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Oct 14, 2006 @ 8:56 AM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
tehheck


Posts: 2
Well, I think the problem is... you know... people get really horny, and when they get horny, they don't think right... I'd like to think that I've been civil when trying to talk to people on here at least, but I know I've sid a few silly things, just because I was thinking with my smaller head.

A large part of the problem I think too may be with the rejection aspect. There's nothing quite like talking to someone and being like "Hi, how're you this evening?" And then getting back "COUPLES ONLY!" or "YOU'RE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR" in all caps shouting at you... and then you're like "Oh, okay. Well, if I find any couples out there I'll send them y-*The other person has closed the conversation*

With people like that, it can get aggrivating. And might result in the person searching for others to be short and curt because they hear that so much. *shrugs*

Just my two cents on that topic.
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 5:35 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
anotherlevel99


Posts: 5
okay i wasn't gonna waste my time replyin but i will. first off i never said i say things like "hey u wanna fuck" I don't know where thats comin from. but sometimes i do cuz thats how i feel. would u rather have men feed u a bunch of bullshit on here and then fuck you. does that make "real women" feel better about themselves. To be honest with u i really dont' think i'm gonna find that special someone on adultmatchdoctor.com (or atleast i hope not) if girls dont' like men that are straight up with them or get offended when u say something raw then maybe u should not have joined the adult site and stuck with the regular. and i meant real women as in not bots douchebag
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 5:41 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
When ppl treat you rudely ignore them. I know its hard to do when it keeps happening over and over. But you know what your only responsible for your attitude and can only change your reaction to it. The next time someone yells at you just click off and dont respond walk away and know you are the better person. Than throw things stomp your feet and swear at them no one will ever know but you LOL either that if you just dont feel like you can walk away without saying something just respond with oh thats ok i was looking for someone who was nice. I wish you the best of luck on your search.
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Oct 16, 2006 @ 5:47 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
anotherlevel99 i never said you said wanna fuck but seems to me like you have a guilty conscience. Ppl want to be treated with respect no matter where they are at. and I like everyone else has just as much right here and to write our opinions as anyone else does. and i never personally attached you nor did i call you or anyone names. But because i dont take things personally i do hope you find what your looking for and Have a nice day.
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Oct 17, 2006 @ 4:41 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
kfinz


Posts: 43
While I appreciate a man that is "straight up" with me, I really don't appreciate e-mails, IMs or whatever from someone that starts out with "let's fuck" or "let me eat you" or whatever. If the person e-mailing me would actually take the time to read my profile they would have some sort of idea what to say in an e-mail. I think people assume just because you're on this site, or any site for that fact that you WANT them to talk to you like that. Not all of us do. No one is singleing anyone out here, we are all just posting out honest opinions. I'm sure there are women out there who enjoy those types of correspondences and I'm sure there are a lot of men who do not appreciate them too. It's all a matter of personal preference. No one has a right to be rude to anyone, no matter what the forum. I think that's all that love2laugh and I are saying.
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Oct 17, 2006 @ 5:57 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Thanks Kfinz!! Your right!! I think like most ppl we just want a little of respect. If they would take the time to read the profile and make a comment that would interest me i would be more than willing to start chatting with them. If their opening line is a joke and they make me laugh they are already on thier way to charming the heck out of me. The bottom line is that no one should be treated with despect because their voiced thier opinion. I think we all have the right to say what we want as long as we are not hurting someone else. But i do appreciate you sticking up for me
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Oct 17, 2006 @ 9:32 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
kfinz


Posts: 43
love2laugh, it's a tough world out there we need to stick together!
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 7:57 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
birdman67


Posts: 155
I guess it's all in what you're looking for, and what you're willing to do for it... Why not try PAYING for a dating site then? I just bop around because I'm bored on some nights, but if I was truly seeking someone, I think it'd be worth a few dollars.

Ya get what you pay for...
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 8:50 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Did you catch that ladies birdman is only bopping around on these sites cause he is bored. So we must look somewhere else. LOL
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 9:00 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
kfinz


Posts: 43
well, birdman, it has been my experience that no matter if you pay or not, all sites are the same. And, yes I have been on sites that you pay for and people are the same all over.
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 9:21 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
kfinz, good thing that birdman isnt our type huh? we might bore him cause we dont cost anything LOL
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 9:28 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
birdman67


Posts: 155
hmm.. and it's a wonder why you haven't found anyone yet...
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 9:37 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
good comeback!!!! so you think its my attitude good chance of it but if you read my profile i am no longer looking anyways so i guess ill keep my attitude. Good luck with your non searching tho. Have a wonderful night.
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 10:32 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
birdman67


Posts: 155
actually, I'm just burning what's left of my free time.. I have a ton of home improvement stuff to do now. From remodeling the master bath, to then updating the heating and cooling system in my new house. Amidst all that, I'm looking at doing some adjunct teaching at one of the local universities.

As for comebacks, no I could really care less.. I was just poking some fun, as you mentioned.. Although, I may be a bit crabby, as my other half has been putting in some longer hours.. So, I've been bored while waiting for the other things to pan out.

I guess I've just hit the wall.. everything I was striving for, I achieved.. so I was just taking the last few weeks to poke around the internet and see what's up..try to keep my self from dying of boredom till everything else came into place.

