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Dec 28, 2006 @ 9:49 AM should you have sex with an ex    
pup615


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just looking for an answer. my 1st ex wife who i have been divorced from for many years has been calling me ever since i got divorced from my second wife. it is pretty obviuos what she wants. we both still are very much in love with each other but she is MARRIED. she keeps saying how bad it is for her and would love to leave him but he is very sick (cancer). she just cant leave him now and i understand that. but here is my question. should i go ahead and meet her and have sex with her or should i not and just be a friend to her till she leaves her husband. not sure this is a question for here but i would like some input.
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Dec 28, 2006 @ 4:15 PM should you have sex with an ex    
mjs1970


Posts: 2
Well, I think you have to deal with the issue of is it just sex, or do you want more? It sounds like you want more from her and that can lead to A LOT of bad things. My ex and I used to fool around after the divorced and she's hinted that she wants to do it again even though she's living with somebody. My answer used to be to sleep with her...then I remembered why we got divorced. So, the answer soon became "no" There was also a girl I dated for awhile who used to call me for booty call after we broke up. That's fine with me as we both knew it was just sex. Think real hard before you do anything. Is it just physical or more emotional?
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Dec 31, 2006 @ 2:26 AM should you have sex with an ex    
cumgetme386


Posts: 27
Think about why you guys split I would not do that if she wants to leave her husband i would say go for it
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Jan 1, 2007 @ 11:28 AM should you have sex with an ex    
TomJ4458


Posts: 262
I won't give you advice, but as for me, No. Once that door has closed it's time to move on.
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 8:58 AM should you have sex with an ex    
deepharddriver


Posts: 3
have done the ex thing too. And it doesn't work. All the old reasons come back to haunt you about the first time.
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Jan 15, 2007 @ 6:31 PM should you have sex with an ex    
justme303


Posts: 9
She is wanting to leave him because she is having a hard time because he is sick?
I'm a woman and thinks that she needs to stand by her husband while he is sick. I would, if I was in your shoes, think long and hard about the type of person she is and if I would really want to start seeing her again. For sex or for what other reason you might house in the back of your mind, the decision is yours.
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Jan 17, 2007 @ 9:59 PM should you have sex with an ex    
endure44133


Posts: 1
Reviewing your original post, based upon it's content, I'd say politely decline her advances until her marital situation is resolved. I'd think it would be better for you to be strong for her now and resist complicating both situations and everybody's feelings. Once her situation is resolved, I'd say, why not?

Coming from 2 broken marraiges myself, I dealt with issues of propositions from each of my exes after the splits. Ex #1 and I each had affairs. We stayed together for 5 years following our erred ways. It damn near killed each of us. Personally, I couldn't deal with my infidelity to her and promised myself NEVER AGAIN!

I dated and broke up with one woman for almost a year, before I got married to #2. Each time we broke up, it seemed that #1 would come over and proposition me. Had I accepted that proposition, I may not have done the incredibly STUPID thing of marrying #2 - which lasted less than a year.

For 4 months following the final break up - but before I had accumulated the funds to file for divorce - #2 seduced me about a half dozen times. Sure, the sex feels great!!! But it just cheapened everything for me. I spent the next year and a half in therapy, and learned to follow MY needs and wants - not someone elses.

I guess it's a long, round-about way of my saying, Don't open up any NEW wounds until she's far enough beyond her present situation. Clear thinking ahead of time could create a much more lasting happiness in the end.

Best of luck to you!!!
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Feb 3, 2007 @ 4:34 AM should you have sex with an ex    
Love2Laughalot


Posts: 164
Just out of curiosity why in gods name would anyone want to have sex with an ex? if things were so great you would still be together. If you are still in love why did you split up in the first place. do you think things have changed there was obviously reasons why you split up why start up with it again?

just my opinion!
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Nov 27, 2007 @ 4:32 AM should you have sex with an ex    
mommabear


Posts: 64
Pup......my motto.....They are EX's for a reason!!!!

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