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Feb 18, 2010 @ 7:04 PM How do you eat pussy well    
ynot7769


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ummm eat it the way SHE likes it
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Mar 5, 2010 @ 9:57 PM How do you eat pussy well    
HeimlichManouver


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It's hard to describe with one's mouth full....
I know for me I like to think outside the box. Does anyone else sense more than what is in the immediate vicinity? I mean, do you sense the dimples on the small of her back, under your fingertips? The curve of her bottom? The backs of her legs? All I know is I never got any complaints
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Mar 5, 2010 @ 9:59 PM How do you eat pussy well    
HeimlichManouver


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...and what does it mean when they tell you that you are a "natural"?
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 9:33 PM How do you eat pussy well    
I_put_it_down


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put your all into it. concentrate on the clit
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 10:28 PM How do you eat pussy well    
ynot7769


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how?? how bout ....WELL.....
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 11:46 PM How do you eat pussy well    
mystique1969


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WELL... what?
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Mar 6, 2010 @ 11:50 PM How do you eat pussy well    
ynot7769


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WELL... what?

as in ...''eat it well..."
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Mar 15, 2010 @ 7:13 PM How do you eat pussy well    
PetePuma


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How you flick your tongue is just a small part of the performance. There are several other elements to properly eat pussy.

If you're gonna do it you need to do it with passion and enthusiasm. Otherwise she'll sense that you're not truly into it and that doesn't do anything for her. You don't do it because you expect reciprocation. You do it because you love it! And you love it because she loves it. Remember, it's all about her...her needs, her desires, and her pleasure. Nothing else in the world matters.

But before you even begin to think about licking her clit, you need to make sure she's ready. You can't just dive in there like a starving animal. That may work sometimes for some women. With that technique, she may only be able to cum in your mouth once, if at all. To really give her a mind blowing experience, a woman needs to feel mentally, emotionally and physically aroused. That's right, oral sex on a woman is not foreplay, rather a lot foreplay needs to precede oral sex. It's never too early for foreplay, you can begin in the morning before leaving for work. Whisper into her ear how badly you can't wait to service her. Be sure to make her feel loved, beautiful and desired. A few naughty text messages throughout the day will keep her thinking about it. When you're home and ready for intimacy, you need to "Invest" at least 30 to 60 minutes getting her aroused. You should worship and adore her body. Lick, kiss, nibble, taste and savor every inch of flesh from her fingertips to her lips and from her nose to her toes. Take your time, desert needs to marinate...the longer the better.

Women have more nerve endings in their tiny little clit than men have in the entire shaft of their penis. If you start stimulating her before she's ready, she may become numb or oversensitive, which can be uncomfortable or even painful. She's not ready until her clit is swollen, her g-spot is engorged and she's soaking wet. I like to tease her and test her readyness with a nice long slow gentle lick starting behind her perineum, sliding upward, burying my tongue deep inside her, and continuing the soft slow gentle lick up to her clit. Don't worry that you might tease her too much. She'll grab you by the ears and have her way with your face if she can no longer handle the agony.

Oh, remember to have a nice clean close shave. Irritating stubble burn can totally ruin her experience. Your hands, fingers and finger nails should be well groomed too.

Regarding tongue technique, always start slow with a soft tongue and gentle pressure. You can always increase speed, firmness and intensity as per her ques. Every woman responds differently to different stimuli and they respond differently during different times of the month. Pay close attention to how she responds and adjust your technique accordingly. Make slow gradual changes to your technique to give her time to adjust and react to the change.

Don't forget there's more to her than a pussy and there's more to you than a tongue. There should be constant communication. The way you use your hands, eyes, and sounds express how much you enjoy servicing her. Likewise, her hands, eyes, sounds and body motion communicate how much she likes or dislikes a particular stimuli. It's okay to ask her what she wants. She's not going to think that you don't know what you're doing if you're doing everything else right. But ask in a seductive sensual way. Mumble when you're taking a breath and your lips are press against her body.

Some women claim that they cannot achieve orgasm through oral sex. If she's capable of reaching orgasm herself through manual stimulation, then I guarantee that with practice and dedication, you will have her cumming in your mouth again and again.
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Mar 15, 2010 @ 7:17 PM How do you eat pussy well    
StraddleMyNose


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I prefer to show instead of descibing it...
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Mar 16, 2010 @ 9:06 PM How do you eat pussy well    
Luv2Laugh2


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That was a helluva description though! Phew! Is it hot in here or it is just me?
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Mar 17, 2010 @ 2:05 AM How do you eat pussy well    
lunanegra


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Sorry man, but you have to be merely motivated to exercise, or get up for work in the morning - you have to really enjoy doing something to do it well.

