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Jan 5, 2007 @ 3:28 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Lips_Of_Angel_luv69


Posts: 4
okay here is my prob.My Best Friend wants me to join her and her bf family for snow tub and staying at cabins for weekend.I gave her bf my yahoo im so we could make plans.We started off just being friends,he would tell me bot his prob at work, and I would tell him bot the jerks I went out with.we would joke around on yahoo im,telling each other dirty jokes,then we moved onto talking bot our fantasies,Then he started sending me dirty pictures,not that I mind cuz he is one good looking guy. He flat out told me he wanted 2 have sex with me,He likes to have sexy chats with me in other words we cyber.Now Here The big Oops!. The guy is my best friend boyfriend,And they plan to marry soon,and she is preg with twins.I told me he never break up with her cuz of the babies and he does love her.I promise him I never tell on him for what he been doing. He likes to cyber with women on the internet,Should I Tell my Friend everything thats been going on?Should I just keep my mouth close and let her find out on her own. And How The hell Do I get out of going away with my two friends for the weekend without her wanting to know the reason? What do you think? Befor everyone blames me! He came to me,I didnt go looking for him..So how would u handle this mess?
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 5:11 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
searching_couple


Posts: 2
Tell them you are spending it with us?!?! My opinion, put some distance between him and yourself, and explaint o him why. I have a gf I love with all my heart, and I also cyber, but she knows about it. He is a dog, and I hope your friend finds out some other way. I lost my marriage the same way, and I deserved it.
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 7:07 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
12inchdaddy


Posts: 3
tellem you met someone on here namely me and we plan on having our first date this weekend i dont mind if you tellem your dating me
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 8:13 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
jimmyc509


Posts: 1
are you a moron? you certainly aren't a friend or you would never gone that far talking to your supposed best friend's bf. back off and stay out. i hope i don't have friends like you.
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 12:12 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
TomJ4458


Posts: 262
....depends. What do you value the most? Your friendship or your shallow unfullfilling online relationship with the bf? No one can tell you what to do, you'll have to decide for yourself which motivates your desires. Besides, I think that you've already made your decision anyway.
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:45 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
man4funf


Posts: 7
Well Lips of Angel...Ask yourself what you would want? To be told by ur gf about your cheating to be hubby, or to go blind into the marriage?...Good Luck
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Jan 7, 2007 @ 3:21 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
havenater


Posts: 7
the only thing i can say is i was in ur friends shoes once and if you keep going the way you are you are going to lose youre best friend and the guy since he is doing that to her now what makes you think he'll stick around you if you go to him
bottom line it's not worth losing a good friend over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jan 10, 2007 @ 6:03 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
ynot7769


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Should I Tell my Friend everything thats been going on?Should I just keep my mouth close and let her find out on her own

LOA.......telling will start a fight BUT odds are he'll smooth her over blame you and YOU will lose your friend....it wouldn't be the first time....best i can think of would have been to not do what you did BUT we both know too late for that soo next would be cut him off....anyway your comfy with from ''hey..this ain't right n it's over '' to ..'' i got a new man n i don't do this anymore'' or any other way that works for you .....my 2cents on your problem gl
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Jan 10, 2007 @ 12:37 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Lips_Of_Angel_luv69


Posts: 4
I told him I woldn't go behind her back! he is currious bot a 3some we have discussed the matter I told him he had 2 ask her,so he doing the asking and they be no pissed off gf wanting 2 kick my ass.u was right it cuz her to become pissed off at me my friendship with her is gone& He smooth her over.he still communicates with me over the computer.he is the one who dont have the courage 2 be open&honest or the balls 2 tell her the truth on the matter.men are pigs(Im going 2 hear bot that statement)I told him if he wants me he got break up with her.he refuse, i can still point my finger at him and he comes running like the dog that he is.last night he gave me his cell number we talking bot meeting soon.so who says u cant get what u want i did
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Jan 14, 2007 @ 6:37 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Im not sure if all men are pigs but as a friend you certainly are. You came off as such a little angel it was all his fault, it takes two to tango. You should have told him right from the start that you were not going to get involved in hurting your best friend. but you went right along with it and are still in the middle of it by planning to meet him and by staying in contact with him. Personally if i was a man i would stay away from you YOUR SCAREY and definitely as a friend potential you have none. There is alot of men in this world that are single, alone and wanting to be involved how about going after one of them.
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Jan 14, 2007 @ 8:55 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
TomJ4458


Posts: 262
Here, here!
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Jan 16, 2007 @ 11:38 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Lips_Of_Angel_luv69


Posts: 4
.She knows cuz I told her,i was up front and told her so.I wont lie and I wont go behind her back & im all for a 3some.I cant hep it she some goody two shoes & cant handle being a adult,I can please him and she cant,he only with her cuz she preg with twins
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Jan 17, 2007 @ 9:31 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Wow your story changed drastically first you were worried that she would get hurt and stop being your friend, than you were worried about him still coming onto you and now you are better than her cause your willing to have a 3 some and she isnt just out of curiosity do you ever worry about being a decent human being. Your the reason that girl is hurting he will always be a ho and she probably already knew that but she thought you were her best friend. There really out to be a caution sign around you to warn people of you.
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Jan 17, 2007 @ 12:25 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
featherone


Posts: 204
boy! id hate to have a freind like you!
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Jan 17, 2007 @ 5:58 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
TomJ4458


Posts: 262
Well I hope you think he's worth it, 'cause you are ruining alot of lives.
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Jan 17, 2007 @ 9:37 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Here!! Here!!!
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Jan 23, 2007 @ 11:40 AM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Rikosound


Posts: 38
Back Off! You don't want to get in the middle of that! It is way not worth it! Personally, if in fact she IS your best friend, I would mention it to her! Nothing worse then getting married and thinking life is bliss only to find out he's fucking other women and who knows if he is protecting himself and then comes home with it! The sex will eventually be the first thing to stop in the relationship and that will send up the red flag! He will deny, more than likely. It will continue. Meantime the kids are growing and getting familiar with dad and after 5 maybe more years he will either leave, get caught or She will leave! The kids suffer! It's better to have it be over before the kids are exposed to this! Really! Actually, You are an attractive woman and I am sure a lot of great looking guys would love to have hot sex with you! I mean what guy would ever refuse sex! Especially a babe! You should have put the Cabosh on it right from the get go and spilled the friggin' beans on the ass! He's no husband! Shit! He hasn't learned the language of his dick yet! He does whatever it wants! Not Good! He's not interested in her!
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Jan 23, 2007 @ 2:24 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Argit01


Posts: 239
Personally I think that you should engineer things in such a way that your friend will find out without you being involved. I know if I loved some one enough to want to marry her or got her pregnant then no way would I cheat on her. Sure I like to flirt but the person I am flirting with knows it isn't anything other than that. I certainly wouldn't suggest having sex with someone if I were in a committed relationship as I would lose the person I love and I wouldn't want that to happen. If my partner cheated on me I would tell her to pack her things and get out of my life too.
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Jan 29, 2007 @ 7:56 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
Mistress_Brandy


Posts: 4
if you really want to go then go for your friend. Give him the impression that you're not interested in him anymore, tell him he ever cheats on her then you'll tell your friend everything that happened between the two of you. She doesn't need the stress right now so tell him to look but don't touch!
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Jan 30, 2007 @ 11:17 PM Oops! I did it again.HELP!What should I do    
EbonyPrincess


Posts: 11
With friends like you...who needs enemies. You're foul...and if you no longer have the friend or HER man, then you deserve it.
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