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| May 14 @ 5:11 PM |
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LOKI1960
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I like to post similar threads on different sites to see what a difference demographics make on a given site.I use dating sites mainly because they see alot more traffic than other sites that have forums and blogs.Some of them see too much traffic and all you get are flamers and people with nothing intelligent to say.This is a variation on a thread on another site called "Are prostitutes the solution?"I didn't want to use the same title as I didn't want to get into yet another moral discussion about whether or not prostitution should be legal or whatever.This,I think is a valid question though.
In looking through dating sites,even the adult ones,you get the same old,tired argument.Guys are looking for casual,non committal,no strings sex and women get tired of this and complain about how all men are just horny pigs looking to get their rocks off.
OK fine,we've established the problem.So what are the options for a guy who wants NSA sex?The way I see it,he can 1) Be a player.Lead women on into thinking there is something more just to get sex and then bail when he's done.I think most will agree there are too many guys like that as it is.It's not fair,the guy's misrepresenting himself,yada,yada,yada...Bad idea.or 2)Stay home,look at porn and wank it.Not much fun when compared to the real thing.It gets real old,real fast.3)Hire a hooker.Not really a good idea,imo,chance of a criminal record if one gets caught.You can cover yourself on the disease bit with condoms and the higher priced escorts,but then you're dealing with a host of other potential troubles just dealing with an illegal activity,plus,is it really worth paying that much money?The average price I've seen for an hour with an escort is around 250 to 500 bucks.Hell with that as far as I'm concerned. or 4)Try the NSA and adult oriented sites....Ever visited one of those?They're great if you plan on hiring a cyber escort.You'll get lots of email from them,and most of them are scams.
Now I know many people reading this,especially women will say,"Who cares"?If they don't want a relationship,they don't deserve sex and just need to take what they get,it's the way the world is....Does it really have to be?Or is there an option I'm missing?I"M NOT INTERESTED IN THE MORALITY OF THE ISSUE,JUST THE LOGISTICS.What's the best way to resolve such an issue without shoving someone else's morality down another's throat,so that all can be satisfied and no one is complaining about being "played" or not getting any?Is there a solution that makes everyone happy?
And yes,I know there are women who want NSA sex just like the guys,but the social situation being what it is,these women must remain "underground" so to speak,so the guy who wants to hook up with one of these women must resort to the dreaded dating games,which is what he was trying to avoid in the first place.
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| May 14 @ 6:49 PM |
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Playguy40
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I would say Step 1 would be to be very, very handsome.
Dammit!!!! 
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| May 14 @ 10:08 PM |
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LOKI1960
Posts: 134
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Wasn't that a video on Mad TV?A spoof of an old training film about sexual harassment?
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| May 14 @ 11:08 PM |
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OdysseusMI
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I think the biggest issues with NSA/FWB (if I can include that) sex when it comes to men is the issue of patience and timing. There are a lot of women that seek NSA sex, but it's only an occasional thing for most of them and when they are seeking that, you need to strike while the iron is hot (so to say.)
I say patience because from my past experience, most women when they decide they might want to take this path are doing so out of their ordinary character. Most (again, from observation) would prefer the relationship that is meaningful and fulfilling. When that is not there, they wait or they get to a point when they feel like they are going to burst and put themselves out there. So, when a woman finally does take this step, you can't push the matter with them. You need to take things slowly and gain their confidence, let them know that you're not going to be judgemental and that you are discreet. Those things are important.
Of course this leads to timing, which in some ways might mean luck. You need to be in the right place at the right time. You need to keep contact and make yourself known to her, with the aforementioned patience matters in play.
Where to meet such a woman? They are all around us. Here, other sites, Craig has some posted, shucks, even the grocery store. What it boils down to is what you are seeking and willing to accept, and how much spam (when it comes to the net) that you want to wade through before discovering someone that might be interested.
$.02
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| May 20 @ 6:48 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
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It's a dog's life being a guy and having to constantly be on the prowl for sex. Woof woof! Biology is cruel.Guys seem to be getting by with LOTS of porn, a hooker once in a while (although they will NOT admit that) and once in a while tricking some gal into putting out. "You're the A #1 most imporatnt thing in my life babe." My cock is the A #1 most important thing in my life.
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| May 23 @ 8:36 AM |
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Traci429
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You post a very good question. Lets be totally open minded and not too quick to judge or have 'cute' comebacks or replies.
Us women don't have to 'search' for NSA sex. It may not be fair, but almost regardless of looks, weight, or even age.... all we have to do is 'want', and there is almost always someone that is willing to accept... matter of fact, as women, we reject the majority of offers.
Personally I don't know of many guys that get offers on a regular basis let alone reject any..... generally speaking.
With this grim fact, may I suggest you hone your 'game'.... I don't mean decieve, I just mean pay attention to your cloths, hygeine, and attitude. Most all women like sharp dressers, not just clean.... but trim. Meaning nice trimmed facial hair, clean smell, and tamed eye brows.
As for attitude.... every one loves to laugh, be friendly and humorous.... but not 'cruel humor' at others expense.... Frequent a bar.... get to know the owner, a night time bar tender, and one of the waitesses that work the night shift. If the bartender and the bar maid know you are a 'good' guy... they recommend you and tell thier 'lady friends'.
The more ladies you meet, the sooner you will get aquainted with on that wants to take you home.... just don't rush it..... yet. Just find one that isn't interested in a long term relation.... is all it takes. If you do your part right, she may (and will) recommend you to one (or more) of her friends.
Then........you are IN!!!! Once you have broken the circle and have made just one, the right one, connection... word will spread.... you must go slow, like I said. But only at first, untill you start to 'build' your reputation. The main key is not to rush the beginning, that is where the majority of those trying this techneque fail.
If you follow these words of advise, you will be handsomely rewarded.... rush... and you will totally foul up. The thing is... unless you live in a very large town, you will only get one bite at the apple, one chance to make this work at 'your location' just as a 'good' word about you can spread.... the 'bad' words can spread faster...
Traci : )
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| May 23 @ 10:03 AM |
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sumdaysoon
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sexy and smart.......... 
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