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Mar 20, 2010 @ 3:57 AM Rape fantasy?    
mjheart


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I think its great that you can express a positive side to a terrible thing! Sharing those with your partner can be wonderful for you both, in full consent and role-playing, anyway
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Apr 7, 2010 @ 5:26 PM Rape fantasy?    
daddiesgirl


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of course, just the idea of being tied up and raped is a turn on, besides all the guys i know say that women who have been raped make the best sex partners!
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Apr 7, 2010 @ 9:47 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
Daddiesgirl, you need to reel it in.

Rape is NEVER something good.

The fantasy is one thing, as imagery is just that and nothing more.

Bondage play is a consensual agreement that when done right is stronger than love.

But rape is a violent non-consensual crime, whether it's through coercion or by force. I don't know a legitimate Master who would let ANYONE be raped if he knew about it, and if they say they would then they are a bastard that's been ostracized by the BDSM community as a whole.

On the other hand, comments like that are often made by frat boy amateurs that often don't know shit-and-a-doughnut about how to use that pleasure and pain to bring out orgasms that most people only dream about.

I've seen hour-and-a-half long educed climaxes. I never met a frat boy alive who could manage that on his best day.
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May 14, 2010 @ 10:17 PM Rape fantasy?    
thespastic


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I have no problem with your Rape Fantasy in fact i would love to help you with it. I want to be your man. to made your fantasy come true. please.
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May 16, 2010 @ 8:58 PM Rape fantasy?    
secretnympho


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i have this fantasy too, but i think mine is for the reason that someone said before- its about wanting to think the man wants me so bad he cant stop himself.

its kind of tied into a love of the petruchio/rhett butler type man (for me) -one who wants me and knows i want him too however much i try to deny it, and shuts me up with kisses until my body admits what my words wont, that i want him too.
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May 21, 2010 @ 2:12 PM Rape fantasy?    
yourfriendholly


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Even the thought of it makes me sick . Lately on the news there's been more and more reports of rape. The woman's or in some case young girls life will never be the same again. I can't imagine ANYONE having a fantasy about it. Do men have a fantasy about walking in the park, out of the bushes jumps another man, the man throws him to the ground then shoves a big penis in his ass?
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Sep 19, 2010 @ 5:22 PM Rape fantasy?    
torie9287


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ive always wanted to be in a rape fantasy! I ve only had sex twice becasue part of me is still so shy about sex. If i were in a rape fantasy I wouldnt be able to think and back out. I would be dominated and i know i would wind up really enjoying it.
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Sep 19, 2010 @ 6:11 PM Rape fantasy?    
loveablejanet


Posts: 247
Don't fantasize about it. Go to a bad part of Saint Pete some night and get raped then come back and tell us you want to have a rape fantasy That's 1 fucking sick fantasy
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Sep 19, 2010 @ 6:54 PM Rape fantasy?    
bullrider102


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Well everyone has their own fantasies and Who's to say what's sick or perverted. It's not my call certainly, but what do you call women who like several men at a time?
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Sep 20, 2010 @ 6:44 PM Rape fantasy?    
loveablejanet


Posts: 247
VERY HORNY
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Sep 20, 2010 @ 6:56 PM Rape fantasy?    
ynot7769


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tell ya what janet you come here n rape me
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Sep 20, 2010 @ 7:37 PM Rape fantasy?    
loveablejanet


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I hate that word as much as I hate the "c" word
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Sep 22, 2010 @ 4:38 PM Rape fantasy?    
amy_on_the_loose


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Rape is such a sick and terrible thing. I can't understand how anyone would use it as a fantasy
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Oct 26, 2010 @ 7:40 AM Rape fantasy?    
loyalbuthorny


Posts: 40
I dream about it a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jan 6, 2011 @ 3:00 AM Rape fantasy?    
raquel30


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i also have that fantasy..never done it
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Jan 7, 2011 @ 3:11 AM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
Rape is such a sick and terrible thing. I can't understand how anyone would use it as a fantasy

Because fantasies are very different from realities.

Bottom line is that rape is a crime of violence and no one wants to have a violent crime happen to them.

But the fantasy is a different matter. If it is internalized then it is really only using imagery, and that is a very healthy psychological strategy. But even if two or more people consent to act on it, consensually, then it is role playing and that really isn't anything close to a violent crime either.
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Jan 7, 2011 @ 7:23 AM Rape fantasy?    
zargothman


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porn stars that get abused when young, are not in control of the situation,
so when they get paid for it they feel back in control, but this is a delusion
because the person that pays the piper calls the tune (the porn star being the piper)
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Jan 9, 2011 @ 3:38 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


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porn stars that get abused when young, are not in control of the situation,
so when they get paid for it they feel back in control, but this is a delusion
because the person that pays the piper calls the tune (the porn star being the piper)

Umm...a little off topic...and so frickin' Freudian it's goofy. This attitude hasn't been supported by psychology since the 70's.
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Jan 9, 2011 @ 5:23 PM Rape fantasy?    
SexPet


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Rape in the real world is just that... rape. In fact, I don't even have a girlfriend or female relative who has NOT been raped at some point, myself included. And it's always a bad and tramautic experience.

However, in the bedroom - there is something about "pretending" to be forced to have sex that is liberating to some women (i, myself, do not need this) because they have been taught their whole lives that sex is wrong/bad/slutty/whatever... so in this fantasy role, they can feel more free to enjoy themselves because they are being forced to have this pleasure.

Anyway, that's what I think.
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Jan 11, 2011 @ 4:32 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


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No, Sexpet, you pretty much nailed it. Especially by pointing out that rape is very common. Whether by force or coercion it's violent and wrong and needs to be treated like the horrible thing it is. But rape is rape and fantasies are fantasies and role-playing is role playing.

If I buy a toy like this and pretend I'm a horse for my partner, it by no means indicates either of us is interested in bestiality. It just means we're trying something a little different.

Playing out rape fantasies is the same thing, as long as it's consenting.
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