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Sep 23, 2008 @ 4:52 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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I made a post in a different forum, but really wanted to get some real advise for some Texas Women. I married my high school sweetheart, she was my first real girlfriend, and the only serious relationship I have ever been in. I have never slept with anyone else, and for the last 9 years, barely with her (4 - 5 times a year, if I was lucky). What do you think. Is the obvious and relative lack of experience a big red flag saying "Run Away?" Is it an endearing quality, or maybe it makes no difference. I haven't been on a date since 1998 and have no idea how to broach this subject when I do finally decide to meet someone. Any advise / help is much appreciated.
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Sep 24, 2008 @ 5:54 AM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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Don't give up and run away - it sounds like your wife's libido packed up and left for Waco. Seriously, it isn't an "endearing" quality - it sounds like your wife could have a hormonal imbalance or she just seriously lacks the desire for sex. It could also be a sign that something is wrong internally that hasn't been detected in her yearly exams assuming that she sees her gyno once a year. can try wining and dining her...get her drunk on some good vino - her inner tigress is bound to come out. I just watched a new episode of "Lipstick Jungle" and one of the characters was trying to ignite a spark back into her marriage, so she went to a doctor that specialized in a "shot" in a woman's G-Spot that makes them have multiple orgasms. Hey, I want one of those!

These are just suggestions...take 'em or leave 'em. Ladies on AMD, what do you think. Any other suggestions or thoughts?


P.S. - You're not a bad looking guy...

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Jan 15, 2009 @ 8:59 AM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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It must be wife thinks sex once a year is wayyyyyyy to much. Me, I like it 24/7, and need a willing partner.
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Jan 18, 2009 @ 11:55 AM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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okk this may just be my experience but this is what i think. women love sex as much as men do (at least when they know the full potential of it ie they have had an orgasm) and if any women is saying she wants anything less than 8 times in a month she is gettin it somewhere else.i realize this is kind of a lose-lose situation for the guys on here because either you have to admit she has never had an orgasm with you or shes cheatin on you. my suggestion is instead of trying to get in her pants get in her head. do what it takes to get her to think of you all the time in a positive light. talk about her fantasies and dont get upset about any surprises you find and try anything she wants it may surprise you you might enjoy them too. be careful though you never know what could happen so be careful.
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Jan 19, 2009 @ 3:46 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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Yup. Just say no to whips and chains....

Unless she KNOWS how to use them.

Then run like lightning.
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Jan 27, 2009 @ 4:20 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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Jimbobo you are a genius!!!!!
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Jan 28, 2009 @ 7:32 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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A genius genie?
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Feb 20, 2009 @ 3:37 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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Im sure the reason why you can't get anyone is because you are separated and not single yet--I personally don't hook up with still-married men--I want to find one that is not married and willing to be with me without having to schedule around their mates.
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Feb 20, 2009 @ 3:38 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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And yes, I've been to Sealy a few times for work. (I'm a courier).
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Feb 20, 2009 @ 4:56 PM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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My wife had a very small sex drive and then she got cancer. About a year later, after the chemo and radiation, we tried to have intercourse and she said it was too painful. We tried some creams, but no luck. I think she was relieved that she had an excuse not to have sex. (She doesn't like to give oral, and she doesn't want me to perform on her, I think because she would then be obligated). So, I am always on the lookout for a willing partner. I finally found the perfect woman, but she was separated and decided to get back with her husband. Now I am looking again.
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Mar 18, 2009 @ 11:10 AM Ladies, a little help...Please!    

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mt friend had a girlfirend like that
she refused to have sex with him durring her whole three year relationship
it sounds like you really like this girl if you are willing to stay with her for so long
I would try asking her why she doen't like sex that much and see about trying to raise her sex drive I haer there are pills that can help also exercise can help more
have you suggested to her to try hitting the gymthan you think I read this in a magazine but recently I tried yoga It was a 90 minute class with a bunch of stretching but by the end of the class i felt so horny i could hardly stand it
I would also try explaining to her that you typical guy wouldn't stay with her and that even if he did he would likely be cheating on her

if your ready to leave well there are plenty of great adult and dating websites
out there and AMD is a start
oh and don't worry about inexperience women are more forgiving than you think

either way best of luck to ya
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