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Mar 18, 2009 @ 4:04 PM Rape fantasy?    
Gallowglass1976


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It's a big secret that... you just told everyone??? My head hurts. Ah much better.
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Jun 1, 2009 @ 1:47 AM Rape fantasy?    
wa_angel


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I totally thought I was alone. I had been raped a few times when i was younger and I thought I was insane for wanting it again. But It had to be by someone I trusted and knew would stop if I needed to but. I had my man pretend like he was walking into the apt across the hall and he was wearing a black hoody and when I unlocked the door he rushed in behind me through me up against the wall and held a knife to my throat (very carefully of coarse) and threatened me. Then he took me to the bedroom still holding me close and threatening me with the knife then he ripped my shirt off and used it to tie my hands behind my back and totally fucked my brains out while I "begged" him to stop. That was the most pleasing outstanding and incredible sexual experience of my life. But I truely believe it has to be with someone you trust totally and you should also have an out word like red or puppy. It shouldn't be anything like NO or Stop or please don't.
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Jun 12, 2009 @ 4:53 PM Rape fantasy?    
rocco518


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you should try it when tripping on drugs :) it might feel very real then
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Dec 5, 2009 @ 1:25 AM Rape fantasy?    
mark995


Posts: 6
My friend and I well my girlfriend.Its liek wed do different ones, rape while shes asleep, rape in the bath room, raped in the officeraped while she was in distress. In other words shes trapped and her arms cant move my favorite one was tryoing to run away and being caught and raped. I LOVED to do give her anal sex. She was so tight a couple of times I was stretched. But I would always give her such a creampie.
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Dec 5, 2009 @ 1:28 AM Rape fantasy?    
mark995


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I wouldnt stop you
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Jan 12, 2010 @ 11:29 PM Rape fantasy?    
mo_stargazer


Posts: 272
I have a rape fantasy but I've never been with someone who I trusted enough or who was willing.
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Jan 13, 2010 @ 12:29 AM Rape fantasy?    
TexasRacer


Posts: 56
My sister was raped. He don't walk anymore. Dallas police just couldn't seem to make a case.

Guys, some fantasies are just left being that. Real life can be a lot more cruel. One word. brothers..................
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Jan 13, 2010 @ 12:33 AM Rape fantasy?    
mo_stargazer


Posts: 272
There's a huge difference between the real thing and fantasy/roleplaying.
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Jan 13, 2010 @ 1:16 PM Rape fantasy?    
frogprincess


Posts: 309
My sister was raped. He don't walk anymore. Dallas police just couldn't seem to make a case.

I'm so sorry.
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Jan 13, 2010 @ 4:32 PM Rape fantasy?    
willingtwo


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I wanted to be forced to eat pussy, and have a women hulmileate me, piss on my face pull my hair us a starp on in my ass well she tied me up and then in came a friend of hers and he fucked me whey she pulled my hair and called me a bitch and pissed in my face and made me clean her up, at frist I did not thiink I was going to like it but wow it was great :0
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Mar 8, 2010 @ 1:31 AM Rape fantasy?    
V_Dresden


Posts: 59
I've had fantasies of being forced. When I first started having them, I thought something was wrong with me. There isn't. I found a good answer on Yahoo Answers. Thought some of you might like to see this:

"i'm guessing that you're a woman, so the first thing that you should know is that having rape fantasies is not uncommon among women. Studies indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have rape fantasies, and they are frequent in 9% to 17% of women. I think most women really appreciate subtle to moderate domination in the bedroom--a little forceful restraint, a little pain--as long as we feel safe.

There are a few theories to why women have rape fantasies:

Desirabilty - Many women like to believe that they're so attractive that men cannot resist the urge to overtake them.

Reaction to Trauma - Most masturbatory fantasies are attempts to transform early difficult experiences into pleasure. So those who have been sexually abused may try to master their trauma by taming those experiences.

Sexual Blame Avoidance - Women are socialized to not seek out sex (unless they want to be considered sluts), but if they're having sex against their will they can avoid guilt. This theory would also only apply to some women.

Openness to Sexual Experience - In some ways this is the opposite of the last one, and it doesn't explain rape fantasies but it describes the type of person to have them. If you're sexually open, you entertain a greater variety of fantasies.

Male Rape Culture - The idea that women have been conditioned to buy into men's fantasies of domination.

Biological Predisposition to Surrender - In many mammalian species, the male must pursue and subdue the female in order to mate. This theory states that women may be programmed to surrender to the successful dominant male.

Sympathetic Activation - The sympathetic nervous system becomes engaged in times of stress or danger, activating a fight or flight response marked by increased heart rate, respiration, pupil dilation, and genital arousal. Just like on a roller coaster, fear, pleasure, and excitement go hand in hand."

The Psycology Behind Rape Fantasies
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Mar 8, 2010 @ 6:36 PM Rape fantasy?    
nativeamr35


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My ex-gf had/has a dom/rape fetish. I was never very good at it. I just can't seem to be in the mood while "taking" someone.

I would be horny as hell and she would start fighting with me. I tried to force her, but after a minute I realized I was limp and well kinda pointless then.

So I went to sleep with blue balls, pissed off and exhausted. Not my idea of a good time.
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Mar 9, 2010 @ 2:15 PM Rape fantasy?    
melissa4real


Posts: 475
it's the last thing I would have a fantasy about if i'm going to have sex with a man I want it so we both can be happy after
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Mar 9, 2010 @ 8:37 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
If you ever read Nancy Friday's psychology work, you know that it's one of the top 5 fantasies of women...but they don't wish to experience an actual rape. (The top fantasy FYI is "having an anonymous partner/a mystery lover".)
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Mar 10, 2010 @ 2:15 AM Rape fantasy?    
V_Dresden


Posts: 59
That's really the top fantasy?!?! Not for me. I like looking in a man's eyes when I pleasure him.
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Mar 10, 2010 @ 2:20 AM Rape fantasy?    
ynot7769


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*runs back in to show his eyes*
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Mar 10, 2010 @ 2:39 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
But then, is that a "fantasy" then, Dresden?
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Mar 10, 2010 @ 8:20 PM Rape fantasy?    
V_Dresden


Posts: 59
[/QUOTE]But then, is that a "fantasy" then, Dresden?[QUOTE]

Is what a fantasy? Looking into a man's eyes? No, because that is what I do!

BTW, ynot... nice eyes!!!
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Mar 10, 2010 @ 8:27 PM Rape fantasy?    
B9CC1D


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Well, from a psychology standpoint, a "fantasy" (which is different from a delusion) consciously employs imagery (an imagined vision or circumstance) and can be used for a wide variety of purposes. Everything from stimulation to therapy.

In one sense, I suppose that you can have a fantasy where you look into a man's eyes...but if you are in the process of actually doing it then it's not really a fantasy anymore. As it's not using imagery, then there is no fantasy.
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Mar 11, 2010 @ 11:03 AM Rape fantasy?    
patsyann


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i have masters that own me. it is my job to be used & abused to whatever extent that my masters want to treat me to. i am very regularly, gang raped & abused, often in public and/or for a paying audience. it is not for show nor r there any tricks to cover up the bruises & bleeding. it is my role as a sex pain slut to be used. this is a 100% genuine comment & if anyone wud like any further information just ask.
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