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Feb 16, 2008 @ 10:59 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
shwing1


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Well, I've dealt with this problem for awhile now, figured I'd see if anyone had this same problem and overcame it. I cannot cum during oral or when I'm getting a hand job, everytime a girl gives me head or jerks me off I always either have to have sex or jerk myself off to cum, I love getting head, it feels fucking fantastic, but I have yet to find a girl who can make me cum, I don't know if its them or me, I've gotten head and jerked off from quite a few ladies and they all are disappointed because they can not get me off without me "finishing" the job.
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Feb 16, 2008 @ 11:07 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
OMFGitsJAE


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lol you and me both its more of a mindset than anything. theirs actually one girl that i know of that got me to finish within 5 mins but she was damn good, anyways everyone else besides her i had the same problm, nothin is wrong with you its more of a mind set i mean a girl can slob on your knob for an hour and u can enjoy it every moment but i think its the fact that theirs not a lot of body movement or noises to have you to cum as if you were having sex. a girl made a bet with me she can get me off with her giving me head for 10 mins i ended up watching everyone loves raymond while she was doing it and i won the bet :P
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Feb 17, 2008 @ 4:52 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
shwing1


Posts: 8
haha thats great. I mean I figured it's all in my head but it just sucks. I love getting oral its fucking fantastic, and just once I'd like to bust without having to do a damn thing!
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Feb 17, 2008 @ 7:04 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
lunanegra


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Try relaxing.
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Feb 17, 2008 @ 9:08 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
shwing1


Posts: 8
Hehe, generaly I am very relaxed, the whole thought doesnt even cross my mind, then ill realize how much time has went by
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Feb 17, 2008 @ 11:13 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
lunanegra


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Then she probably sucks at it...no pun intended.
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Feb 18, 2008 @ 6:01 AM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
ynot7769


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@lunanegra
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Feb 18, 2008 @ 6:40 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
Loveyoulongtime2


Posts: 446
I have the same problem. Oh well, it's good foreplay before the real event....fucking is the best.
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Feb 18, 2008 @ 8:06 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
lunanegra


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So would it change anything if you did the ol "stranger" trick,i.e cutting off the feeling to your hand and fapping so it will feel like someonelses?
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Feb 20, 2008 @ 1:44 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
asleepatthewheel


Posts: 6
I have the same problem. I enjoy head a lot but just cannot finish that way.
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Feb 26, 2008 @ 10:00 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
cheerleader


Posts: 46
I have had experience with a guy who cant cum that way either, but I found out if you combine the handjob/blowjob. He explodes. lol Try that maybe it will work...
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Mar 4, 2008 @ 5:33 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
coachwaugh69


Posts: 519
Do you loose orgasm when the pace or rhythm changes? It may be simple as that if you can do it yourself but not when she does.

[Edited on 3/4/2008 6:01 PM]
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Mar 4, 2008 @ 5:52 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
lunanegra


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Maybe if she's taking too long you lose feeling in the nerve lessening the sensation?
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Mar 4, 2008 @ 8:45 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
purplemushroomhead69


Posts: 258
Never had a problem cumming.... Just don't do it enough.Some women just don't realize that they're missing the best 32 seconds of thier lives with me...
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 7:43 AM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
dochalladay32


Posts: 2
cheerleader hit the nail on the head. I have the same problem. If it is just a blowjob, sure it feels great, but I'm not going to cum from it. I take awhile any way, but HJ/BJ together worked every time.
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 7:13 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
coachwaugh69


Posts: 519
damn marathon for ya there pmh? a whoppin' 32 seconds!!!! impressive
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 8:00 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
purplemushroomhead69


Posts: 258
My sexuall prowess is amazing isn't it?
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 8:37 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
coachwaugh69


Posts: 519
wait.. so is that by yourself or someone else doing it?
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 8:38 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
Sunshinegal35


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I was with a guy who had the opposite problem- he couldn't cum during intercourse. The only way he could cum is if he gave himself a handjob.
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Mar 5, 2008 @ 9:42 PM Cannot cum during oral/handjob?    
purplemushroomhead69


Posts: 258
I don't get how a guy can't cum from oral/manual or intercourse.Honestly.
So,who wants to ride the Hasslehoff???
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