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Experience or enthusiasm

Feb 1, 2012 @ 2:47 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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I have often wondered what more people find appealing:
an experienced lover, or one that has enthusiasm about sexual congress.
Someone who is well familiar with the mechanics of the act, and will go along, or would you rather someone who is still experimenting, and does so with zeal.

Which do you prefer?
Before you smart asses answer...NO you cannot have both--Like Santa Claus they don't exist.
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Feb 1, 2012 @ 6:13 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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if I had to choose just one I would pick experience . experimenting is fun but nothings better than experience . atleast that's the way I feel
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Feb 1, 2012 @ 10:25 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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I guess I would go with option 3, commitment. You can have experience, but in all the wrong things to get me off, as well as be enthusiastic but fumble around and get discouraged. Just commit to having a good time and getting me off as well as yourself and we will get along fine. No stopping half way though
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Feb 4, 2012 @ 8:25 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Feb 4, 2012 @ 9:42 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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While I respect your opinions, and appreciate your point of view, for me I see enthusiasm as the bigger factor.
I am sure that we all understand the mechanics of the acts of sex, but for me, attitude and openness to the experience is key.
if you had a lover who could bend like gumby but brought no wanton desire to the bedroom, it would be boring in the extreme.
Just my thoughts on it all.
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Feb 4, 2012 @ 11:00 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Wow! Ur hot
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Feb 5, 2012 @ 6:59 AM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Experience anytime
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Feb 6, 2012 @ 1:15 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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yes experience means more to me
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Feb 6, 2012 @ 1:51 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Experience is amazing, trying new things here and there is good because it keeps it fresh, but experience can make a bigger bang!
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Feb 13, 2012 @ 2:24 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Feb 14, 2012 @ 9:57 AM Experience or enthusiasm    

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Consider this then...
If He/She is "Experienced" then they have by definition had many multiple partners and loads of sex with others to gain that experience..
Worse, they are looking for new Challenges, something different or more likely, someone with at least their same level of experience. How do you measure up?
Or will you prove to be a disappointment to them?

I see "experience" in a different light. It implies someone who has done it all with numerous partners.
From that prespective do you still want an "experoienced " lover?
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 11:09 PM Experience or enthusiasm    

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As long as they are also experienced with condoms.... give me experience.
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Feb 16, 2012 @ 7:34 AM Experience or enthusiasm    

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don't they kind of go together? people with experience tend to show more enthuiasm don't you think?
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Feb 16, 2012 @ 10:23 AM Experience or enthusiasm    

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I don't know.
Part of me would agree, but another part sez, experienced people have "been there, Done That, whats the big deal"
People that are still learning and eager would have more enthusiasm, IMHO.

I see that the vast majority would go with experience.

Ok...If I were to have the opportunity to sleep with a Porn star (EXPERIENCED) or a Virgin...(and assuming them both to be attractive). Sorry, I would have to go with the Virgin. NOT because she IS a Virgin, but because she ISN'T a Porn Star.

Girls? You have a chance to date "Mr. Studley!" the most active Playboy in your town, or to date a new guy, obviously not as "experienced", again both are equally attractive. You would choose to sleep with the guy who has slept with everything that has a constant heartbeat and body temp, because he has "experience" over the other guy?
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