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Nov 10, 2008 @ 7:11 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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Relationships are becoming a thing of the past.
The majority of people are just looking for a temporary solution to horniness, lonliness etc............
No strings attached.
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Nov 10, 2008 @ 8:34 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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Absolutely disagree Minky. I had all the years of sex without affection that I ever would want. Maybe the male hormones are not as strong but I have no intention of ever having sex with a woman without the affection being there again.
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Nov 10, 2008 @ 10:45 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I totally disagree too. The vast majority of people would trade hit-n-run sex for finding that "special someone". Putting notches on your bedpost loses its luster over time. But, when in Rome..............
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Nov 11, 2008 @ 9:15 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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I disagree. I want sex to have some meaning. There have been times i've been so horney I could scream and thought about going out just for the sake of having sex but after giving it thought I stayed home and used my toy
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Nov 11, 2008 @ 2:44 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I would rather have the meaningful relationship,sex means and feels alot better if its with someone you really care for
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Nov 12, 2008 @ 12:31 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I agree and disagree.

I think the basics of a relationship aren't being considered first and have been thrown out the window. No one's getting to know each other first to find out if this person really is for them.

It's jump into bed from the get-go and that clouds the WHOLE thing. Really kicks the relationship in the ass from the word beginning. Coz you're on a fuck-high and can't see the whole picture.

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Nov 26, 2008 @ 3:28 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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Disagree!! I've had some pretty wild sex in my days but am happy to be settled down with the man of my dreams. Its all the wildness of "unattached sex" with all the warm fuzzies of a relationship. I think it's perfect. Lots of people just get fed up with trying to find someone.
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Dec 9, 2008 @ 9:49 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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I don't think monogamous relationships are going anywhere. They're necessary for raisning children, I think anyway, and there are too many businesses that profti from it.

It's changing , yes, but not going away.
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Dec 9, 2008 @ 4:00 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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Actually I rather Agree. Sorry to say it but there seems like so many people out there playing games or carring emotional luggage, a byproduct from past relationships, that I would just like to have our ships pass in the night.

Come on...Admit it. You have NEVER had better sex that your FIRST time with someone! So why deny your self this experience? Sure, when it comes time to put down roots and raise a family, then Play-time is over, and you have that same face, those same arms, and everthing else to come home to everynight.

Look at it another way. If You were offered your ABSOLUTE favorite meal prepared by a renouned chef, in a beautiful setting you would completely enjoy that experience. Ok, what if this happened every other day? You couls live with it...
No what happens if it's every meal. Every single meal, three times a day, seven days a week, thirty day a month, fifty-two weeks a year. I don't care HOW much you may profess to Love that particular entree, you will EVENTUALLY get tired of it, and a change..ANY change will be welcome!!

I submit Exhibit "A". Elizabeth Hurly. Gentle men, is this not one of the Finest women on the planet? Sexy, shapely, playful, a freaking underwear model!! Wealthy to boot. She was dating Hugh Grant. great guy, funny and all.. but somewhere in the midst of it all he thought it would be better to seek sex froma street prostitute and to sleep with Elizabeth. Basically he was either completely stones (drunk or whached out of his skull on drugs) or...perhaps he was just tired of the same ole same ole he had at home. He needed something different.

Oh, don't get me wrong. I'm certainly open to long term relationships, but like everything else in the universe, eventually it too will get stale, and perhaps it's better if both parties decide it's time to move on.
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Dec 13, 2008 @ 7:57 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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Agree and disagree.

While I do firmly believe that many, if not most, of the people, especially men, on sites like this are out to see how many notches the can put in their bed posts I think to an extent they are only fooling their selves.

I believe that deep down inside any normal person yearns to be loved by someone special. When that love is lacking it leave a void inside us. Non committal sex fills that void but only temporarily. When it rears it's ugly head again we remember how it was filled the last time and we renew our quest it fill the void again. To be clear this is different than two consenting adults who are horny getting together and relieving their urges as long as both parties have a clear understanding of the situation before hand.
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Dec 13, 2008 @ 9:19 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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I think a lot of men only care about themselves. After they screw a woman she's history. Women, like me, want it have some meaning. I've met guys and fucked them that night but it was like he was happy but I wasn't when we got done. He went his way happy and I went home and masturbated. I don't think relationships are becoming a thing of the past. I really think most people would like a good relationship because there's a lot more feeling and love when they have sex. It's not just wham bam it's over maybe we can do it again sometime
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Dec 13, 2008 @ 6:06 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I've been married 6 times, had countless shack-ups and one night stands..
I've just never been monagamous..
I guess that when I was 16-20 and had a popular band in LA
And there were tons of groupies in my home 24/7 prolly spoiled me..
It's been like that for 55 years now..I like it!!
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Feb 8, 2009 @ 12:46 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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i completely agree with you!!! people just dont want the damn hassle anymore of a relationship...well, i dont at least. going on over 5 years single.
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Feb 8, 2009 @ 1:02 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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Maybe men but not women so I disagree
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Feb 8, 2009 @ 1:54 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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lol ..stop following me!!!...if you want to get my attention just hit me up..i'd rather enjoy licking the wetness outta ya
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Feb 9, 2009 @ 12:17 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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Feb 13, 2009 @ 11:16 AM Agree or Disagree?    

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sometimes I just want a temporary relief when i'm horney but I disagree that relationships are a thing of the past
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May 22, 2009 @ 4:01 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I disagree. I think the majority of people still want meaningful relationships, though the number of people who prefer casual sex has obviously grown over time.

I on the other hand am the exact opposite. I have grown tired of meaningful relationships, and would rather just have no strings attached.
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May 22, 2009 @ 4:26 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I disagree
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May 22, 2009 @ 4:27 PM Agree or Disagree?    

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I have to disagree. I have had years of meaningless sex that was for fun and yes a little profit at one time. I have now been married to the same man for 31 years and would not trade a minute of it. I cannot describe the secure feeling and the love I feel when I snuggle up to him each night and wake up in his arms. Sounds corny, but it is what it is. Interestingly enough, we are also long time swingers and both bi. We were swingers before we met. We still play with a group of close long time friends, but our relationship is our primary focus.
I do think may people today are searching and they take what they can get and not knowing a real rock solid relationship, they settle for whatever they find. A steady partner for the time or a series of one night stands.. I also think the media promotes this with programs and advertising. I am the farthest thing from being a prude, but I do know after years of experience that there is nothing better to replace a strong, loving, permanent relationship.
Just my 2 cents worth,
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