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Mar 15, 2007 @ 1:50 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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I am putting this here in the hopes that some of the newbies can catch some real advice. Maybe the real title should be "how not to fuck up", but you might remember my old blog about titles. Anyway, feel free to post what you feel are the "unwritten rules" that might help newbies find out how to work the site to their best advantage. With so many that have found true love on this site, there has to be something they are doing right.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 1:51 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Once again I see people are still complaining about the age old on this site:

Men: “Why won't women talk to me...I've got a good profile.

Women: “How come there are no good men.”

Well here's the clue. First of all for the guys. This is a site that matches people on rather general parameters and doesn't include any of those hokey “personality profiles” that I can tell you are worth shit. In other words, there is no magic answer or one thing you have to do in order to get women. Never was. Not on this site. Not anywhere. Ever.

For the ladies, the big problem is how you're defining good. There are tons of good men. There are also many more bad ones. But the problem is that if you're not honest with yourself or honest with others about what you're looking for you'll never find your definition of good. I can't tell you how many women have something in their profiles about “I love to have fun.” What the hell does that say? Nothing at all. You might as well say breathing is “kinda cool.” If you're looking for a man with cash, don't be afraid to say so. If you're interested mostly in collecting garden gnomes then spit it out. Sure, there will be those that think you're awful or weird. Get over it. Unless someone knows what you're looking for they won't be able to find you.

Which raises another point. There are way and above more men on the Internet than women. So then it stands to reason that on any social site there will be more men than women there, too. How does anybody make themselves heard over all of the din? How does someone get the attention they want?

Speak up. That simple.

Take whatever approach you want, but you have to write something interesting if you want to be more than average. There are those that are known for their tremendous poetry on this site. There are those that write blogs that talk about more than just how they want to get laid or the fact that nobody has been sending them e-mails. Here are some that are on the forums that do a lot of writing (one in particular is approaching his 10,000 post mark – forum whore!) and some people are gods or goddesses among the chat rooms. Find what you like and let your real self shine through.

If you write things like:

Yo bitches be needing sex?

Anyone want to hook up?

Why doesn't anyone write to me?

Everyone is stuck up on this site.

(Or the classic) Wanna cyber?

Then more than likely no one is going to take any note of you. There are thousands more like you on this site or many others writing just the same junk. Break step and put your real personality on the web. Once you do, and people see you for who you really are, then they will undoubtedly come and find you.

Feel free to direct people to this link whenever they are complaining about not finding what they are looking for, and I'm sure that they will have some real advice then.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:16 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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I can't even tell you how good it is to have you back! Now I KNOW I'm not leaving AMD!

Good advice and information, Dom. I remember not so long ago when I was a newbie...a kind gentleman "took me under his wing" and helped me to learn the ropes. Without him, I'd have been fact, without him, I would have never become involved in the site. I was about to leave when I found the forums and posted a comment - this man emailed me in reply and now I'm hooked...on AMD and on my good friend Dominus. (Look at my friends list people - see who holds the #1 position - and always will!)

I hope the newbies read this and find it helpful!

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Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:40 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Thanks...and I do mean that humbly, but for the sake of those who need this kind of "advice section", let's try to keep chatter to a minimum and advice posts to a max, please?
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:57 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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How to fuck up?

Attack the "core" group and don't bother to back down when it is obvious you aren't wanted and your insults aren't even worthy. Also, please, invent lies such as "her picture is not her" when another person on the site took said picture and a third person witnessed the photo taking event. Oh, yes, send an abuse report stating that a member sent you an email stating he wanted to have sex with you and wants his kids to watch, especially when you don't know him at all. Yeah, cuz any and all of those things are gonna win you friends and infuence people. NOT... take your troll ass back under the bridge you came from.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 2:59 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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What she said!
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:06 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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PrincessKrissy I saw someone doing this how terrible to hurt the " core" group. I hope the " Core" group can recover.

That is horrible!!!!
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:26 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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How to fuck up on AMD.. show your true colors and have those colors not be pleasing to the masses. Plain and simple. Show how truly foolish you can be. Toss yourself a public pity party for months. Play the victim game. Be intentionally nasty to everyone. Play the egomania game. Step on your respective dick. Steal photographs from porn sites and claim them as your own. Make more of yourself than you can ever back up in the real world. Make enemies. Prove your ignorance repeatedly. Troll for (cock/pussy). Invite everyone to view you on cam. Write stories about your 15 year old daughter.

Big D gives good advice. Unfortunately the troll/illiterate/imbeciles, who need the advice most, will never read it.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:29 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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OMG (12th century anthropologists consider this archaic remnant of language to mean Odious Marsupials Groptulate) Thank you very much, please !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said this as a joke elsewhere (and it was not to make light of the severity of any situation like it), but some people think joining a social sight/event is a sweet idea after having just been in a knife fight with their SO, or after they just got finished cursing their lungs out over somebody, who CLEARLY doesn't give a crap about them.

