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Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???

Jul 9, 2011 @ 2:04 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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sex is not static, its a constant learning and growing experience. Think back to your first time and be honest about how 'great' you were. You probably werent. But we LEARN. I think if we are really in love and otherwise compatible with a person we should work on communicating our needs to our partner and learning theirs.
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Jul 9, 2011 @ 4:20 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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It works both ways. Most men claim to be the worlds greatest lovers how long they can go, how big their cocks are, how great the are in bed it's not always her fault sex isn't great
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Jul 9, 2011 @ 10:17 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Not me some are just better than others.
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Jul 16, 2011 @ 7:04 AM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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EVERYONE has a bad lay!!...If they don't they're lying too you...Everyone has had someone that did too much of something annoying or not enough of something good, lifeless, lack of creativity, prudish, the list goes on...But as the old saying goes, "A bad day "fishing" is better than a good day at work"
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Jul 22, 2011 @ 11:44 AM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I've had one in particular. I am not small down there, probably on the high side of average, not to brag, but just to shed light for understanding. I had a girl I just couldn't do anything with, it was like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. No sensation to speak of, and just a bad experience.
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Jul 25, 2011 @ 7:07 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Can't say I have, some are better than others. It's always exciting in some way, if not great. Almost forgot to add that I am one of the world's greatest lovers, in physical and athletic abilities, but not all women appreciate that. They would rather kiss and cuddle with the Pillsbury DoughBoy, since there is not a hard bone in his body.

[Edited on 7/25/2011 7:14 PM]
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Sep 4, 2011 @ 9:05 AM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I have had two that I certainly say were bad and I didn't repeat it. Hell No!!
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Sep 4, 2011 @ 6:53 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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every person has a worst lay, end of story. The worst lay you ever had might not be all that bad though.
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Sep 24, 2011 @ 12:33 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Why is it always the womans fault? Some men think their gods gift when it involves sex and their the one who make it bad by rushing things. The woman hasn't had time to warm up and it's over
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Nov 19, 2011 @ 8:18 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Well said joann52
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Nov 20, 2011 @ 12:24 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Wasn't the question really a loaded one to suggest that men are essentially such selfish lovers that he is satisfied regardless of how the experience truly was? That's how I read it.

I guess that could be a reasonable generalization as men don't in general have as many instinctive emotional and sexual needs for the experience to be satisfying.

But I really think there are many that aren't satisfied at all unless it's a mutually satisfying experience and we do know when it was us that didn't bring our A-Game.
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Nov 20, 2011 @ 12:29 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Many men feel that because they don't make a woman orgasm we are bad lays and cold. Men seem to forget it takes us longer to orgasm than it does them. Try being more patient and give us a chance
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Nov 20, 2011 @ 12:37 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I agree Aqua. A man that takes your advice receives so much more from it that makes it worthwhile to do so.
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Dec 6, 2011 @ 6:42 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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i'm a woman who's had bad lays from men so it works both ways
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Nov 9, 2012 @ 1:35 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I have had a few. If both partners aren't fully focused then its not going to be fun for either. As a guy I know I have to focus. Time my rhythms with hers. Breath properly. Slow down at certain times but also maintain a certain speed and rhythm. And it is very easy for us guys to lose that focus and cum. But as you are with a partner more and more and learn about each other. And you start timing your orgasms together and delay them more and more. It gets more amazing each time. I have had past girlfriends that we got so in sync and knew each other so well that we would go about everything so slow. Slowing down when we needed. Sometimes even stopping but leaving my cock in her. That kept me from cumming but also kept me hard. Combined with proper breathing. We would go for hours. And when we did both orgasm together. It was the best orgasms ever. Those great euphoric feelings when you orgasm that usually last for second lasted for minutes and were 1000's of times more intense. It was like we were both floating at times.

Now with all that said. And when us guys realize that if we work hard to make it better for our girls. That it also makes it amazing for us too. Yeah it feels good even if we cum fast but what real man wants to see that disappointed look on our girls face when we do. Leaving her frustrated. I guess hard work really does have its rewards

But after one girl in particular that we "synced" well and knew each other perfectly. Not all but some girls after that wouldnt try as hard. And yes I would cum And sometimes they would too. But it was mediocre at best. Especially after orgasms that were lasting minutes instead of seconds.

So yeah on some occasions us guys get a bad lay too
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Dec 1, 2012 @ 6:05 PM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I wouldn't classify any as horrible.. but sometimes people just do not provide any emotional feedback though their body language, if you're just kind of going through the motions.. yes it feels good from a physical standpoint, but the same experience is just not there; so much of the enjoyment is mental.
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Dec 19, 2012 @ 4:25 AM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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I think evrey one at some point has a bad experience w/ intercorse..mine is usually when the strapon shes using is too big.
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Mar 19, 2013 @ 1:19 AM Does A Man Every Have A Bad Lay???    

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Never had no bad pussy.. Just pussy I wouldn't fuck again
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