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Jan 3, 2007 @ 6:00 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
TJ916


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Below is a message I just sent to a woman who said she's looking for some advice on blow jobs so she can "blow her man away". For the ladies, can you add in anything else that works for you, and for the guys, let her know what you like so she's got some other avenues to explore. Thanks.

1--You have to want to suck a dick, you can't do it because you feel obligated. Believe me, we know.

2--Swallow. This is the best thing in the world for a guy. If you don't swallow, at least let him shoot it in your mouth, and then spit it out.

3--Know the male anatomy. A cock and balls isn't just a cock and balls. The head of the penis is the most sensitive. The underside is a lot more sensitive than the top. The most sensitive spot is on the underside of where the tip meets the shaft. Don't be afraid to suck on some balls. Some guys love that.

4--Figure out if you can deep throat or not. This means taking the whole thing in your mouth, and burying your nose up against him.

5--Do something with your hands: fondle the balls, stroke the cock, grab his ass. Depending on what position you're in, if he's watching you, you can play with yourself.

6--Understand that there's a difference between orgasm and ejaculation. Contrary to popular belief, a guy can orgasm without cumming. You actually have a lot of control when it comes to this. On the underside of a penis is a vein which carries semen. As guys get excited, this fills up, and when they cum, it empties out. If you have a guy with enough respect to tell you when he's cumming, you can squeeze the penis down near the base, and the semen will not come up, meaning he will not ejaculate. If you get a guy that has figured this out, that means he can have another orgasm sooner than it would normally take him to recover. Also, if you don't like to swallow, this will save you from doing that.

7--Talk dirty while you're doing it.

8--Look up at him. There's nothing sexier than staring into a woman's eyes while she's blowing you.

9--Involve your boobs. Let him tittie-fuck you, or do it for him. Rub his cock between your breasts.

10--Ask him where he wants to shoot his load. Some guys like to see it cum over your face or tits.

11--Give him a BJ when he's not expecting it. It's called serendipity. Anytime a guy wakes up because his girl starts wrapping her lips around his dick, that's a good thing.

12--Know your positions. It takes guys longer to cum if they're standing up than if they're sitting or lying down.

13--Another thing about prolonging the experience: being full of food or being drunk means that the guy can hold out longer, and this delightful experience can be more drawn out and pleasurable. Also, the second or third time he cums, it's going to take longer, and there won't be as much cum. So if you're mixing things up, and you don't want to swallow a lot, tire him out by getting him to come some other way, and then for the second or third rounds, suck him off. It's easier for him to get arounsed again through oral anyway.

14--69-Yes or no? It sort of takes a guy's mind off cumming if he's involved in eating you out at the same time, which again means he can last a little longer.

15--Learn to love cum.
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 1:21 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
shellsmack


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slide your finger just inside his ass and press down while you're sucking him or tease the spot between his asshole and balls while taking it hard

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Jan 5, 2007 @ 5:52 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
hotlips12095


Posts: 519
use your tongue, circling his cock as U deep throat him, circling the rim of his head- gets my guy even harder
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 6:01 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
ynot7769


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use your tongue, circling his cock as U deep throat him, circling the rim of his head- gets my guy even harder

thinkin we might need to check out just how accurate that is....
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Jan 5, 2007 @ 8:56 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
shellsmack


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grab it by the base while he's kneeled down on the floor and slam dunk it onto the coffee table a couple times

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Jan 6, 2007 @ 7:39 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
hotlips12095


Posts: 519
anytime YNOT - u know where to find me

shellsmack- I think I just learned a new way to get rid of someone I dont want to give a BJ to- OUCH well maybe hes into pain-LOL
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 11:48 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
ynot7769


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grab it by the base while he's kneeled down on the floor and slam dunk it onto the coffee table a couple times

damn!! couldn't you just say NO!?!?!?!

*ponders EVER gettin close to Shells....*

yahhh HL....sure do..and you sound not only fun but SAFER!!!!
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Jan 6, 2007 @ 10:37 PM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
Sniffi


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Wanna really blow him away?

Use a machine gun.


NEXT!!
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Jan 7, 2007 @ 5:05 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
CrazyCraveman


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slide your finger just inside his ass and press down while you're sucking him or tease the spot between his asshole and balls while taking it hard

Very impressed...not many women know, or do this. Makes a mans orgasm a lot more intense!
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Jan 7, 2007 @ 11:21 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
shellsmack


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Exactly CRAZY

And YNOT & HOTLIPS...you two crack me up.
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Jan 7, 2007 @ 11:28 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
CrazyCraveman


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Exactly CRAZY

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Jan 7, 2007 @ 11:30 AM Advice for the ladies--M and F feedback needed    
shellsmack


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comeer
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