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Jun 27, 2008 @ 12:30 PM i need some advice    
trekker683


Posts: 13
OK my 15 yr old bro has had this long distance relationship with a girl for 6-7 months she just dumped him for "another girl". OK the dumping make him feel bad as is but dumping him for another girl has throne him into a depression and extreme anger and I'm stuck with him alone for the next 4 days

help!!!!!!!!
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Jun 29, 2008 @ 8:59 PM i need some advice    
Angel_45304


Posts: 548
Sorry to hear that happened to your bro, that really sucks. The best advice I can give is to just be there for him. Let him know that sometimes things like that happen. But not to give up .
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Jun 30, 2008 @ 6:30 PM i need some advice    
seximommi


Posts: 8
Ok, so he's only 15...but we all know how deeply we felt things when we were 15....He'll think its the end of the world and that he wont ever find anyone else....But he will and as much as he will hate hearing this, he's young. He needs to move on and get over it because odds are she wasnt worthy of him anyway!
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Jun 30, 2008 @ 7:22 PM i need some advice    
trekker683


Posts: 13
i said that then i got his right hook in my gut
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Jul 1, 2008 @ 10:31 AM i need some advice    
lynxkat


Posts: 10
It's a lot to deal with and I feel for the guy. Maybe the best thing to do is let him know that even 'old folks' have felt the same way and dealt with the same thing. I know a guy who went through this when he was past 40 and he'd been married for years.

Maybe letting him know that she was probably really confused about whether she wanted to be with a guy or a girl was a big problem for her. Let's face it: if she's really more interested in girls, he doesn't stand a chance. Again, there's folks a lot older who've had to deal with 'coming out' and spent a lot more time being confused.

Studies have shown about 10% of the population is gay; let him know that the odds are really in his favor the next time around. He needs to know that this time it's really not about him!
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Jul 4, 2008 @ 5:52 PM i need some advice    
trekker683


Posts: 13
he found out i was posting this stuff here and i got locked out of the house for an hour and he keeps on saying that i betrayed him
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Oct 21, 2008 @ 3:05 AM i need some advice    
masquerade89


Posts: 1
Wow... Unfortunately, all the above posts are true... He just needs some time to realize it... If he goes totally bonkers about this, counseling might be a wise idea...
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Oct 21, 2008 @ 9:24 AM i need some advice    
dmbchick420


Posts: 266
yeah...agree with the above. He's only 15...he'll get over it....like by next week.
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Oct 21, 2008 @ 10:09 AM i need some advice    
clevelandslim


Posts: 8
yeah, really, I can't even believe I read all these posts. the kid will probably be joking about it in a couple of weeks. but if I had to offer advice it would be to try to be friends with both of them. lol
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