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That book "fifty shades" has made things harder for me.

Oct 25, 2012 @ 10:27 PM That book "fifty shades" has made things harder for me.    

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I have for year now be on and off again been DOM to couple long last Sub's. After this book became popular it been in my opinion harder to find a SUB.
In the past, I would use this site, craigslist, and one time local bookstore found woman that wanted to be a Sub. I would train them which would cause them to either find out they just had fancy for it and other moved on because they really were one.
Lately I have been getting a lot more interest, winks, emails and so on. Of course half Craigslist responses are Spam and couple on this website are so (one was 419 scam...which is story for another forum).
You might say great, but most those interested are really interesting in stories and how I train. In the end I invest time to only find out they only interested in chapters of my story for their own pleasure.
Don't get me wrong, I have normal sex and do the cyber sex at times, because training Sub is hard work. But I never lie about that either.
I guess I'm just venting...I'm sure I am not the only one.
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Oct 27, 2012 @ 10:15 AM That book "fifty shades" has made things harder for me.    

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It's interesting you should say this. When I was a Femdom I found that the male "subs" were only in it for their sexual fun. It was usually not someone who wanted the servitude and seeing to their Dominants needs. I do now bottom in the bedroom, BUT I state right out front it is to not involve Orgasm control in any way, it's the need to be overpowered in the bedroom I enjoy. But the subs who came to me were just in it for what THEY could get. Remember this is long before 50 Shades of Grey came out. it was in the late 90's that I was a Domme. I had a couple of Dominant males come to me as well, but did not enjoy that so much as when I had a limit, their Dominant side wanted to stretch MY limit! F that lol. A hard limit is just that.. HARD LIMIT.

Now with 50 shades out it seems everyone wants a "taste", they do not want the real deal. So I can understand where you are coming from
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