That's partial muse, behind much of the "men aren't " ....... "women aren't" phenomenon that's sweeping the nation (.....unfortunately, sudoku and banana-nut lattes, came second to this )

You have to heal yourself, before you interact with people..... especially if you're so bruised, that you actually seek people, to prove that they're nothing but .

( ^^^^^ that says more about you, than it does, the people you're seeking to prove your "Harvard"-based theory on)

That said, use what makes you, you. For me, it wasn't something hurled at me to do, as it was a simple mathmatic equation. I wrote. Whenever I was at my lowest, I wrote. Why not do that here, and see where that takes me.

From my first blog "Be Water" ..."A woman's touch", the friends have not stopped coming, the support has not stopped coming, and that's the right place to be.

Ever watch the majesty of an ant colony ? ....It works the same way.

I'm sure all this seems wierd, coming from a username aptly titled "needsomenow". That's the beautiful thing about me. I love to watch people use their brains. You never know what that "some" (you thought it was a backyard, alley-way gang-bang). It's dually hilarious, because I'm not begging to get, I'm asking you what you need.

(stands back and fans the flame on those words)

I certainly can't compete with some of the more physically appealing, well endowed, people on here.(LMAO that's a photoshop joke ), but I speak.

That's what gets me where I need to go. I speak. Some people think I'm lying when they see my age. I'm certainly no Nordic myth. I am 23,... but the rest, of who I am, I allow to be vouched for, by my friends. That is, in its essence,

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Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:31 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Well, I think Kissy makes a point that while it's fairly easy to get attention, you have to ask yourself if it's the kind of attention you want to get or if it's site-appropriate.

It's easy to attack someone or any group to promote controversy. It's one of the easiest things to do on the internet. Remember when you were told that it's easier to make arguments against something than make good supporting arguments? If I wanted to, I could write an article that said "all people of mixed race are evil." It would get attention, but I don't think it would help me to get laid very much.

People, including this so-called "core group", will tolerate or decry whatever their will supports. That's always been the case. The real trick is singling out people who come here just to make trouble and see that their nails are clipped and teeth pulled as quickly as possible. No one wants to have a site that's all about sex, love and romance being dominated by those who are only interested in bullying and arguing.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 3:46 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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I swear! I get enough bullying and arguing on my own! Here, I can come and be myself and get to know some great folks! Great people who happen to accept me and all my quirks (no matter how freaky they may be!) Thanks ya'll!
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 5:24 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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As Usual Dom Well Said,,,,,Glad you took the time to peek out today.....

And as for you Sxze you have always been a joy.....(Always Helpful)

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Mar 15, 2007 @ 5:26 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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As Usual Dom Well Said,,,,,Glad you took the time to peek out today.....

And as for you Sxze you have always been a joy.....(Always Helpful)

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Mar 15, 2007 @ 6:28 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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From Day one,,,you wrote me on the forums you wanted me to write you,,,Didn't do that,,,,Requested for me to Spank You,,,,Didn't even comment on that,,,Now to come play with you,,,,,,One on One,,,,,Seems to me that you have GIVEN ONE TO MANY BLOW JOBS REACHED YOUR SMALL BRAIN.......From day one,,,,, I TOTALLY SAW THROUGH YOU,,,,A FAKE ignored you....even tried to ignore you when you got into it with Sniffi ,,,,,because I know her well and she can handle her own,,,,

Now you have verbally atttacked several of my friends,,,We share alot of our emotions (Just incase you don't know what that means,,,here you go STRONG GENERALIZED FEELINGS, EXCITMENT OR AGITATION) which of the latter you just did,,,,and care enough about each other to respect ones feelings,,,these forums are for banter,,,,,making friends,,,maybe more,,,,not to try and tear people apart..and embarrass them....I enjoy my friends and this site very much,,,you come in here thinking you can run all over some of them and the rest of us to just sit back and allow this shit to take place,,,,,, I DON'T THINK SO.....



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Mar 15, 2007 @ 6:32 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Sorry to offend lena. Please I am sorry!!!!!!!!
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 6:54 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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What MEME said. Part of the reason I'm one foot out the door is that I've had my fill with the fakes on here. I've had my fill with the socially dyslexic. I've had my fill with the shitty emails I get from people whom I have done nothing to directly offend.

Fuck 'em is my attitude.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 7:03 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Just as a point of interest, and for a lack of a better place to put this, how many times does someone have to apologize? Yet all of those apologies fall on deaf ears when behavior is not modified. Good grief.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 7:47 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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AWWWWWWWWWWWWWW Ody... some of us wuv you and your quiet, honest, straightforward way of putting things. Please don't leave us

And for the trolls out there... STOP giving us REAL Trolls a bad name. As president of the Troll Society I find it to be disgraceful that you can't even act in as civilized a manner as REAL Trolls act.
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 9:06 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Ody my Man,,,you know I am gonna have Ody,,,withdrawls....Please Ody I'll miss Bantering you,,,,and your input.....
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Mar 15, 2007 @ 9:38 PM How to fuck up on AMD    

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Lena bravo... well put my love!

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