I found a lot of really good humor in the dating sites.. Funny how one of the main things I see woman "wanting" in a man is that he won't cheat on them. And yet, I hear that most guys are so bored with their wives who don't see sex as a big deal.. And to think, I almost went into Psychology as a major...

Anyhoo, have fun not finding someone then..
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Oct 18, 2006 @ 10:41 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
wow!! i think i like you lol actually your right about women not wanting men to cheat on them but alot of times i feel they have no one to blame but themselves. If your married or involved with a man and suddenly you are no longer interested in sex what is he suppose to do. first off i really believe that women and men both get bored with the sex with thier partners because it gets routine. They dont want to try anything new because they are afraid thier spouse will think they have either been cheating on them and learned it from someone else or that the person is kinky in wanting to try different positions and different toys and what have you. personally i think sex can be fun no matter just have to use a little imagination and be comfortable with yourself and your partner. But somehow i just cant imagine a grandma in her late 50's jumping up on the bed with just a thong on saying to grandpa shes been married to for 30 yrs "come on bigboy spank me hard" and by the way if she is out there damn it woman write a book we all want to know the secret LMAO

Hope you get over your boredom soon!!
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 12:50 AM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Dominus


Posts: 511
first off i really believe that women and men both get bored with the sex with thier partners because it gets routine.

There's a number of reasons. There is the "sex becomes routine" like you suggested. Another is that people change as they age. What thrills you at 20 might do nothing for you at 50. And the way yor partner changes through the years may not be something that you like.

They dont want to try anything new because they are afraid thier spouse will think they have either been cheating on them and learned it from someone else or that the person is kinky in wanting to try different positions and different toys and what have you.

We are, unfortunately, a vastly puritanical society. I was told by someone at one point I should be careful and hide any alternative sexual preferences I have because I'm a teacher and that could get me into trouble. The same goes for anyone. Fear of being shunned socially is very real. But it shouldn't be. It's not like I walk into school wearing leather chaps and a harness. My personal life is my own business. Anyone who takes the effort to pry and then try to shame me is just being hippocritical.

But as far as partners are concerned, they frequently fear change because the rut of familliarity they have created for themselves can be a fragile balance. Some relationships are based on nothing but that familiarity, and that's kind of sad.

personally i think sex can be fun no matter just have to use a little imagination and be comfortable with yourself and your partner.

That, and LOTS of communication. Always.

But somehow i just cant imagine a grandma in her late 50's jumping up on the bed with just a thong on saying to grandpa shes been married to for 30 yrs "come on bigboy spank me hard" and by the way if she is out there damn it woman write a book we all want to know the secret

Actually, they did! There are lots of self help books done by people in the industry, and quite a few sites. Nina Hartley has written "Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex" and made countless how-to DVD's from erotic massage to strap-on sex. Annie Sprinkle has written a few books like "Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex" and her classes and lectures are routinely sold out. Midori offers "The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage", which is a great book. Mistress Steel offers one of the most comprehensive websites (http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html) for Alternative Lifestyle Sex. And of course, don't forget Dr. Ruth Westheimer and her countless contributions to our sexual benefits.

There are males, too, that contribute to our lexicon, but you did say you wanted to know some grandma-authors!
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 1:09 AM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
hey thanks sweetie i will look into those books you mentioned. I for one believe that we must keep things fresh if we want to continue to have good sex. as for your comment about communication that is so true. Just imagine having sex with a man (well in your case woman) and instead of sliding your finger in his butt you slide a nice little vibrating toy and later he comments that it would have been nice if i had warned him i was going to shove a 10 lb toaster up his butt LMAO i was embarrassed but learned my lesson. if your going to try something new make sure your partner is comfortable with it. Thanks for all your help.
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 6:38 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
birdman67


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Yea, it's a real tough read ( sexuality and partners ). My first marriage was a mess, with the fun of sex dying fast after the first year.. I couldn't wait to get the heck out, but it was obviously far more than the sex..

But I know quite a few men, me included, that are fine with our spouses but they just don't WANT to have sex much anymore.. And well, when you're still well under 40, that just doesn't make too much sense to me.

My relationship now is more than a litte complicated, but we are looking to work some things out. We used to be quite wild and went through the gambit of sex toys, and even having others join us in the bedroom. But with no vaccine for Aids in sight.. who really wants to risk it anymore?? ya know?

Anyhoo.. I could type for hours, but I guess I really ought to get some work done..

Good chatting with you. I"ll be around from time to time, as I know I'll need a break.

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Oct 19, 2006 @ 7:11 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
coachwaugh69


Posts: 519
I think I'm real........hold on let me check.
hmmhmmhmm....




Yep
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Oct 19, 2006 @ 9:29 PM this site is lame.... all i see is guys...is there any REAL ladies on here??????    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
birdman stop in when you can i kinda like what you write not that i agree with it all but you are amusing if i dont like it LOL Im not sure and i certainly dont speak for you i dont live in your house nor do i know what is between you and your wife but from past expirence when the sex is gone its hard to recapture the want and or need of it with that person. Maybe it was just me but i found myself holding resentments against him not wanting to (see it isnt just women who lose interest) have sex and when he finally did anything that we had in our relationship was already gone for me. I realize that marriage or any relationship shouldnt be based just on sex but when it isnt there how long will that relationship last?
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