Well, he ain't lying. In this case, he was telling OP this, not you.
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Mar 17, 2010 @ 9:45 AM How do you eat pussy well    
jack4jills


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First you need to do the preliminaries to get her really in the mood. You need to bring out your best feminine side. Women like to feel special and be treated special. Anything you do that they don't ordinarily associate with men in general is a huge plus. It will turn into a time you won't soon forget.

Start out inviting her over for a nice dinner that you personally cook for her. Make sure to find out what her favorite wine is and have plenty. If you can't cook or don't dare to then a NICE restaurant will do. Back at your place. If everything has come to the point where it is going to happen then suggest the two of you taking a bubble bath together. Make sure there are plenty of bubbles. In the tub becomes play time. Your behind her close enough so your cock is touching her from time to time. Make sure it does once in a while, while your using handfuls of bubbles to caress and massage her back. Eventually getting around to caressing her breasts, stomach and anywhere in the front that you can reach. Except her pussy. Leave that totally alone. You can get close but don't go there. Yet. Best is to know a womans erotic areas beforehand.

Bath is done. Dry her off. Then to the bed. Lay her on the bed and make out for a short time while caressing her all over. Still leave her pussy alone. Your being a total tease with her. Get the timing right and slowly go down to ther nipples where you will play with them, with your mouth, for a while. Eventually moving father down to stop again at her naval area. Don't linger there for too long. Move down again to her pubic area. Now it is time to spread her legs wide. Making her pussy available to your mouth. Now it is time to go to work on her pussy. First thing is to lick her from the bottom to the top of using your tongue on either side of her slit. Do that a few times on both sides. Then start at the bottom of her slit and lick from bottom to top in her slit to speard the lips. Do this a couple times. This will bring you to the clit. A few slow easy licks on her clit. Paying attention to her moans and body language. There are times when she will orgasm at this point the first time. If not. Intensify the licks and trade back and forth with licking and sucking lightly on her clit. Doesn't hurt to drop back down to the bottom and lick back up to her clit once in a while. Sticking your tongue in her hole as you do. While licking and sucking her clit insert one finger inside her. Direct it at her G spot. Using the finger to massage that. After about a minute insert a second finger and massage her G spot even harder. By this time it should of changed from rough to smooth. A sure indicator that she is fully concentrating on what is going on and fully enjoying it. By this itme she should be almost at the point of orgasm. Time to get away from the clit for a moment. Pull out your fingers and lick her entire pussy a couple times. She is going to want you back at her clit and will be pulling at you to get back there. Lick her a couple times and then return to her clit. Reinsert the two fingers and possibly the third. While your licking her clit and have her pussy full of your fingers it might be the right timing to insert the forth finger in her anus. Make sure her anus is well lubed first. With all the juices she is putting out it should be soaked. Slowly insert the little finger in her anus and shove your whole hand hard against her. At the same time suck harder on her clit and use some flicking action with your tongue.

By this time she should be exploding with her first orgasm. Hold on as she is going to be like a bucking bronco. Your going to want to stay in place for the full 8 seconds. If she isn't ready to screw your brains out right then let things relax for a short while and repeat for a second time.

Warnings. She will be the most inclined to squirt her skeen gland fluids with this procedure. So be prepared to get your face wet and sticky fast.

That's how you prepare and how you eat pussy well.
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Mar 24, 2010 @ 1:19 AM How do you eat pussy well    
PetePuma


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Make sure to find out what her favorite wine is and have plenty

I'd advise caution here. While some wine may help her relax and get into the mood, I'd avoid getting her drunk.

1) You don't ever want to be accused of taking advantage of a woman.
2) Her experience will be lessened if she's had too much to drink. You're talent will be greater appreciated if she's sober.
3) You don't want her having a full bladder when you're eating her out. Either she'll need to stop to go to the bathroom or she'll choose hold it in which can cause her experience to suffer.

You shouldn't drink too much either. You will perform better sober.


Best is to know a womans erotic areas beforehand.

That's pretty much her whole body. Women have many many more erogenous zones than most men realize. She has erogenous zones covering almost every inch of her body.
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Mar 26, 2010 @ 8:26 PM How do you eat pussy well    
Luv2Laugh2


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You don't want her having a full bladder when you're eating her out. Either she'll need to stop to go to the bathroom or she'll choose hold it in which can cause her experience to suffer.

Actually, clamping down to keeping from peeing can give you a huge orgasm since you are working your PC muscles like you would if you were doing Kegel exercises. She might leak a little, but the bed should already have a nice wet spot if she was enjoying herself.
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Mar 27, 2010 @ 6:50 PM How do you eat pussy well    
PetePuma


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That was a helluva description though! Phew! Is it hot in here or it is just me?

