As a single guy here looking for straight couples or females, I think EVERY site has a bit of - what I call a downside. This one here - you can't access all of the features without upgrading. AFF, Passion.com and all other their affilliates, are the least cooperative - making you upgrade for everything. POF is free, but limits your photos. Every one seens to have a drawback.
Although I have met a few nice ladies once, not much else happens. I get the impression that the women at these sites are more here for sex chat and less here for actual meetings. But this may just be my experience only.
I get the impression that not many women want to chat either. Been having a hell of a time trying to get any REAL person to chat, let alone not hit me up for $ webcams. Aren't there any real people out there?
Shit, all I want to do IS chat. I would think about a personal meeting but like Kaofman, I'm very private. Maybe it would happen if I got to know anyone but that's not going to happen unless people speak up?
Anyway... Still lookin!