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May 17, 2010 @ 10:11 PM How?    
michael8956


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I am seeing someone i care deeply about destroy herself with drugs and alcohol. She drinks every other day, and on friday and saturday she attends parties that have weed, cocaine, heroin, meth, ecstasy, and various other prescription drugs. When i last talked to her, she told me she was high for 3 weeks straight, and sober for the past two, and was proud for the two. (i about blew it there.) She does this because she doesnt think that life is worth living. She cares deeply about me, yet she does these things even though she knows it hurts me. How do i tell her that she needs to stop immediately? If she keeps this up, i wont want to be around her, but if i say that, it will probably make things worse.
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May 17, 2010 @ 10:56 PM How?    
lunanegra


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Wrong kind of 'Help and Suggestions'; this is for people who are having problems with the website. That just sounds like she needs a drugs and alcohol counselor.
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May 20, 2010 @ 3:57 AM How?    
justme4u


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True it is about the website. But I was kind of in your shoes and spent actually a couple years trying to help the girl out and support her. I had to leave because no matter what she said or did or what I said or did, it didnt matter. Her addicitons always won. You can not ever change a person period!
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