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being single can be very hard at times.


Feb 13, 2007 @ 9:43 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
499BLU


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the single life is not always easy.this is especially true when that old feeling
of being alone kicks in.
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Feb 14, 2007 @ 11:25 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
shellsmack


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That's one of the biggest things I fear is being alone.
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Feb 15, 2007 @ 1:20 AM being single can be very hard at times.    
BigBadBootyDaddy247


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Being single sucks ass. I have the same fear. I love being in love and having someone special in my life. SIngle people should get free drinks in bars on Valentines day.
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Feb 15, 2007 @ 7:09 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
shellsmack


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Let me clear something up. I'm not afraid of being single, I'm afraid of being alone.
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Feb 15, 2007 @ 11:35 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
BigBadBootyDaddy247


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I had a dream once that I was dying and the only thought in my head was that I cant die, I havent found my soulmate yet. I undrstand the difference between being single and being alone. Just keep your head up, usually they come when you least expect.
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 9:24 AM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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Yeah, I've got to agree...at times being single can really suck! However, it also has certain advantages!

Now as for being alone...I think it's something everyone dreads or fears. However, at the same time...I'd much rather be alone and lonely, than to be with someone just to be with someone...so I'm not alone.

As I would rather be alone, than to be with someone and still feel alone and being lonely inside. I know, as I've been there once or twice!

Which is why I don't "FALL" for ANY WOMAN after only a few weeks or months...as I think it takes time! I no longer RUSH into a relationship after a few weeks or months just to be with someone...as I said...you can be with someone and still feel alone and lonely.
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 10:43 AM being single can be very hard at times.    
MEMEME69247


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Being single is great,,,,,You come and go as you please at all times,,,,You only have to clean up after yourself,,,when you feel like it.....You buy and eat what you want,,,no one to argue with you....You watch what you want on tv without someone asking for the remote...You masterbate,,,and clean up your own mess and not your partners too....
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 10:55 AM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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Lena, you've brough up some very good points on living the single life...however, I feel you can have all of those things even when you're living with someone.

I've always believed in 3 things when in a relationship...

My life, her life, and our lives...if you're not able to give your partner his or her life, while he or she gives you the same respect...well, I don't think there is much of a chance at having the 'OUR LIVES' part!
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 12:47 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
shellsmack


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CRAZY you crack me up, if a person were 'tupid, they wouldn't even get you.

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Feb 17, 2007 @ 12:52 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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OK shellsmack...I'm glad I can crack you up. However, I'm not sure as to how I accomplished it in what I posted on here...as I wasn't trying to be funny. So I'm a bit lost, then again...you pretty much lost me on your whole post...lol
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 12:57 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
shellsmack


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you just go into such detail that if a persons not reading every word their gonna get lost...i love that about you.

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Feb 17, 2007 @ 1:01 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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Ahhhhh, I see what'cha talkin' bout now...and yeah, I've been told that a few times...I tend to at times over explain things...but it keeps peoples thinking and guessing...

But mostly, it makes'em scratch their head and ask themselves...

"What in the fuck did he just say?!!"
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 1:06 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
MEMEME69247


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Crazy,,,babe,,,yes you are right,,,just like what happens at work stays at work and what happens at home stays at home,,,I am learning,,,,
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 1:14 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
shellsmack


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"What in the fuck did he just say?!!"

I know exactly what you mean, I get that too. Plus, when people talk to me I'm thinking about what their saying and they end up wondering what I'm looking at coz I just keep looking at them. Ah duh...I'm absorbing what you've just said. My kids hate that about me and it drives adults nuts. They think I'm off in no-where land but in reality I'm all about them at the moment.

Sheesh.
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 2:20 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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Crazy,,,babe,,,yes you are right,,,just like what happens at work stays at work and what happens at home stays at home,,,I am learning,,,,

Yes, you're right Lena...see it's like this...I remember while growing up how my father would always come home and he'd bitch and complain about work all the damn time...and my mother just hated it! Now don't get me wrong, she didn't mind now and then a little bit...but not every night...

And I seen how much she hated it every day...and I guess that's why I developed the attitude about not bringing my work home with me...and as for my not bringing my home life to work with me...well, that simply is NOT anyone's business!

Now I realise I'm a pretty open book, not only thru chats, emails, and even in public on AMD about me and my personal life...as I am sort of a personal person...However, I'd rather have people hear about me from me, than to hear bullshit from others...

Therefore, I have never had a problem telling anything and everything about myself...however, no one else has the right to do so!
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Feb 17, 2007 @ 2:21 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
CrazyCraveman


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Simply put shells...

A) I like to fuck with peoples...

B) I like to keep'em guessing...

C) I like to leave'em confused...

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Feb 17, 2007 @ 2:43 PM being single can be very hard at times.    
Sunshinegal35


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C2 (that's C squared but I couldn't get the 2 any smaller!), you rock!
And BLU, you're right, being single CAN be very hard at times. But it also has its moments!
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Feb 20, 2007 @ 12:40 AM being single can be very hard at times.    
Blueyesprkln


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Being single can be trying at times, but sometimes I actually enjoy it. Now if I could get my kid out of the house I'd enjoy it more. I might be a little lonely at times, but at least I'd have some privacy. lol Oh, and it's not like she's really a kid.......she's 24 and has a kid of her own.
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