| Sep 25, 2006 @ 3:49 PM |
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JJN4Fun
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I'm with Giggl - I just love men's boobies! Yummy is right! So hand over the pictures and videos, decatur, and let the worshiping begin!
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 5:09 PM |
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decaturnooner
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Do you want them in a lactation state as well?
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 5:19 PM |
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JJN4Fun
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Now that's just sick :) LOL I'm just saying, I love to lick, nibble, and suck my lover's nipples...why would it be less of a turn on for a woman to do that to a man than for a man to do that to a woman?
Pictures??? ;)
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 6:34 PM |
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ponme
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Man boobs are great too.. I am an equal opportunity boob person :D yeah we want photos.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 7:10 PM |
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Looking4ever
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I am with you ladies. Gawd, but they can feel so good. But, some men do have a hangup about having theirs played with. Which, in my opinion, is too bad.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 7:19 PM |
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JJN4Fun
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4 say yea for man boobs
1 says nay
Anymore votes before we close the polls?
[Edited on 9/25/2006 7:30 PM]
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 12:11 AM |
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JJN4Fun
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Men are genetically predisposed to a large set of breats. We can't help it, in the days of yore, long before silicon, large breats we're a sign of a woman's ability to nurse young. Since primitive man wanted strong off spring, he tended to mate with the biggest rack he could. That's the anthropology view in a nut shell.
Wait a minute! I was reviewing this thread and I had to stop and think about this...What a load of crap! Sorry, canu; but genetically predisposed? No. I'm sorry but I can't accept that! That's like saying women are biologically predispoed to marry upward (says the twisted sociobiolgist, E.O. Wilson). I can't tell you why boobs are so popular, but there is no way anyone can convince me is genetic! No way, no how! I need some scientific proof before I'll even entertain that idea...
A&E aired a documentary called "Cleavage" - a fascinating show about how breasts have been perceived - nay, revered - thoughout history. Check it out if you ever get the chance!
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 2:42 AM |
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Dominus
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Wait a minute! I was reviewing this thread and I had to stop and think about this...What a load of crap! Sorry, canu; but genetically predisposed? No. I'm sorry but I can't accept that!
Well, I used to side with canu, too. In a way it makes sense. Then as I grew up and had more and more friends who had babies, I noticed that even flat-chested women didn't seem to have problems keeping their children fed.
Furthermore, as I learned more about history, I learned that views of the breast varied widely depending on time and place. Often, in European history, the breast was not viewed as a sexual stimuli at all. It was merely an everyday occurrence for them to be exposed as women fed their children. However, a woman who showed her ankles off was definitely making sexual advances toward you.
But on the other hand, canuhelp is right in a way, too. Animals of all kinds take cues from appearance to determine the genetic benefits of their mates (Lionesses favor lions with thick, dark manes...Peahens look for males with the biggest most beautiful plumage.) I know from my psychology studies that humans are instantly predisposed against any individual who's body lacks symetry (e.g., one eye larger than the other, etc.) or who's skin appears uneven (e.g., dry, spotted, bumpy, etc.) because that is interpreted as potential for genetic flaws.
It does stand to reason that a woman that has certain features may be considered better breeding material (e.g., wide hips, large breasts) but then by that same comment a man does not need a huge member that spews like a firehose to impregnate a female, so why do women like a more generous cock?
To me it seems that both men and women do choose what they think is going to be a good genetic pairing, but that is based on the current learned perception of what makes for good breeding material. The only pssible exception to this is in the exclusion of individuals because they look as if they could be diseased either genetically or otherwise.
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 9:34 AM |
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JJN4Fun
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Are you baiting me, Dominus? LOL
...I know from my psychology studies that humans are instantly predisposed against any individual who's body lacks symetry (e.g., one eye larger than the other, etc.) or who's skin appears uneven (e.g., dry, spotted, bumpy, etc.) because that is interpreted as potential for genetic flaws.
So, if one of my boobs was visibly bigger than the other I'd never get laid? LOL I had to say it!
It does stand to reason that a woman that has certain features may be considered better breeding material (e.g., wide hips, large breasts) but then by that same comment a man does not need a huge member that spews like a firehose to impregnate a female, so why do women like a more generous cock?
More generous cock...Hmmm. Not sure I agree with that one. For looks, sure; fun to play with, too! But practically speaking, I don't necessarily agree that bigger is better. And besides, it's not like women can always tell if a man's endowed like men can tell if a woman is; for that reason alone I can't agree with that statement...
This reminds me of SNL's Point/Counter Point :)
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 9:43 AM |
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decaturnooner
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On a note regarding the symetry of the boobies, I once dated a girl in high school that had this issue. They both looks the same size and dimensions...
I felt up the left breast...nice and firm...the 17 year old petting and sucking technique was applied. My cock grew to a totally erect state (it was always erect then, I was 17!) and the race to 420 seconds of fun was on until...
I felt the right breast. It lacked firmness, it was squishy, it was also a little like tapioca pudding.
In a rare event, the erection died!
I asked one of the dumbest questions of my life, "Tammy, did you have surgery or something? One of your tits is deflated!"
Tammy answered, "Wait til you touch my love box."
Makeout session was over!
I still don't want to know!
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 12:26 PM |
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ponme
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so why do women like a more generous cock?
Some of us prefer a more normal sized cock. Frankly anything too big isn't going to happen with me. If I want pain I want it on my own terms, not cuz someone is bashing my cervix to jelly.
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 12:34 PM |
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Dominus
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This reminds me of SNL's Point/Counter Point
Fine, then I'll continue to push the point...
