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Apr 24, 2007 @ 11:24 AM Domination    

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I was wondering what's with people that like being Dominated as in wipes chains straps cuffs all the kinky stuff. What do you get from it and why do you enjoy it?

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May 2, 2007 @ 2:36 AM Domination    

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I just now saw this post...

First of all, domination isn't strictly about "whips and chains" and that is a common misconception. BDSM is not ALL about whips and chains.

For me, I've found that when being submissive it's about giving yourself completely to your Dom, it's HIS way, it's what pleases HIM and in return you get pride and pleasure beyond measure. Also for me, I happen to like pain. It heightens the sensations and the eroticism of the moment.

I'm sure there are others here to can provide more insight as well.
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May 9, 2007 @ 11:51 AM Domination    

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That's the biggest misconception about BDSM. Whips and Chains are only a small part of domination. BDSM is about power exchange between both partners.

With regard to what I get out of it. To me there's no greater joy than giving myself freely to my partner as her sub/pet.

Beside all that! Basic sex is boring after awhile. Variety is the spice of life. Kinky sex rules lol
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Jun 30, 2007 @ 8:35 AM Domination    

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There is a certain thrill added to the element when, as a sub, you
are forced to do something while being controlled that the one in control
won't have to do. They don't have to do it but they will watch you do it.

Whatever it may be, depends on their imagination. Does it include
humiliation or degradation? Possibly, again depending on the mind behind
the matter. I could be either one, but for some reason, I think I could be a
better sub offering obedience to the female or females in charge. I don't
think obeying another male would work too well with me though. Possibly
under the right scenario, maybe. Who knows though when the female is
giving the orders.
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Jul 18, 2007 @ 8:16 AM Domination    

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It's definitely a mental thing, as fantastic sex typically is. It's more about being able to let go and completely give yourself to your partner and trusting him enough to do that. Yeah, and some subs are 'bad' and need a little reminder of who's in charge. ;-)
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Jul 18, 2007 @ 3:42 PM Domination    

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Yeah, and some subs are 'bad' and need a little reminder of who's in charge. ;-)

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Jul 18, 2007 @ 9:36 PM Domination    

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wooohoooo! I like being naughty ;-)
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Jul 18, 2007 @ 10:45 PM Domination    

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Well then, get down with ya bad self...and show us what'cha got and can do!
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Jul 25, 2007 @ 12:14 PM Domination    

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some subs are 'bad'
yep South.....unfortunately that can be me at times .....I have to have a stern Master
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 1:27 PM Domination    

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There is so much to this more than just bondage (although that’s really Hot!). The control and domination and the sweet surrender of giving over of control is what really does it for me. Whether it is total domination in role-play or a real life slow seduction and loss of self which is harder to accomplish yet is the more powerful of the two.
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Dec 9, 2007 @ 11:49 PM Domination    

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I'm evil and I deserve to be punshed!
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