I have a major jones for women's bras and panties, sometimes I think that there isn't any women in my age bracket that would be willing to/or already like my kind of thang. Am I wrong?
It sounds like your jones is to ....wear?.... women's bras and panties? Or maybe you just enjoy looking at them?
Women already wear bras and panties, so they probably don't have the same level of erotic interest in them that you do. But I have no doubt there are ladies who like to wear pretty lingerie with the express purpose of getting out of them as quickly as possible.
I suggest finding a woman your size so that you don't stretch out her expensive under things if wearing her gear is what gets you going.
Keep looking, stay positive, there's always a yin to the yang!