Wow Luv2Laugh2! I'm glad you enjoyed my post but I didn't expect anyone to get hot and excited over it. I didn't go into a lot of provocative detail describing technique, rather I simply discussed some fundamental elements, which I normally refer to as the "Six A's"
1) Attitude
2) Arousal
3) Attention
4) Ask (The word "Communicate" better describes this element but "Ask" better fits the mnemonic aid I'm using here).
5) Again

Actually, clamping down to keeping from peeing can give you a huge orgasm since you are working your PC muscles like you would if you were doing Kegel exercises. She might leak a little, but the bed should already have a nice wet spot if she was enjoying herself.

Interesting...But can YOU keep holding it in for hours? I've literally eaten pussy for well more than an hour straight. And I've treated women to amazing 4 to 6 hour experiences, alternating between eating her out and giving her back massages, foot massages, pedicures, manicures and etc. I've eaten women who couldn't hold it in any longer and needed to stop for a quick pee. I made the full bladder comment because I honestly don't care for the lingering scent and taste of urine, but I love eating pussy so much that I'm back down there without hesitation and the scent and taste soon dissipates. Hmmm...I wonder where it goes...I guess down into the tummy. LOL!

No woman has ever told me that holding back the urge to pee can intensify her orgasm. However relaxing and submitting to the urge can allow her to squirt female ejaculate emitting from the Skene's glands.

I guess it's time to conduct an experiment. Now all I need is a woman who's willing to drink down a gallon of water and let me eat her pussy out while she holds back the urge to pee.

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Mar 27, 2010 @ 6:54 PM How do you eat pussy well    
PetePuma


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So Luv2Laugh2, how are we going to...ahem...prove your statement?
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Mar 27, 2010 @ 9:15 PM How do you eat pussy well    
Luv2Laugh2


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So Luv2Laugh2, how are we going to...ahem...prove your statement?

Yes, I can hold it for quite some time. It's harder to do when you are hitting the G, which triggers that Skene's gland (and makes a woman feel like she really has to pee), but I can do it.

How to prove it? I guess when you have me screaming your name until I'm hoarse and I can finally move my sweaty, limp, well satiated body, I will go pee. You can't watch because I have a shy bladder, but if you listen at the door you will hear it stop and start because the muscles will still be contracting. But the best way to know for sure is probably to penetrate me while I am mid orgasm so you can feel how strong those contractions are for yourself. And since you are such a pleaser, I will take my penetration hard and fast, please! If you're ready to go again in 15 minutes and I tell you to start without me, you know the orgasm was so intense, I'm all tapped out.

I've literally eaten pussy for well more than an hour straight. And I've treated women to amazing 4 to 6 hour experiences, alternating between eating her out and giving her back

I've literally had my ex go down on me for about 2 hours straight and then start alternating sex/oral sex to the point where when we were getting into the shower and he looked at the clock he said, "Were we really just going at it for 4 and 1/2 hours?" My answer was yes, and I'd like to continue once my fluids have been replenished. We went out to dinner, went back to our room and spent another 4-5 hours doing more of the same. It was a long distance relationship and I'm a greedy girl! Had to get it while I could.

[Edited on 3/27/2010 9:23 PM]
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Mar 27, 2010 @ 9:27 PM How do you eat pussy well    
chuck111


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good all i have to say

chuck
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Mar 28, 2010 @ 5:33 AM How do you eat pussy well    
Luv2Laugh2


Posts: 450
Use both sides of your tongue, take your time and explore, listen to her cues, pay attention to her movements, at least ACT like you enjoy it and don't forget to finger fuck her when she starts really getting into it.

I actually had a boyfriend who was amazing at giving oral sex, but there were times i was so into it that I couldn't tell exactly what it was that he was doing because he was always switching it up. One night I asked him if he would go down on me and do each thing as I asked for it, that way I was sure what I liked and could ask for it when it was what I wanted/needed him to do to get me off. I found I liked it best when he flicked his tongue up and down on my clit really fast and when he sucked on it gently, firm suction made it too sensitive.

Also, don't zone in on the clit right away. Suck her lips, brush your hand lightly over her pussy. Run your tongue up the slit from perineum to clit and back down again. Anticipation is a good thing. And if you need guidance, ask her to spread her pussy lips open so you have full access to the clit and tell her to move her hips however she wants and take your cues from that. Is she slowly rocking her hips or is she shoving your face into her pussy and fucking your mouth? Adjust accordingly.
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