever after 15 years together.
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Feb 9, 2007 @ 3:22 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
dwg58


Posts: 1
I did the mmf thing with my woman. I thought it was great. The three of us went at it from room to room for several hours. Hell, they even went at it once after I had pettered out. It really didn't bother me. I love her, I trust her, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, nothing changed.

The problem came when I asked for the ffm thing. She didn't think she could handle it and I resented it.

Anyways, we're still together, but I think about the ffm thing all the time. I feel like I missed out on something.
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Feb 9, 2007 @ 4:27 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
lorelei555


Posts: 2
I would say...

first figure out why you have problems with it...
don't just automatically say no...

is it because you feel like if she likes it...
you'll never be enough for her?
are you uncomfortable of the thought of another man?
many het guys get squimish when they haven't quite
dealt with their own issues...

discuss with her why she is interested in it...
and explore with her why you are uncomfortable...

You might read some of the advice from poly sites...
and I'm sure there is some kind of advice posting on
this site on how to deal with jealousy or uncomfortableness...

Discussing it may help you get closer... and have a better relationship...
and ya'll maybe able to work through things... in a way that both of you
get what you want... and have the utmost satisfaction...

Is it just a fantasy?

Truth is that often fantasies are not as wonderful as the reality anyway...

have you tried it with toys first?
it may be that the idea of it is intriguing and exciting
but the actual process isn't as wonderful...
she may decide that she really doesn't want to do it...

I know I've been intrigued by it... and it sounds like it'd be fun...
but I also know... that it is a special situation when I'm relaxed enough
to do anal... and... I don't know if I could physically handle two
in that area at once... but it excites me to talk about it...
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Apr 3, 2007 @ 2:21 AM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
bentonagoodtime


Posts: 11
Use a dildo or vibrator in one hole and you in the other. They also make a strap on for guys to have two cocks just for this purpose.
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Aug 15, 2007 @ 5:08 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
lovers4us


Posts: 6
I must disagree with most of the posters on this thread. My beautiful wife and I have been married for over twenty-five years and have been involved in many MFM threesomes including DP. This is a swingers lounge and it "troubles" me that the idea of DP either FMF or MFM or any other combination of three or more is "verboten".
One rule we follow is that we are well acquainted with the male or female who joins us
and knowing this person we are sure that there is no underlying agenda, in place, that would attempt to affect our (two of us) relationship. We are both professionals and understand the implications as expressed by some but the goal is enjoying each other sexually and increasing the enjoyment, by enjoying the sex with a third or more persons.
We went through the jealousy spot with all the conseqences and decided that wasn't for us. We've lived a full life and plan to continue.
If one plans and does it right it can add to ones sexual enjoyment.
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Aug 20, 2007 @ 6:09 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
Moisha


Posts: 14
To lover4us:

I travel to Hedonism 3, Jamaica 3-5 times a year as a single male....I meet couples like you each and every trip and have had some amazing 3-somes MFM with some exceptional people...

So much so that in Jan 2006 I was invited and went to Dallas for a week to be with a Hedo couple and then again in Jan 2007 I was in Tampa under the same circumstance's...

I've come to learn one thing that is pretty common in almost all of the couples I';ve met in the lifestyle....they all have very strong committed relationships....They know that sex is a physical thing to enjoy but the real deal, the emotional love they share isn't affected by the physical pleasure of adding another male, female or couple to their 'play time'
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 3:21 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
bigj69


Posts: 1
I got a nice cock
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Dec 17, 2007 @ 8:24 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
Canuhelpme said:

"It takes a loving trusting couple to open their bed to others."

Since when??? Letting another person(s) into the middle of one of the most intimate aspects of a couple's lives is anything BUT indicative of love and trust.
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Jan 9, 2008 @ 11:40 PM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
Blueeyedboy69


Posts: 3
I agree with you it is like relationship suicide. Unless your parner never knows about you doing it outside the relationship
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Jul 13, 2008 @ 7:33 AM Girl wants threesome with another man, you know DP...    
jimfoster69


Posts: 4
In my experience if a woman has the nerve to tell you she wants a DP and a dildo isn't what she wants you better find a friend and get used to threesomes. She has either been thinking about this for a long time or she has already had one in her past and liked it. By the time a woman asks for something or mentions it she wants or needs it pretty bad. Actually its a compliment that she brought it up and she trusts you to make it happen for her. Its only sex and you can't wear out a pussy and a threesome would be better that her sneaking off and doing it without you. I have had a threesome and worked my ass off making both women cum at the same time ect. Somehow 2 mouths, 2 pussies, and 4 tits is a lot of work, But being a workaholic I did my best................LOL Later,


Wild Ass Jim
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