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Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?


Jan 8, 2008 @ 9:34 PM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
DominaKiara


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I know it is a common topic, but why are there so many fake financial domination slaves/blackmail slaves? I mean, I had to discharge 3 of Mine this week because their information was fake or they decided not to comply with the contract that they agreed to sign. Is there anyone out there who can tell Me where all of the real slaves are?
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Jan 8, 2008 @ 9:36 PM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
I wish I knew. I sure could use a yard boy come spring.
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Jan 10, 2008 @ 12:38 AM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
lunanegra


Posts: 1,478
I thought financial blackmail was illegal.Anyway,I figure anything to do with finances I couldn't part with.There are some who treat the lifestyle as if its a 'weekend' thing,far to many just see it as a "kink",but some really based their life on it and the one's who aren't serious realize that and run.
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Jan 21, 2008 @ 12:09 AM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
fcore_17


Posts: 1
I'm not sure. But my question is, why are there so many so called mistresses out there who seem to demand this form (or similar forms) of domination? Why is this such a critical part of YOUR behavior? I mean, I get the whole power and control thing. But, if you are not providing for these "slaves", then don't you think they need to ability to provide for themselves? If for no other reason, than to be able to serve their mistress. I think, if you are providing for their welfare (roof over their head, transportation, food, etc...) then great. But if not, then they have to do those things themselves. And my guess is, these are not people making tons of money. So, my logic says to me, are you really that screwed up as a person that you would put others in that position? And if they can't abide by your "rules or contracts" for all those reasons I mentioned above, what the hell's wrong with you???
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Jan 21, 2008 @ 1:56 AM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
aspiringwriter


Posts: 456
The crux of the matter has nothing to do with why a dominatrix chooses this form of domination. The question is why did the slaves enter in to the relationship to begin with if they had no intention of complying.

So, my logic says to me, are you really that screwed up as a person that you would put others in that position?

I don't see how logic could lead from what you were saying to this. This seems to me to basically be saying "Your kink is not OK!" which is just fallacious. It's not my kink, but whatever.

And if they can't abide by your "rules or contracts" for all those reasons I mentioned above, what the hell's wrong with you?
The OP was not talking about them not having the ability to pay, but rather not being willing to honestly participate in what's been mutually agreed upon. But to answer the question as stated, if that were the case, what would be wrong with her would be that she had unrealistic expectation. And may need to take a long look at the contract and make alterations to accomodate.

What the complaint was asking is why are people entering into a relationship if they are unwilling to work off the agreed upon limitations/parameters. Seems to me like it would be much the same as if somebody cheated on you in a monogamous relationship. Which may be a bit of a stretch, but not entirely.

[Edited on 1/21/2008 2:05 AM]
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Jan 21, 2008 @ 5:53 AM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
lolthisistoofunny


Posts: 511
I dunno....maybe at the "11th hour" they realize how psychologically screwed up it is to allow themselves to be put into such a degrading position.
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Jan 21, 2008 @ 3:52 PM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
sumdaysoon


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could be the drugs wear off.........too soon..........
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Jan 22, 2008 @ 6:55 PM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
40yearoldvirgin


Posts: 454
What's in the contract? Maybe you could make it a bit more liberal.
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Feb 28, 2010 @ 8:41 PM Financial Domination & Blackmail - Why are there so many fakes?    
brandnewslave


Posts: 15
I am a real slave and I will honor my contract! I don't understand why most won't honor there own contracts?
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