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May 21, 2007 @ 6:30 PM The male G-Spot    
jbbonzo27


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I had to get this out. Its a touchy subject for me being a man, but i had a girlfriend a few years back, who would bring me to explode by inserting her finger in my ass. She talked me into trying it one night while we both had a good buzz going on and i blew my load like Mt. Vesuvius!! To this day i will never forget how she pleasured me. Now i am dating a girl who feels weird about it and suddenly im insecure about it. Maybe she thinks i am homosexual or something. Why did god put the damn spot there anyways? I never knew about it till i met this girl and with all the taboos out there i am scared to explore this again. Dont know what to do??
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May 21, 2007 @ 6:46 PM The male G-Spot    
40yearoldvirgin


Posts: 455
I thought on a man it was called the A spot or something. Should be called the P spot I guess, since it is the prostate that is being massaged. I guess you can do it to yourself. They make vibrating butt plugs that are curved in order to hit that spot. Just go into a sex shop with a bag over your head and pick one up!

I have a thread on the TV show, Talk Sex. I remember a guy calling and telling about how his gf did it to him and how he liked it. He was all worried and wondering if he was gay.

What happened to the old gf? Maybe you can get her back.
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May 22, 2007 @ 7:03 AM The male G-Spot    
shellsmack


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It IS called the P-Spot. When you slide your finger in just enough to the first joint and gently press down and massage it does make the man even hotter...kind of like that spot between the bung hole and his balls on the outside. Do them together and he'll go nuts.



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Jul 5, 2007 @ 10:38 PM The male G-Spot    
shellsmack


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now who's P is next?
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 12:41 AM The male G-Spot    
CrazyCraveman


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Do men have G-spots? Well, technically they don't, but there is a spot on their bodies that makes them crazy.


Taken from AskMen.com

This magical male part is the prostate.

Now before you guys get all ballistic on me, I suggest that you don't dog it until you've tried it. After all, enjoying anal stimulation is not an indication of sexual orientation. In other words, if you tell your girlfriend to touch you "back there", she won't assume that you're secretly sleeping with her brother Chris"tine".

Simply put, you have managed to discover the male G-spot , or prostate gland, and letting her experiment in that area can unleash incredibly erotic possibilities. The prostate is a small gland, about the size of a condom, located within the perineum -- the area between your testicles and anus. It secretes prostatic fluid, the main component of semen.

When the prostate is stimulated, it can intensify a man's orgasm like crazy. The prostate can be reached internally by inserting a lubricated finger in the anus, or for the bolder ones, sex toys. Gently massaging that gland can produce explosive orgasms for many men.

In the beginning of the 20th century, many wives used a steel device that was sold at the time to manually massage their husband's prostate during lovemaking. And during World War II, military medics gave prostate massages to soldiers who hadn't been with a woman for months as a treatment for "pelvic congestion."

Whereas some men only like to have their prostate touched when they're fully aroused, others feel that having their prostate stimulated increases their erection and leads to the best orgasms they've ever experienced.

There are even cases in which men don't even need to have their penises stimulated because the feeling that comes from the prostate's manipulation is stimulation enough to achieve full blown orgasms (I use the term "blown" loosely!).

Remember that in order to completely explore this erogenous zone with your partner, you need to feel comfortable, experimental and playful! Since everyone is different and enjoys different things, experimentation is the best way to discover your preferences. Which leads me to my next suggestion about oral sex and prostate pleasure.

Once you have broached the subject of what pleases you with your significant other, allow her the freedom to experiment. Purchase some water-based lubricant -- let her cover her finger with some of it and insert her finger into your rectum.

Although it may feel strange initially, give it a moment because it will inevitably feel incredible (you think it's fun for women when you stick something that's five times the size of our fingers inside our backside?). It isn't necessary for her to insert her entire finger because it is the outer most third of your rectum that is the most sensitive.

This whole method of foreplay should be done at a snail's pace because an unhurried velocity will only increase your desire for more, and will also allow for both of you to adjust to this new sensation.

When she slowly begins moving her finger in and out, this will help relax the surrounding area. Once both of you are feeling comfortable and her finger is fully inside, advise her to curl her finger upwards, and do a "come here movement" with her finger (or better yet, just email this article to her!).

This motion has the tip of her finger tapping on your prostate. Some men are able to orgasm from this form of stimulation alone, while others desire this form of stimulation combined with oral sex.

You obviously need to have an open-minded woman to ask for anything that even remotely relates to your anus. So since you're one of the lucky ones, let's get kinky, shall we?

One day, when your woman is performing oral sex on you, let her stimulate your anus by rubbing it on the outside. You would not believe how incredible it feels when your penis and anus are being stimulated simultaneously.

