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Oct 24, 2008 @ 12:01 AM BDSM??    
samsung213


Posts: 5
hey guys here the thing my GF is into BDSM and she wants me to perform it on her, so im asking you guys for some light bondage ideas eg ice over body, drawing on her etc
any ideas ppl
thanks!
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Nov 12, 2008 @ 10:39 PM BDSM??    
DarkKnightWalking


Posts: 581
I'd answer you in great detail. However, all my topics and posts in the forums always end up deleted by the mods sooner or later. ( I believe I still hold the record for the ONLY locked post in the stories forum )

Not sure if they are too hot and make the mods blush, or I know too damn much and the Government is trying to keep me quiet...
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Dec 13, 2008 @ 5:19 AM BDSM??    
shorthairblonde


Posts: 75
Well I like to be bashed, cut and whipped. I hope that's any help.
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Feb 26, 2010 @ 7:20 PM BDSM??    
Masochistic


Posts: 5
I am a masochistic man whom enjoys having my penis abused-tortured-punished. For example I enjoy fireplay, play piercing, spiked heels crushing the head of penis, abrasions, milking, electrical play, milking to namve a several! Any men out there that enjoy the same or any ladies whom enjoy performing these sadistic things?
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Feb 28, 2010 @ 8:20 PM BDSM??    
brandnewslave


Posts: 15
pouring hot wax on "sensitive" areas is very erotic. Spanking is also nice if she's into that?
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 5:45 PM BDSM??    
Gothkitten420


Posts: 31
Tie her to the bed and blinfold her while you pour hot wax all over her
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 6:51 PM BDSM??    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
i did the hot wax thing and it wasn't well recived.....then a friend says your supoosed to ice the area first.....anyone know ??

ice b4 hot wax
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 7:05 PM BDSM??    
Gothkitten420


Posts: 31
depends on your pain tolerence I dont really see the point if your going to numb it first.. they do make candles specially for that which arent as hot (they melt at a lower temp pretty sure)
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 7:46 PM BDSM??    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
hey ,.THANKS.... have to look for em.....
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Mar 7, 2010 @ 2:02 PM BDSM??    
aftershox


Posts: 51
Soy candles melt at a very low temp. Plus they clean up easily in the shower.

The hottest buring candles are beeswax. If you have a hotter burning candle, you can drip it from a higher height. Test in on your own inner thigh or wrist from the distance you want to do. Then you will know how it feels.

Alot of wax poured on th back esp the lower back feels like you aer in a spa,,,,
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Mar 9, 2010 @ 9:03 PM BDSM??    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
Not to be a bitch about it, Aftershox, but you're only partly correct.

Soy "wax" is not technically even a wax but a partially hydrogenated soy oil. That is way the melting point is so low. However, it's wise to note here that some manufacturers add "stabilizers such as palm wax, beeswax, or paraffin and these can produce a wide range of melting points (most are still under other waxes, though.)

Stearin wax melts at a lower point than beeswax, and it is a true "wax". it melts at around 131 degrees.

Paraffin can have a higher melting point than beeswax, depending on how it's made, but the difference is merely academic. Beeswax melts at 147degrees, while paraffin has an upper melting point of 147.2degrees.

Carnauba wax melts dangerously close to the boiling point (187degrees).

But a lot of this is irrelevant because anything that is being dripped off a candle is going to be much closet to the flashpoint temperature of wax (roughly about 400 degrees for waxes) due to the fact it is directly exposed to a flame. That's why candles work in the first place. That the drops start cooling quickly when exposed to air is the only reason more severe burns are avoided when doing waxplay.

However, if you want to avoid that altogether (and as Aftershox suggested, use a LOT of wax) then invest in a spa melting pot with a variable temperature and use a low melt wax. Then you can just use ladles of it!
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May 10, 2010 @ 2:28 AM BDSM??    
craignwi


Posts: 814
Clothespins. Get the plastic ones that have a hole in the handle. Get about 20 of them in a row on her body where you can get a good, deep clip (leg, chest, etc) but avoid the labia. Run a string through the holes, and pull them off like a zipper. I discovered this a while ago, and every woman I've tried it on loves it, even when the nipples are involved (not too deep on those, though).

Another fun thing is to take her shopping at your favorite adult shop, and let her get 1 or 2 things she wants *you* to use on *her*. It can be amazing what ideas are women's heads, but don't come out until they have the options in front of them.
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Jun 2, 2010 @ 11:26 PM BDSM??    
JsGirl69


Posts: 14
Not sure if they are too hot and make the mods blush, or I know too damn much and the Government is trying to keep me quiet...

Yep...theyre onto you DKW....
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Jun 5, 2010 @ 2:03 PM BDSM??    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
Clothespins. Get the plastic ones that have a hole in the handle. Get about 20 of them in a row on her body where you can get a good, deep clip (leg, chest, etc) but avoid the labia. Run a string through the holes, and pull them off like a zipper.

I haven't tried this yet. Thanks for the advice...even though it looks like you didn't stick around.
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 2:30 AM BDSM??    
mo_stargazer


Posts: 272
Just read over all the wax talk and now I'm pretty turned on.
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 10:08 AM BDSM??    
craignwi


Posts: 814
Clothespins. Get the plastic ones that have a hole in the handle. Get about 20 of them in a row on her body where you can get a good, deep clip (leg, chest, etc) but avoid the labia. Run a string through the holes, and pull them off like a zipper.

I haven't tried this yet. Thanks for the advice...even though it looks like you didn't stick around.

Yeah, I had to close up here for a while, loooooong story, but I'm back now.

And, you're welcome
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Apr 25, 2013 @ 5:01 PM BDSM??    
boarding_guy1977


Posts: 108
Try a pre session where you tie her hands loosely behind her back. Maybe with a scarf or soft rope. See how she reacts and go from there. Also to build a good trust for this stuff. Take turns. Let her lightly tie you up some too. Go a little stricter each time untill you both reach the point you don't wanna go any further. Plus the further you do get into it especially if you go into some stricter ties like hogties and such. Make sure to have a safe word.
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