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Feb 4, 2007 @ 10:00 PM Getting to know people    
slowhand150


Posts: 5
Hi all,

I wanted to check in to see what others thought about my situation. I have been on here for a few months, and have had one woman and one man contact me. The guy was giving me some info that I found very helpful, but the woman gave me a phony address. I used to have my pics posted. Some were of my face, others were of my body in a speedo, but got no reply. I had one lovely girl tell me in a forum that she doesn't care what I look like, but who I am. I am not one of those people that get on the chat sessions and join in to be friends or buddies. I thought this was a dating site, and not a chat group. I feel that people get on here to show off their bodies and are not serious about meeting people. I just wished there was a site for serious minded people that want to meet people for real, and not bull shit each other. Is there anyone out there that feels the same way I do?
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Feb 5, 2007 @ 4:08 PM Getting to know people    
hotgeek87


Posts: 1
The only real way you're going to get serious date-minded people, is by going to a pay-for-play dating website like Match.com or Adult Friend Finder.

Most of these people here are looking for females, even the females. So there's no way they'd even have time to actively message anybody, let alone reply to all their emails.

Hope that helps.
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Feb 9, 2007 @ 4:38 PM Getting to know people    
jezzarae


Posts: 263
Seriously guys do you think most girls are just going to run out and meet a guy they know nothing about. The advice you got in the forum was good advice. People want to know a bit about you get a feel for if they can trust you before they commit to meeting you.
Sorry if this isnt the way you want to do it but most girls need to feel safe to expose themselves to an actual meeting. There are some real freaks out here can you truly blame them?
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Jun 15, 2007 @ 7:12 PM Getting to know people    
sexyme4sexyu


Posts: 9
this is true, even for the pay for play sites like adult friend finder, I had a gold membership or whatever the fuck the best one was, and it wasn't much different. Sorry dude, the fantasy of putting your profile out there to find a swath of sex hungry ladies to fuck you at a moments notice is still reserved for the rich, the pornstars, the established swingers, and the women (I know this because my last gf was a swinger and she hit some sites with me, she didn't have much of a problem finding peeps) though it does seem a bit unfair doesn't it? Oh well.
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Jun 16, 2007 @ 2:30 PM Getting to know people    
BigFlirt


Posts: 2,468
I have been on here since January on a regular bases. I play in the forums, i post comments on blogs. I talk to several people on here women and men, there is some awesome people and some assholes.
If you want to break the ice with the people here go to the forums and have fun.
Myself i come here to chat, not looking to hook up, if it happens so be it if not then no big deal.
Just have fun with it and see what happens....
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