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May 29, 2007 @ 8:07 PM Women and simple sex    
POOH39


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you go luckypassion tell'em like it really is
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May 31, 2007 @ 1:27 AM Women and simple sex    
alybai42


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I tried to do the FWB and it never worked out for me. I get attached.

When I have feelings for a man the sex is better. I can feel a connection. Two bodies coming together as one.
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 6:05 AM Women and simple sex    
me248


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sure I guess some women can.....I always seem to get attached though.....I don't give myself to a stranger just for the sake of having sex....that's not very fullfilling for me....the emotional/spiritual connection is part of the pleasure....
however, I can have sex with someone I've dated in the past, that I no longer have anything more than just friendship feelings for....and have it just be sexual release.....not as fullfilling, but we already know each others bodies, and know what we like....so once in awhile...why not.
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 7:49 AM Women and simple sex    
brenda_s


Posts: 354
I can't speak for everyone but i've never had sex just for the sake of having it. There's always been a feeling for the man even in the affairs I had. Maybe it wasn't love but the was atleast feelings between us
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 12:36 PM Women and simple sex    
ynot7769


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can't do simple sex..oops i'm not a woman so do i not count?
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 12:38 PM Women and simple sex    
ValentineGirl214


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Simple Sex is Never Simple!! I usually want more, but not always. It matters how I am feeling and what I am wanting.....
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 3:22 PM Women and simple sex    
Hummy


Posts: 525
I can't do simple sex either there has to be an emotional connection.
I've walked away from men who i've lost respect for. For me respect is a high priority. If thats gone I won't let them touch me again.
Also If I discover that a man has a cruel or mean streak towards women, children or animals, I will walk away in a heart beat and not look back.

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Jun 3, 2007 @ 3:53 PM Women and simple sex    
ynot7769


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*likes her^^^^^^ more n more as she posts*
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 5:12 PM Women and simple sex    
31sunshine


Posts: 76
Normally I agree...sex is not simple...and I want the connection before I go into sex with someone. I want to make love with someone vs just sex.

However, I have had a few 1 night stands, and in the right situation sometimes just having fun is worth it. But those have been in times where I'm coming out of a relationship and don't want the attachment at the moment. Those times made me remember that I am a woman...sometimes I forget that.
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 9:11 PM Women and simple sex    
Natgoat


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I don't care for FWB's . .
I also don't care for certain Other ethnicities . . they just don't do anything for me . .it's not a racial thing . . It's just that I don't find them Attractive . . !!!
...and...no matter HOW they're Built . . a *B* . .is a *B*. . is a *B* . . !!!
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 10:39 PM Women and simple sex    
ynot7769


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FWB's . .
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Jun 3, 2007 @ 10:41 PM Women and simple sex    
alybai42


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Friends with benifits
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 12:04 AM Women and simple sex    
Natgoat


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Oh. . I misunderstood . .
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 12:30 AM Women and simple sex    
ynot7769


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ohhhh fwb....i got it
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 3:57 PM Women and simple sex    
Guiltless


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Part of the reason I have asked this question, regards the way women look upon themselves, and the preception of women who have casual sex. How often have women gossiped about a "friend" who has had more than two-three lovers in a year, arriviing at a conclusion that she must be "loose"? Do you allow other to dictate your relationships, in effect judging you by the number of lovers you have?

So with that in mind I ask do women allow them selves the freedome to explore sexual relationships, or are they bound by the opinions of the people that they call thier friends?

You are right in that no sex is truly "simple". certainly there must be at least some connections made on an emotional level that allow this to be for than pure (pleasureable) mechanics.

The wonderful women here are amoung the most open and honest that I have encountered, and willing to share thier experiences with others. Open disscussions that lead to better communications, and health discourse.
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 4:04 PM Women and simple sex    
Natgoat


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~ H-m-m-m-m-m-p-f-f . . !!!
I wasn't aware that Dr. Phil ws a Member, here . . . !!!
~ . . .. .. .. !!! . . ~
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 4:09 PM Women and simple sex    
me248


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How often have women gossiped about a "friend" who has had more than two-three lovers in a year, arriviing at a conclusion that she must be "loose"?
never, I don't judge that way!....I couldn't care less how many lovers in a year anyone has had.....as long as they are practicing safe sex....and they're not playing with anyone's emotions....then it's nobody's business!
Do you allow other to dictate your relationships, in effect judging you by the number of lovers you have?...
no frigging way!
So with that in mind I ask do women allow them selves the freedome to explore sexual relationships,
I do!
or are they bound by the opinions of the people that they call thier friends?
if my "friends" are going to judge me that way....then they are not really a friend at all.
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Jun 4, 2007 @ 4:17 PM Women and simple sex    
CrazyCraveman


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Simple sex? I dunno...sounds kinda boring to me...
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Jun 5, 2007 @ 2:24 PM Women and simple sex    
Hummy


Posts: 525
...........Open and honest is easier, behind a computer screen, others don’t know who you are.
Open trust takes time to develop in a friendship even among women.
In my mid twenties I’ve had a few so called best friends that turned out they were not friends at all.
...........Sense those days I’m not that open, share all, bare all with best friends. They are still great friends, but there is some information I keep to myself and they do too.
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Jun 5, 2007 @ 7:45 PM Women and simple sex    
tlc0766


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I can certainly distance emotion from sex and just enjoy that physical feeling, however (yep you knew that was coming didin't you) I at least want to like the person I wanna be having sex with doesn't mean I want to love them or fall in love with them but at least be able to talk to them and be relaxed enough to get naked and have some fun.
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