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Oct 28, 2006 @ 5:28 PM Lonely and scared    
allforyou999


Posts: 181
f we all fucked each other without all of the emotional intimacy that comes with it, we’d probably be a more relaxed society also. I know I get pretty tense when I haven’t been with a woman in awhile. Yes, I can masturbate to release that tension, but as anyone will tell you, it’s just not the same. I’m a pretty relaxed guy by nature, but sometimes that tension builds and even I can get a little snappy and tense. If we were all having sex regularly, we’d all be a lot happier. The fact of the matter is that sex is an emotionally intimate act. That’s fine. I think it should be. I think it should be an intense positive exchange physically, emotionally and spiritually. When that exchange is over, however, that intensity doesn’t necessarily continue to exist. Why can’t sex be like a good, pleasurable game? At the end of the game, both sides have played well and reached a satisfactory conclusion. The players shake hands (kiss?) and call it a day. Maybe it is more like theater. Two actors enter the stage of the bedroom and take on their roles. They go through a series of acts which eventually results in the climax of the plot, the resolution, and then the curtain falls. After the play, the actors put on their street clothes and continue their normal lives. Honestly, I think I’ve just stumbled upon the crux of the problem: men are virtually guaranteed a “good game;” one where they feel satisfied. Women, on the other hand, are usually disappointed with the “game.” Often, the man only cares about his own pleasure and doesn’t think about the equal exchange of energy. The woman simply isn’t satisfied. What a mess. The question then becomes, how do I, as a man, assure the woman that I will be generous during the sexual game?
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Oct 28, 2006 @ 5:33 PM Lonely and scared    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
so your good with copy and paste but whats your real opinion?
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Oct 28, 2006 @ 7:41 PM Lonely and scared    
birdman67


Posts: 155
Yea, and he's not even GOOD at cut and paste.. Would somebody have sex with him just to shut him up?

Here's an idea.. If you actually ADD to the conversation, and show what a deep guy you are, maybe it will actually attract a woman to WANT to have sex with you. Then you wouldn't have to masturbate so much.

Not that I disagree with your opening statement, as yes, this is a swingers site, but it is also a little quiet right now.. besides, what harm does a little posting do? Join in, share the sentiment, or debate.. but enjoy man, life's too short !!
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Oct 28, 2006 @ 8:49 PM Lonely and scared    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
We can be posting to a thread that has virtually gone dead or we can be lying to the one we are talking to this very moment about how we want to make them ours forever marry them and hold them for ever. Oh im sorry i met that liar on another site OOPS I'M BAD lol
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Oct 28, 2006 @ 10:34 PM Lonely and scared    
Dominus


Posts: 511
Maybe it's a circumstance where sex, as an act, is intimidating to you. If so, the free speech elicited in AMD might be too much for some people.

On one level, you're saying that people should perhaps just "fuck whoever they want to", but on another you're suggesting that one site should be reserved for one type of communication or another.

Well, which is it? Do you believe people are capable of making their own choices or don't you? It can't be both ways.

I'm with love2laugh...An adult site implies adult communication and free speech, even if it's not sexual in topic, or if it's a sexual topic that you're not fond of.

No one even says that you have to agree or that you can't post a different opinion. Just make sure you differentiate opinion from fact and that you're polite about your posts.
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Oct 28, 2006 @ 11:46 PM Lonely and scared    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Dominus, Have you ever had a woman tell you that you are sexy? Ill bet the answer is many times. I think one of the sexiest things about you is your mind. You have a far greater intelligence than alot of people who post here (including me) and yet when you are scolding someone ( you never condemn or argue) you do it with wisdom and class. I love reading your posts because you set a standard that more people should follow. Say what you want but be kind about it. Say what you want but express if this is fact (and back it up) or opinion and if your going to sway off the topic go ahead its free speech but dont critize others for doing it. You are truely a unique person (notice i didnt say men because alot of women could learn from you too) You are definitely One heck of a guy.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:43 AM Lonely and scared    
allforyou999


Posts: 181
sORRY--------------NO
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 1:08 PM Lonely and scared    
birdman67


Posts: 155
ah.. a man of few words..
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Nov 11, 2006 @ 1:18 PM Lonely and scared    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
sORRY--------------NO


Im sorry this is adult matchdoctor if you want to say that go to regular matchdoctor LOL

Birdman, makes you wonder if he is of few words or short on intelligence. LOL
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