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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 9:54 PM |
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winterrenegade
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for the people on here that know me, i would like your opinion on anything that i might or need too change in the way i am.
cause too me it seems like i get ignored a lot and all i'm tryin too do is be as honest as i can, i'm sorry i'm not really into the sex scene like most of ya are
that just aint me. please feel free too give me some input
thank you
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 12:12 AM |
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HER_NIGHTMARE
Posts: 389
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I don't think many of the blokes on here do...
Maybe we should invest in some breats.
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 3:05 AM |
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xSUCKERPUNCHx
Posts: 344
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it's because you're a bunch of heartless sex hounds.
but i still love you both.
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 2:10 PM |
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ynot7769
Posts: 17,358
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it's because you're a bunch of heartless sex hounds.
but i still love you both.
me too right???  
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 8:56 PM |
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maggiemae1969
Posts: 137
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 to winterrenegade...........
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 9:01 PM |
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sweetnasty1
Posts: 2,575
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Don't go changing to please anyone. Have you been over on regular matchdoctor? I don't know why you're being ignored. 
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| Apr 5, 2007 @ 4:47 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,520
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regular matchdoctor is full of rude disrespectful people over there,
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| Apr 5, 2007 @ 8:38 PM |
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sweetnasty1
Posts: 2,575
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regular matchdoctor is full of rude disrespectful people over there, Wow, I had no idea. Sorry to hear that.
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| Apr 5, 2007 @ 10:39 PM |
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Good_lil_feller
Posts: 103
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Dude, Don't change anything, if your being honest and respectfull, so be it. I'm the same way, and it took a while to meet some cool friends, (they know who they are)........ 
So my advice is be your self, and things will happen.
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| Apr 6, 2007 @ 2:31 PM |
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Blueyesprkln
Posts: 300
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Why would you want to change for the people here Winter? Do they make your world go around? Pay your bills? Darlin, stay just as you are. Don't change for anyone. You're a sweet man. You'll make friends here if you're more outgoing. It doesn't always have to have sexual content to make some of us happy. I like just a "normal" conversation. I'm sure many more here do too.
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| Apr 6, 2007 @ 3:24 PM |
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sweetnasty1
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I like just a "normal" conversation. I'm sure many more here do too.
I agree with blueyes. I actually prefer that type of conversation when I first start talking to somebody. Sometimes I do like to talk about sex too but I still say that you should be just who you are and not change for anyone.
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| Apr 6, 2007 @ 5:22 PM |
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me248
Posts: 3,142
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I know that I don't know you.....but here's an outsiders general opinion......
I agree with Blue and Sweet.....you don't need to change yoursef for anyone....as long as your happy with who you are, then others will pick up on that and like you too....you just need to find the people that love and respect you for who you are...yes, they are out there, you just have to have patience.... and don't worry about the rest of the people....you can't please everybody right?
Hell, I'm a big goofball on here, and often my comments have a lot of sexual content in them....but really I'm just a regular gal like most of them....that's having a great time flirting and playing around here.....in reality I am very respectful, and caring of people.....I don't sit around the dinner table with friends and family and talk abuot sex all day long....when I'm talking in e-mails and such I very much enjoy just "normal" conversation....sure, with some people it can turn sexual sometimes, but it doesn't have to, and I like the conversation just as much with or without the sexual content.....don't sell yoursef short winter....I'm sure your a great guy just the way you are....so don't change for anybody....you'd probably only resent them for it later anyway, not to mention, hate yourself....just be true to yourself, and be the guy that when you look in the mirror, your proud of who's looking back at you!
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| Apr 7, 2007 @ 12:47 AM |
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shellsmack
Posts: 7,612
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WINTER...just be yourself, don't try to be like other people! That's my advice. Being unique in your own way will get you everywhere babe.
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| Apr 7, 2007 @ 10:14 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,520
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thanks ya'll your words mean a lot too me
right now i still have some more stuff too figure out
i left cause it was gettin bad and needed help with what was goin on
after last night i don't know what too think right now
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 8:52 AM |
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xSUCKERPUNCHx
Posts: 344
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think that we reckon you're tops
and if anyone messes with you i'll fuck em right up.
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 11:30 AM |
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zaralyon
Posts: 336
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Winter you are a nice guy, and you do not need to change. I for one like to talk to you as you are, and have a real conversation.
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 12:03 AM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,520
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i just lost a friend today cause she couldn't be honest with me and wanted too hide things
we have been friends for years, and she just got out of a bad relationship and i have given her space and everything, i thought she really liked me and it turns out i was wrong.
i get all this for just being a nice guy
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 1:02 AM |
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me248
Posts: 3,142
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i just lost a friend today cause she couldn't be honest with me and wanted too hide things
we have been friends for years, and she just got out of a bad relationship and i have given her space and everything, i thought she really liked me and it turns out i was wrong.
i get all this for just being a nice guy
Ok, I can't say I know either of you but.....
first off, in slight defense to her....maybe she just didn't know how to tell you her true feelings about you, because she knew it would affect you the way that it obviously is...ie:making you feel terrible about yourself...now I'm by no means condoning her actions ....because she should have been up front with you right from the start....but I'm just trying to look at both sides here....
and in your defense.....I know it's difficult, but try not to feel bad about it....you are a nice guy.....and you did what you thought was right.....she just took advantage of your emotions....unfortunitly some people will do that....if she's any kind of real woman at all, she probably feels terrible about it.....but if not, then it's not you who has the problem here, it was her....I know you thought of her as a friend, but she was never really your friend....friends don't lie and hide things from each other, especially if they know it affects the other person....you'll have to try to forget about her, and others like her....there are lots of people that are just going to take from you, and then leave you sittin' in the cold....but there are also a lot of really honest, decent people too....ones that care all the time, not just when they need you....or want their ego stroked....don't change who you are for the users and abusers of this world....unless you plan to become one yourself....othewise you won't be able to look yourself in the mirror.....just remember how good you felt about yourself when you knew you were helping out and being a real friend....be proud of that man....and don't beat him up for being one of the good guys....
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| Apr 16, 2007 @ 4:14 PM |
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,520
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thanks me, that makes a lot of sense, i talked with her brother today and he isn't happy at how she treated me.
he's goin too have a talk with her tonight and get back with me. i'm not her ex, and shouldn't be treated like i am.
i even told her that i deserve too be treated better and that's when she started tellin me that i am controling and pushy, all because sometging didn't sound right and i asked her why they didn't sound right
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 1:25 AM |
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me248
Posts: 3,142
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good luck winter....stay strong, stick to your morals....and don't forget that you deserve to be treated well........ you can't force someone to like you, or to be nice to you though....so if she doesn't/isn't.....you have to let it go, and move on, ASAP!.....no matter how difficult it is for you....the longer you drag it on, the longer you'll feel like shit....if she's a true friend, she will come to you again someday....if not, then she was never your friend to begin with....
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