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| Jan 28 @ 8:04 PM |
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minky46
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If you are just so tired of how the opposite sex acts, can you just switch sides?
I really want to do this.
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| Jan 28 @ 8:07 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
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I could never do it. I've never tried though. Are you at all atrracted to other women? If so, then you should be able to do it.
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| Jan 28 @ 8:20 PM |
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aspiringwriter
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I suppose you could "play for the other team" so to speak. But no, you can't become gay through your own volition. You can act stereotypically gay, get a butch hair cut, listen to Ani Defranco more than is healthy, etc. But you would just be playing a role. The sentiment is going to be unpopular within the gay (or in this case lesbian) community as it implies it is possible to turn straight, and that brings up the whole 'cure for gayness' arguement.
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| Jan 28 @ 8:38 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
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You can do anything you want to do. But if you just "switched sides," you wouldn't be truly gay. It's be like Peter Berg in the (what was it? Excedrin?) commercials..
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on TV." 
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| Jan 29 @ 5:18 AM |
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minky46
Posts: 23
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But isn't it about making love to the person you are with, not just body parts?
I am still turned on by the male body, but emotionally they turn me off.
Don't want to bother with them
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| Jan 29 @ 5:54 AM |
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ynot7769
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If you are just so tired of how the opposite sex acts, can you just switch sides?
I really want to do this.
then try it.........ynot
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| Jan 29 @ 6:45 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
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Minky, if you think that you'd have less emotional issues to contend with if you got involved with a woman, think again. I've known various lesbian and homosexual male couples and talk about drama! No different than any other couple and in many cases much more volatile.
Being with a woman is not going to ensure you have an emotionally secure and tranquil relationship. Women are not sugar and spice and everything nice, as the nursery rhyme says; they can be evil, bitchy and explosive walking time bombs. They can be just as emotionally (and physically) hurtful as men can be ...and oftentimes even more so.
But I know full well where you're coming from when you say you're tired of the way men treat you emotionally. I've lived a lifetime of it. But I'm not yet ready (and never will be) to "go gay" just because of that.
Rather than trying to a find a woman (since you're obviously not gay) why don't you not settle for a man who won't treat you the way you should be treated?
That's what I'm doing...and that's why I've remained single most of my life. Single...but happy. I won't settle for less than what I deserve, not anymore, and neither should you.
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| Jan 29 @ 9:33 AM |
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alybai42
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I knew a woman who was married for a long time...They had a child together..All of a sudden she decides to leave her husband for a woman...I never understood it...
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| Jan 29 @ 6:35 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
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I don't get it. What are the men doing to you emotionally? I would think all you would have to do is suck their dicks a few times a week to keep them docile. I'm pretty sure that would work with me.
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| Jan 29 @ 6:42 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
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40, that's just crude. But you make an interesting point. Because you give men very little credit labeling them as creatures who can be 'kept docile' just by 'sucking their dicks' a few times a week, and you completely disrespect women by the absurd assumption, once again, that somehow we're supposed to be in servitude to men.
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| Jan 29 @ 6:49 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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Sorry, but one of the reasons I come here it be be crude. I kinda like it. It's funny. I think so anyway.
I don't see how my statement means I think women are supposed to be in servitude to men though. It seems to me that in a relationship both sides have to make some kind of compromise to keep the other happy.
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| Jan 29 @ 8:11 PM |
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minky46
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It's not the drama that would concern me. I have had a whole lifetime of men who
take and give nothing back. No idea what a woman needs(not sexually) and they don't seem to care.
I'm thinking I'm on the wrong side 
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| Jan 29 @ 11:26 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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Well, at least with men they'd never want to borrow your pantyhose. Well, Joe Namath maybe.
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| Feb 4 @ 12:28 AM |
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shellsmack
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I don't think you can just "switch". Attraction, desire and contentment would come from something within that's been a part of you from the beginning. I don't believe anyone can just DO it. It's how you are. You can't MAKE yourself be gay. You either are or you aren't.
People don't choose that!
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| Feb 5 @ 7:21 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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So I'll never be able to fall in love with a chicken shells? Should I just give up on the chicken fantasy? I really thought that was my best chance to get devirginated. Maybe somewhere there is a chicken that I will find attractive.
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| Feb 5 @ 11:46 PM |
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shellsmack
Posts: 7,612
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40...was that YOU in that porn where the guy was screwing a chicken? 
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| Feb 7 @ 7:07 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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No shells, then I wouldn't be a virgin. You don't think I'm lying about that, do you? I assure you that I'm as honest as the day is long.
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| Feb 10 @ 6:15 AM |
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shellsmack
Posts: 7,612
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and how long is THAT? 
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| Feb 10 @ 9:10 AM |
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Loveyoulongtime2
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somehow we're supposed to be in servitude to men.  Men are more in servitude to women. Some will do anything for women. What's wrong in giving a man enough sex to satisfy him?
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| Feb 10 @ 9:19 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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Ha! Since when? I have never had a man be in servitude to me. Ever.
And giving him enough sex to satisfy him? LOL...I don't know who you're talking about when you make that suggestion, but it sure as hell isn't me!
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