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Feb 3, 2012 @ 8:57 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
joeguty


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I have a gf who moved to Seattle. When she is busy, and I'm horney I end up here.....is that wrong?
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Feb 3, 2012 @ 9:13 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
_nandi_


Posts: 50
yes, cath AIDS and die cheeting cunt
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Feb 3, 2012 @ 9:21 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
joeguty


Posts: 2
Ouch
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Feb 13, 2012 @ 2:38 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
Guiltless


Posts: 328
Damn dude. that was COLD.
No it's not cheating, at least as I see it.
#1 YOUR NOT MARRIED TO HER...she's there you are here. You have needs...do the math.
#2 SHE MOVED AWAY...concious decision on her part.
#3 Chat is not Cheating it's Chatting...PERIOD.

Now, if you find yourself in a situation where something real and physical will erupt from the on line chat, you do owe to your gf to tell her you rea moving on, and end that relationship. Otherwise, go for it. Screw those who disagree.
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 12:15 AM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
lunanegra


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He's betraying her trust in him, ergo he IS cheating. Of course I'd expect no less from someone who's handle is "guiltless".
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 10:47 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
gypsy29


Posts: 101
To women emotional cheating is as bad as physical cheating. So... yes. If you really like your gf then it's cheating. If not... dump her and play on playah!
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Feb 17, 2012 @ 1:52 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
Guiltless


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Sorry that my opinion and your's differ, clearly that is a reason to call me out. I'm guessing, lunanegra that you are a jilted woman, who has been cheated on. That's never good. However I would point out that SHE moved away. What kind of "Committed" relationship was she in then? She was a Girl-friend.
That's it, no engagement, no promise ring, nothing they were simply DATING and she moved away.
I've never heard of a "long distance" relationship that worked. Naturally if she's away, he is going to get lonely, and start to look around.
Joeguty also point out that he was simply interested in visiting AMD, not banging some chic. SO what in your mind he should remain celibate while she is away? No visits to web sites? No social interaction on Chat sites? No princess, you think he should stay at home close all the windows and dare not even look at members of the opposite sex. Yeah good luck with that. You might want to wander back down to Earth and see the world as it really exists, rather than from your judgmental High morality seat of the jilted bitter man haters. This could explain why you are still single.
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Feb 18, 2012 @ 12:23 AM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
lunanegra


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Hey wow...assumptions, assumptions everywhere; no jackass, never jilted, not bitter, never been cheated on, nice try. Seems like you probably have remorselessly slept around a few times behind your wife or girlfriend's back? Sounds like it.

Anyway, no where did I say he didn't have a right to browse around, I was just saying that he in a way betrayed her trust by not at least asking her if it was okay to "look around" if they were going to be apart for awhile. God forbid a woman go and make her way in the world instead of being on hands and knees just serve all the time. But you and your antiquated views, well..wouldn't expect you to get that.

If he is lonely, he should learn to jack off- but what do I know? I was raised to be faithful- damn me for hoping, am I right? Seems as you being a single, middle-aged asshole with the sort of mindset you have, you're pretty much destined to do the same thing...all the time. Good luck sweetie, you will need it. Because despite being seemingly "bitter", "man-hating" and any baseless assumptions you might pull out your ass, I'll never be alone for long. You on the other hand...lol
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Feb 25, 2012 @ 11:01 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
argle


Posts: 7
oh my people... you can disagree without trying to lop off each others' heads!

i am kinda unsure where i stand on the issue.... clearly polishing your bishop to porn is NOT cheating... does polishing your own bishop when talking to somebody else online cross the line??

i don't know
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Mar 14, 2012 @ 3:17 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
HairyPus


Posts: 13
"Cheating" is about intention. If you accidentally brush a woman's ass with your hand on the subway, it's not cheating -- there was no questionable intention. Thus, if you are receiving sexual gratification by "erotic chat" and sexual gratification with others is outside promises of fidelity to your partner, you have cheated. Any different interpretation is merely a parsing of words and an exercise in self-justification.
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Mar 19, 2012 @ 8:35 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
Playguy40


Posts: 180
Cheating isn't defined by us, it's defined by your significant other.

My ex-wife considered looking at other women to be cheating. So while I was married to her, it was because that hurt and disrespected her.

Go figure she'd be the one to ACTUALLY cheat. She wasn't one to leave any gray area!
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Mar 31, 2012 @ 1:50 AM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
gypsy29


Posts: 101
I like it.
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Apr 3, 2012 @ 9:08 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
Bigspiral


Posts: 1
I think it is better to be honest with your partner about how you feel when they are away. Perhaps the Girlfriend away is horny too and up for a bit of phone sex?
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Apr 4, 2012 @ 1:05 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
ndguy44


Posts: 1
I would for sure say it is. There are no "loop holes". You know what your doing.
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Mar 23, 2013 @ 9:02 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
DaanaTS


Posts: 11
Heck Yes it's cheating
Whatever the format -- chat/cybersex, cheating is cheating!!!
It's the thought that counts!
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Apr 17, 2013 @ 9:05 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
RiverKnight


Posts: 4
If the exchange involves no emotional commitment, then no. Once it crosses the line to wanting to be online with her/him more than your real life partner....then yes it is cheating.
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Apr 20, 2013 @ 2:32 AM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
Goosy1969


Posts: 3
Now that's bs. What if ur married and never get any sex cause she has no drive and once a month is not enough? So u have gotten sick of the porn so u buy a pocket pussy named Jama and fuck it, is that cheating cause it was molded from someone else's pussy?
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Apr 23, 2013 @ 3:10 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
xxxliannexxx


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Apr 23, 2013 @ 3:11 PM Is "erotic chat" cheating?    
xxxliannexxx


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