First of all, I said "generous"...not "gigantic monster of a". Almost every woman I ever knew who met a man with massive meat had the same complaint...he had the power tool but didn't read the manual.
I'm not saying this is true in all cases, but one of the secrets of being a good lover is to know how to use wht you've got. In one case, a girl who was in one of my sex-ed classes related a story of how one guy was in a hook-up with her and when the clothes came off he was apparently hung like a rhinoceros. He made the comment (in regards to her vag) "baby, I'm gonna tear that shit up!" And she promptly put on her clothes and left.
But let me get back to breasts...the topic that's fun to play with.
Lack of symetry is a very strong sign of potential genetic problems. Very few people are perfectly symetrical (my nose, for example, is very slightly angled more left than right) but it takes more than small flaws to disrupt attraction. Many women have slightly different size to their breasts, or one hangs just a quarter inch lower than the other, or the nipples aren't exactly the same. That's normal. However, large differences can be an immediate turn off.
But there's one last element...People look for genes that would best compliment or enhance their own (which explains why some people are just physically attractive while others are not) whether those genes are in the form of big breasts, a perfectly symetrical face, or a high IQ.
Unfortunately, some people are at the low end of the gene pool and their genetics would be enhanced by just about anything. Having babies with a woman with tremendously lopsided breasts would only be an improvement. Hence, pretty people only try to have sex with other pretty people; the ugly and stupid try to have sex with everything. (Boy! am I gonna catch hell for that last sentence!)
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 4:01 PM |
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canuhelpme258
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I’m not one to stringently hold fast to a belief, when shown facts to the contrary! Dom’s cultural point rings true. Furthermore, as I learned more about history, I learned that views of the breast varied widely depending on time and place. Often, in European history, the breast was not viewed as a sexual stimuli at all. It was merely an everyday occurrence for them to be exposed as women fed their children. However, a woman who showed her ankles off was definitely making sexual advances toward you. Have you ever watched the funny commercials from around the world on one of the premium cable channels (HBO or Showtime?) There are parts of the world that scratched their heads at the American furor over Janet Jackson’s Supper Bowl slip. Breasts are not hidden from the curious eyes of young males to the degree they are in Western Culture. I’ll graciously cede the point. I think if we were exposed to them more often, a little of their magical appeal, (that was a sly way of saying to women show us your boobs!) One thing I have noticed, we are debating the “why”, but ignoring the common ground, we love breasts!
And Dom, lmao, I’ve told people for years “if you’re a four, chase other fours, because the nines and tens are sticking together” Though your list of those who sleep with anything Hence, pretty people only try to have sex with other pretty people; the ugly and stupid try to have sex with everything. (Boy! am I gonna catch hell for that last sentence!) should be lengthened to include chemical dependant, so I explain away my wasted youth, without feeling ugly or stupid!
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 6:19 PM |
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ponme
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I beg to differ, because I am about a 5 on the scale.. neither beautiful nor hideously ugly.. just an average josie.. but I get the purty ones all the time.. (really kinda sucks sleepin with men who are purtier than me..) ((yes I can spell pretty))
I do believe that we look for the best provider.. which in older times was the best hunter, ergo the better built man, or gatherer, the (believe it or not) fattest woman.
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| Sep 26, 2006 @ 7:16 PM |
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LatinMember
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Unless we're talking about quickies, I expect total exploration and my nipples want a lot of attention. Take me around the world. Yes.
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 12:07 AM |
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JJN4Fun
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Hence, pretty people only try to have sex with other pretty people; the ugly and stupid try to have sex with everything.
How could I not laugh!?! That was so rude I had to laugh; am still laughing! Shame on you (shame on me!).
Laughter aside, I think there is some truth to this point. No one wants to have an ugly baby, so of course - when thinking about selecting a suitable co-parent - looks are taken into account. IQ is, as well, but I don't think the average person thinks like that - especially when the daddy is FINE! Who cares if he's dumb as a doorknob? (Ya, personal experience! LOL But, I surely did make some beautiful babies!)
But back to breasts...don't try to change the subject ;) The whole nature/nurture argument will probably never be settled, but I still contend that attraction to breasts is learned, not innate.
[Edited on 9/27/2006 12:13 AM]
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 12:20 AM |
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Dominus
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The whole nature/nurture argument will probably never be settled, but I still contend that attraction to breasts is learned, not innate.
I'm not sure I buy that. Cats like to be pet because the sensation is reminiscent to them of when their mother groomed them as a kitten. Grooming is an innate behavior for cats...not a learned one.
Why can't the same thing apply for people? Most of us were nursed. Perhaps the attraction for breasts is inate on that level (for females as well as males) because it's something reminiscent of the pleasure borne from our inate suckling behavior.
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 12:37 AM |
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canuhelpme258
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So the debate rages. Why does a well formed pair of breasts excite us so. Why are normally intelligent people reduced to Beavis and Butthead like behavior once glimpsing a nipple? I would not budge from my original position if Western males still sought the ancient ideal mate. Weight was a sign of wealth and health, she was well fed. I would line up 100% with Dom, if areas with more breast exposure, and more openness in sexuality, did not prize wonderful melons. I’m stumped. Since only the fool sits at the table of the wise and continues to talk with nothing to say, I’m going to work. I like boobs, I like hot girl on girl action, and I like Scooter Crunch bars, I have no explanation as to why I like any on these things…. But I do!
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 12:47 AM |
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JJN4Fun
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Maybe some people just like big boobs because they feel good pressed against a bare back :)
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| Sep 27, 2006 @ 10:37 AM |
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roughandready872
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Who cares, what ever takes your fancy?????? Anyway SzxeBBW can we get back to the bar bit and the pink lacy bra(that sounded good)!!!!!
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