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Dec 13, 2008 @ 5:13 AM bondage and discipline    
shorthairblonde


Posts: 75
I love BDSM. I love to be beaten until I'm bleeding. I love to be cut. I love to be whipped. I don't like to be burnt though.
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Mar 1, 2009 @ 11:55 AM bondage and discipline    
Quartzman007


Posts: 4
Fear can be a good catalyst, as long as the dom is experienced enough to know how to manage it. Example: I was just done tying my sub at her house early one day(she was expecting guests later that evening, so I told her to be ready when I arrived). She was and stripped naked an laid on the bed so I could tie her in a spreadeagle(I use karate belts personally). I left her arms and legs a little room to move but she was of course helpless. When I was done tying her I didn't say a word, just got up and started to collect all the gear I had brought and put it back in my bag. She watched me curiously for a couple of minutes then started to squirm, pulling at the belts binding her arms and legs. I knew I had her a little scared when she started to do that and right then she said, "Master, you're not going to leave me like this?" I didn't say a word, just loosened the belts binding her arms somewhat but leaving them bound to the headboard so she could get herself loose and left when she was free.
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Mar 5, 2009 @ 11:17 AM bondage and discipline    
secretw


Posts: 3
I'm an old sub... love to be used and abused, bound, humiliated, and pushed beyond the limits of past experience.

Dom is right that safety needs to be mentioned, especially on a site like this one, where more vanilla readers may not understand. BDSM is potentially dangerous and, like any other sexual activity, requires some discussion and education.

On the subject of fear... Trust does not negate all fear. But fear for one's life or safety has no place in a scene. It can be fun to be threatened as part of roleplay, but I know that my partner will return me home, safe and happy, regardless of what he says. If you aren't completely open, honest and comfortable, save the S&M for later in the relationship.

Just my two cents...
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Mar 7, 2009 @ 10:13 AM bondage and discipline    
buttandthighs


Posts: 134

whatch this space...

I have uploaded photos you will dream of for days to come...

buuuuuuuut they are - ....we have to wait ... pending....

once they are there, I will be happy to see your comments on each of them...
hopefully you will tell me what you would like to do to me, with me...or stick in me ???

The best comments... hmmmmm..... I maybe call ...
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May 31, 2010 @ 8:59 PM bondage and discipline    
Quartzman007


Posts: 4
buttandthighs,

I do love the pix you uploaded. A body like yours needs sensual and strict bondage and treatment, kinsey from cover to cover.
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Jun 2, 2010 @ 4:06 PM bondage and discipline    
tall_skinny_fun


Posts: 623
NO THANKS
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Jun 2, 2010 @ 11:05 PM bondage and discipline    
JsGirl69


Posts: 14
JJN4...You should always set discuss your soft & hard limits before getting deep enough to be truly afraid,dont put yourself into ANY position where your helpless & in some kind of real trouble!!
Safe,Sane,Consensual.....if this is something that you cant discuss w/your potential Dom/Domme,I would take it as a warning sign.Hell,really s/he should ask you...go w/your gut..there are way to may Psuedo-Doms out there,not to mention just downright bad ppl.....
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Jun 2, 2010 @ 11:09 PM bondage and discipline    
JsGirl69


Posts: 14
Education is a good thing...you can cause nerve damage when playing w/whips....or Shibari..(Rope Bondage)
Handcuffs are pretty lame to me,they leave marks forever& Duct tape leaves behind a sticky residue...causing co-workers to ask embarrassing questions.....ummm....just saying.....
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Apr 25, 2013 @ 4:49 PM bondage and discipline    
boarding_guy1977


Posts: 104
You are right JsGirl69. I like zipties but with something on my wrists and ankles to keep them from leaving marks. Plus you can easily do a little self bondage with those. Start out light. And get tighter and tighter with that very satisfying little zipping sound they make as you tighten them. Plus if you have enough then you can put yourself into any kind of tie you can imagine. Alot say the smaller ones can easily be escaped. But I dare anyone to fully tighten some down and try to escape. You better have some scissors handy is all I can say.

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Apr 25, 2013 @ 4:51 PM bondage and discipline    
boarding_guy1977


Posts: 104
Oh and in reply to the duct tape comment. I hate the sticky residue too that it leaves. You should try painters tape. You have to use more but when done it leaves nothing behind and doesnt hurt pulling it off either. Like smaller zip ties alot say oh that can't hold you. Well true unless you use alot. I once used a whole roll and got into it wrapping myself up. Not thinking to leave my hands free to cut myself loose when done. I struggled for a couple hours before finally I free'd myself. But it was alot of fun
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Apr 28, 2013 @ 2:52 PM bondage and discipline    
lives4love39


Posts: 97
not my idea of fun
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