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| Jan 27 @ 5:37 AM |
What is attractive ??? |
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SxcBabyEyes
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everytime you go on a date, u always judge one another whether breasts or ass or smile but wat is the most thing attractive and if your not that attractive how can you try and have someone to hold you close and not hurt you.
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| Jan 27 @ 6:32 AM |
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aspiringwriter
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To me these seem to be 2 unrelated questions. The first one being:
What thing is the most attractive? My answer would be to long to even get to the meat of the matter here. (In fact, I think I'm gonna blog about it tomorrow) To give a quick answer, confidence is generally considered to be the most widely agreed upon attractive trait.
The second question (to abbreviate) is how can you get somebody to truly love you. (My mind is a bit scattered here, so bear with me if I jump around here and there) Actually I'm not sure if this is a fair summary of the question.
Hurt jumps out at me in this question. There are two types of hurt that jump to mind. One would be "the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune" or "the thousand natural shocks that flesh is err to." In other words, the pain that comes along with life. As an example, you, being female, will most likely outlive your husband (or any other variation of male companion). That is a type of hurt you can't avoid (barring unhealthy activities). The other hurt that I see in this sentence, would be abusive hurt. That opens up a different conversation entirely, but for now (at least), I'm not going to get into it. Back to the first hurt: well, its a risk you have to take if you want a life including romance and/or sexual companionship. To truly be held close requires trust, which is a two way street, as they say. As such, you would be making yourself vulnerable, which by definition, is a risk. You can certainly minimize the risk through various means but, you can't be sure.
It occurs to me, I haven't even started answering the question. There is no such thing as a person who is wholly and universally unattractive (that's not actually true, but even for universally unattractive people, there are surgeries one could suggest). To take some liberities with a quote, even if you're not purty, you are probably somebody's kind of not purty. Perhaps, for every midget there's even a Canu out there (a person with atleast an infatuation for midgets).
It occurs to me, that I see 3 questions. What is attractive (in this case sexually, which isn't the only form of attraction)? For now, you have my answer to that (confidence). How does an unattractive person attract others? My answer (at least for now) is that the question is moot. There is no such animal, attractive is subjective. Finally, how can you have somebody hold you and not hurt you? Shortest answer would be trust and communication.
I have a lot more to say on the subject, but for now there you have it.
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| Jan 27 @ 9:20 AM |
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catman816
Posts: 127
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for me , it's what SHE can do . some don't talk . as long as she can talk with me . can talk about anything . WITHOUT the drama . then we are good to go . so , she has small breasts . today her ass is big . BUT give it 3 months . it will be small . SHE will want you a year from now . provided You DON'T screw things up . the worst thing is to tell her she looks fat .  why I tell her she looks fat and ugly . NOW ,. I have no woman .
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| Jan 28 @ 7:49 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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There is physical attraction and emotional attraction. In the short term physical attraction is important. There are lots of aspects to what makes a women attractive. T & A isn't all there is to it. Soft skin, hair, eyes. Women have lots of nice parts! In the end it is the emotional aspect that is most important. You have to match up.
As for finding someone when you're not that attractive - I don't know how. I've not managed it.
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| Jan 28 @ 8:41 PM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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I tend to be drawn toward men between 5'10 and 6', with dark hair and blue or green eyes, weighing between 180 to 205 pounds.
But what's really attractive to me is wit and intelligence. Without it, there is no attraction, for me.
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| Jan 29 @ 6:58 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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Does age play any part in it? I'm afraid that I am rarely attracted to any woman over 35 or so. The most important things are nice skin and a fairly thin waist. Brown eyes are the best, but not essential.
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| Feb 9 @ 1:38 AM |
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cheerleader
Posts: 47
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The most important factor in attraction, to me is their personality, heart, eyes, smile and smell. In that order. You can be the most beautiful person in the world but if your an asshole that makes you ugly as hell to me. and vice versa.
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| Feb 9 @ 7:35 AM |
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lolthisistoofunny
Posts: 516
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The things that I find most attractive in a man are integrity and intelligence. Without those traits, how "hot" he looks doesn't mean diddly to me.
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| Feb 11 @ 1:46 PM |
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bandengor
Posts: 7,299
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personality eventually wins out. 
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| Feb 11 @ 6:04 PM |
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mantisman968
Posts: 165
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ever hear the line
" no matter how hot he/she is some one is sick of their shit"
its more then looks in the long run
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| Feb 14 @ 3:28 AM |
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lunanegra
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" no matter how hot he/she is some one is sick of their shit"
Word.I heard that somewhere.But I will admit that apart of me is a little shallow.Turns out that the more hyped up a person's looks are,the more unappealing they are to me.Same goes with average-looking folk- if they're not exact attractive by certain standards,the more I'm drawn to them.Like for ex: that Kim Kardashian chick and Beyonce...both very appealing to men,yet but for some reason I think they're both gargoyles.Its like the more guys bust a nut over these women,the more ugly they are.
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| Apr 9 @ 10:48 AM |
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Natgoat
Posts: 1,500
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Her height..{I like T A L L }...
L O N G Hair..
Sexx-a-e Eyes . .
Hourglass shape . .
L o n g Legs . .
A Devilish   Smile!!
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| Apr 10 @ 10:10 AM |
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sensualrenegade
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Whoever said there's physical attraction and emotional attraction -- DAMN STRAIGHT.
I've dated the hot football players most my life. And they're fun and all. Hell i still drool all over them. But my current boyfriend...who will probably be my husband...is overweight and extremely nerdy...and i LOVE him. Why? We have a lot in common and can understand each other.
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