If your woman is the "I'll try anything once" kinda gal, let her stimulate your anus with her tongue. Initially this may sound unappealing, but if you've just come out of the shower, then what's the problem?

Let her lick your testes and then move to that spot between your anus and your testes (perineum). She can even stimulate this spot with her fingers if she likes. Then gradually, she can move her tongue to your rectum and lick it slowly, as this may feel strange at first. This could feel increasingly amazing if she stimulates your penis with her hand at the same time.

It's truly unfortunate that many Americans still have such a negative attitude about anal touching because they're missing out on an important aspect of the male human body.

Any woman that wants to please you in the same way that you please her will have no qualms about doing what you like. And remember that this could also be reciprocal.

There are women that also love anal stimulation. Even if they don't have prostates, anal touching can be quite exciting for both sexes, although men have the advantage over women in that category!

Because the prostate gland has so much nerve transference to the area, it becomes aroused very easily, and often results in an intense orgasm. Obviously, this is a great way for your woman to show her appreciation for all that you do in bed and let you be in pure receptive mode, something that all men find relieving and absolutely delightful.

Enjoy it fellas because this is your time to shine
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 1:09 AM The male G-Spot    
Ashinatrix


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others desire this form of stimulation combined with oral sex
Trust me guys...........you'll love it!!


[Edited on 7/6/2007 1:17 AM]
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 3:48 AM The male G-Spot    
CrazyCraveman


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Trust me guys...........you'll love it!!

Trust me guys...she's 100% right!!

Most men are afraid of having a woman place something into his ass...be it simple as her finger, or even a toy of some sort. Most men think it makes them gay or something stupid like that...NOT!

If you're secure and comfortable with and in your manhood...toys can be a lot of fun and very enjoyable while having sex with your woman...
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 3:58 AM The male G-Spot    
shellsmack


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it's a macho thing CRAZY
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 4:08 AM The male G-Spot    
CrazyCraveman


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Oh so you mean...some men are more like boys...where some men are more like...men?

As I lost that macho thing in my very early 20's...I was 20, maybe 21 when I realized being macho was quite...well, silly...as I can't think of the word I want to use right now...
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Jul 6, 2007 @ 4:21 AM The male G-Spot    
shellsmack


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yeah, most men have this hang up about the butt hole stuff...shit, it's not like they didn't let their little buddies play around down there when they were in their teens

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Jul 6, 2007 @ 12:41 PM The male G-Spot    
CrazyCraveman


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yeah, most men have this hang up about the butt hole stuff...shit, it's not like they didn't let their little buddies play around down there when they were in their teens

Well I don't...and I've never...sorry to disappoint ya shells...but I had no desire as a teen or otherwise in letting my buddies play around down there...
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 12:36 PM The male G-Spot    
Ashinatrix


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it's not like they didn't let their little buddies play around down there when they were in their teens
eeeeeeewwwwwww!!! boy butts are for girls!!!lol

I get soooo off on watching a man orgasm!!! But nothing is better than feeling
him orgasm!!...mmmmmmmm
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 12:51 PM The male G-Spot    
ynot7769


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yeah, most men have this hang up about the butt hole stuff...shit, it's not like they didn't let their little buddies play around down there when they were in their teens

ewwwwww shells that is just fuckin WRONGGGG
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 1:19 PM The male G-Spot    
CrazyCraveman


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I get soooo off on watching a man orgasm!!! But nothing is better than feeling
him orgasm!!...mmmmmmmm


Ya more than welcum to watch me get off, or feel me cummmmmin' anytime!!

Better yet, you can give me a nice hand job as I'm working your pussy...and we can bring each other to orgasm...and ya can watch it shoot all over you!
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 1:37 PM The male G-Spot    
Ashinatrix


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Oh my........
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 5:37 PM The male G-Spot    
31sunshine


Posts: 77
I used to do this for my ex all the time...man were those the days...
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Jul 7, 2007 @ 9:36 PM The male G-Spot    
Loveyoulongtime2


Posts: 418
I don't care to have anything in my butt. I just like my dick massaged, sucked, stroked and fucked for an hour or two......nothing better than that.
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Jul 8, 2007 @ 12:06 PM The male G-Spot    
40yearoldvirgin


Posts: 455
Sounds like a pretty good deal to me. Suck my dick and stuff my butt! Will anyone?
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Jul 10, 2007 @ 6:33 AM The male G-Spot    
shellsmack


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Jul 10, 2007 @ 6:20 PM The male G-Spot    
40yearoldvirgin


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What???? Sounds like fun.
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