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| May 18 @ 8:34 PM |
How do you respond with someone in the real world? |
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Skutt
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I am married, happily, and am here for the discussion of things. I was reading a post that asked "How long has it been since you have had sex?" I signed up so I could comment but now I can't find the post again. I was surprised how many people, men and women who said it has been quite a long time for them. My wife and I actually met online although it wasn't on a matchmaking site, just a chat room where we had mutual interest. This has gotten me to thinking that if it wasn't for meeting my wife online how long would I have gone without connecting up with another woman? I wasn't having any luck without the internet at the time. I was never a ladies man and actually never picked up a gal at a bar or grocery store, or anywhere for that matter in my life. How do you respond when someone talks to you away from sites like this, in the real world? I guess I consider myself lucky as I made a good connection with a great gal online more than seven years ago.
Sex is good with her and I can finally feel relaxed about it and she even sat here talking with me as I signed up to post here. Wife #1 turned into the ultimate NO girl. Like the saying on a hat I once saw a guy wearing. "I married a nun, nun in the morning, nun at night" Am I ever glad those days are behind me.
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| May 20 @ 6:51 AM |
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CloudDancer69
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I got tired of having sex all the time, so I got married, nipped that problem right in the bud 
But seriously,, I think the best way to meet someone, is to just be yourself, people want to see the real person, especially if there is hopes of any sort of a relationship developing. If ya try and bullshit your way into something you will get found out every time.
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| Jul 18 @ 12:08 PM |
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69oak69
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I think most of the advice given out on meeting people(in the "real world") is about 75% BS. Everyone seems to think(or wants to believe) that you can meet a potential partner by just being yourself, going about your routine business, and following your own interests: that is, without going too far out of your way. That might work for college kids, but in the adult world meeting potential partners requires some affirmative effort. If you live in an area where there is an imbalance between numbers of men and numbers of women, you'll probably have to work fairly hard at it, if your sex is in the majority. But evrybody wants to believe that they can meet someone accidently, like they do in the movies, thats why we're told to approach women in grocery stores: so we can all pretend that we arent having to put any effort into meeting someone. We dont want anyone to think we are so desperate that we are actually having to work at trying to find someone.
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| Jul 20 @ 4:18 PM |
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MrsBrown
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I am married, happily, and am here for the discussion of things.
I am so glad to hear someone else say that. I've been a member for all of 24 hours and already I have had to alter my profile so that it says CLEARLY, *multiple times*, that I am here for friendship only.
::wryly:: I don't think the guys sending me emails bother reading first.
I'm sure if I keep at it, I'll find some interesting, nice, hands-off people.
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