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Oct 27, 2012 @ 10:25 AM BDSM    
WolfLady2002


Posts: 19
Boarding Guy I know exactly what you mean. I have been with Doms who actually made me laugh. Didn't help their ego's any. oh well mean it when you want me. For me it has become only in the bedroom. I used to do full time submissive, but found those who thought they were doing D/s but in reality were just control idiots. Or they are just plain lazy. There is a big difference. Go get me my cofee woman.. does not constitute D/s when the rest of the time the relationship is vanilla

So when I DO submit to a man, he has to earn that. Maybe that sounds backwards but if a Dominant is not upholding his own end, then he has failed to hold my respect, if we went into it as Dom sub


I honestly believe many don't realize that Dominants are people first, with emotions, bad days, and days where they just feel off. Dominant does not mean controlling 100% and 100% of the time. Allow them to be human as well
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Nov 8, 2012 @ 1:03 AM BDSM    
boarding_guy1977


Posts: 123
WolfLady you so get it more than most others I've talked to about this on here. I know when I was just getting into bondage. I naturally had alot to learn and well I made lots of mistakes. But thats ok as long as both parties involved are willing to learn.

I've heard many times that it is the sub that is in control and at first I'm thinking no way. But again having done both. In some ways I did feel in more control when I was the sub. I mean for one you are there helpless but also the dom is "servicing" you so to speak and you are there restricted but having someone do things to you.

I dont explain things the best in the world but any real bondage lovers on here Like WolfLady especially will completly get what I mean.
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Dec 4, 2012 @ 2:43 AM BDSM    
0812cowboy


Posts: 5
Switching is the way to go as you get both sides
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Dec 29, 2012 @ 10:30 AM BDSM    
jimholl


Posts: 2
I would love to spank you!
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Dec 29, 2012 @ 10:32 AM BDSM    
jimholl


Posts: 2
A sub should also be loved and respected as a person!
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Jan 14, 2013 @ 11:40 AM BDSM    
hers2b


Posts: 2
Love being dominated by a big woman.
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Jan 24, 2013 @ 5:04 PM BDSM    
boarding_guy1977


Posts: 123
Anyone at all ever just wanna chat about bondage. Experiences or ideas or anything. Feel free to hit me up
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Feb 12, 2013 @ 8:06 PM BDSM    
Cherokeemedmad


Posts: 17
I love it too.i am a Dom thats been in the lifestyle for 27 yrs.
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