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Nov 18, 2006 @ 12:19 PM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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Hahaha! Well, Newwoman, there's me for one, and I know there are others. There really are a few of us out here, and not just the ones who are saving themselves on purpose.

Not everybody is successful in finding partners, and it's not always because they're hideously deformed or antisocial loners.

Some perfectly normal, healthy, intelligent people just take a long time growing into themselves, getting steady on their feet in society. There are lots of possible reasons; I posted my own story in "Introduce Yourself" under the heading "Hello y'all".

And there's one 36 year old woman on another forum I read who's also searching for a First Time partner. She seems bright and nice. In her case, she wants a caring guy in a committed relationship, but keeps finding only guys who just want a thrill ride. But I'm sure she'd be a great partner for a guy who wants the same thing she does.
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 5:02 PM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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Actually, Newwoman, there are a few of us adult virgins still around. I know I'm not the only one.

And they're not all saving themselves for marriage, or hideously deformed or antisocial loners. Some perfectly normal, intelligent people just take a long time growing into themselves, getting steady on their feet socially. That was the case with me.

There's a 36 year old woman who posts regularly on another forum I read, who is still trying to lose her virginity. As far as I can tell from her posts, she seems like a nice enough lady. But she's holding out for a committed relationship with a caring guy, and all she keeps finding are shallow guys who only want a thrill ride.
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 5:03 PM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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Oops! I thought the first post had gotten lost and I re-did it. My mistake!
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Nov 19, 2006 @ 12:37 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Yeah, I agree with you on that NewDay41 not all guys lose their V right out of the box lol. I wish I never lost mine to tell the truth, but at least I lasted longer than a minute lol.

If I could take it all back, I would. I mean somethings happened over the fact that I even had my first kiss not too long ago and I wish that they hadn't. But what I guess I am trying to say is the first time should be special, with everything, not just losing your virginity. I know I would (if I could) turn back time to where I hadn't lost that special someone in my life.
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Nov 19, 2006 @ 2:11 AM Do women like virgins?    
anewwoman


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There's nothing wrong with an older person still being a virgin but it's rare. God now it's rare to find anyone over 16 who's still a virgin
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Nov 19, 2006 @ 5:16 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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True lol.
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Nov 21, 2006 @ 6:24 PM Do women like virgins?    
40yearoldvirgin


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It seems to me that women like guys who know what they are doing and the perception is that an older virgin doesn't have a clue. Women sure have not been e-mailing me. NewDay - we should compare notes! Good luck - you will need it. I have just given up and am looking for someone who will let me watch.
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Nov 21, 2006 @ 11:30 PM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Nah guys, don't give up. All ya gotta do is prove that you can last a good while before cumming. Try some tantra, start jackin off and when you are ready to cum, slow down and take it easier and when you calm down to where you won't blow your load, then start back up goin at it like normal, do that about four or five times in one time jackin off. It works on your lasting time. Just don't try it every time you do it or you will hardly ever get off.
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Nov 22, 2006 @ 12:28 AM Do women like virgins?    
drakensoul87


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hope some women like virgins or im screwd.. in a bad way lol
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Nov 22, 2006 @ 6:06 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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hope some women like virgins or im screwd.. in a bad way lol

Lol, there are lots of women out there that love virgins. Sometimes if you act it out right you can convince people you aren't a virgin, I did it for years with family members and friends lol. Then I finally lost mine, at the tender age of 20 lmao
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Nov 22, 2006 @ 6:30 AM Do women like virgins?    
40yearoldvirgin


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Nobody out here in the real world knows. It is my secret.
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Nov 22, 2006 @ 8:18 AM Do women like virgins?    
ponme


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40yov we won't tell em.. your secret is safe with us.
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Nov 22, 2006 @ 11:20 AM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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40yearoldvirgin, I'm new at this internet dating thing myself, so I can't give you many suggestions. But I know you'll get a lot more interest if you post a picture; I went to a lot of trouble getting decent looking pictures of myself for this.

Also, I'm sort of doubtful about this adult dating thing. I know that some people actually find real partners through the "conventional" dating sites, but I sort of halfway suspect that a lot of the people on the adult sites (well, at least the women, anyway) are there more for amusement than to seriously find real life partners. (Maybe one of you old hands on this site can give me the straight story?) We might both get better results on a regular dating site, although of course it may not be a good idea on a site like that to be quite so frank about what we're looking for.

Actually, if I have to get involved in a real relationship to ultimately find what I'm looking for, well, heck, that might just turn out to be a good thing. I might find someone I'd really want to be with from then on. I don't know; I've never been in that situation before.

Also, I think you should be actively e-mailing women you like. I think your profile is mostly to introduce you to women you've e-mailed, and who are checking you out before deciding whether to reply. I suspect very few women will take the initiative and send you a message on their own. (Maybe the ladies here can let me know about this?) Anyway, that's too bad, because I really like aggressive, confident women.

Also, the pay sites may work better, because I think people who pay to use a site are probably serious about finding somebody, whereas anyone can easily sign up with a free site just on a lark.

My one big problem is that there aren't very many women in my area listed here. I'm trying several sites, but it seems like nobody in my area has discovered the internet yet. My long-shot hope is that there'll be some nice woman here in my locale lurking out there somewhere, not posting or making herself known, who'll see my profile or my posts on the forum and be intrigued enough to send me a note.
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Nov 23, 2006 @ 4:52 PM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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I would have to agree with you on that dude. Most people on some sites are in it more for amusement than anything. That is including men and women both, not just one or the other.

And I know how it is to have hardly any women in your locale, I mean I am in the middle of bumfuck Tn lol, Boonies and chit. But anyway, all you should do there is allow more distance in your searches when you are looking, try double what you got it set on for your searches.
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Nov 23, 2006 @ 7:20 PM Do women like virgins?    
40yearoldvirgin


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Thanks for keeping the secret ponme. I know a lot of people would really give me a hard time if they knew about it - see the 40 year old virgin movie. That is why I will not post a pic here. If someone was interested I would send a picture to them.

I checked out this internet deal before I came here and the odds really favor the women. There are usually 50% more men than women on normal dating sites and on adult sites it is 5-1 or more. Good looking women get 30-50 e-mails a day. A lot of them don't even reply to anyone - they just like to pump up there self esteem by getting messages. And in my research it seems that women want a confidant man who knows what he is doing and a 40 year old virging does not fit that description.
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 7:12 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Hey dude, don't worry about chit. post a pic, hell most of us guys think we are ugly or have something wrong with us. Well those willing to admit to that will tell you, most won't lol. I mean what I am tryin to say is don't hide who you are, don't fake anything, don't try to be something you aren't. Just be you. And if someone else don't like it, then tell em to fuck off.

And I am sure you will find someone who is into a man saving himself that long. Hell as I have said before I was gonna save myself for my gf, but chit happened and well I was weak enough to fuck another woman, I wish I hadn't, just make your first time with someone special, I have the feeling it is more enjoyable that way.
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Dec 3, 2006 @ 2:32 AM Do women like virgins?    
canuhelpme258


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Women can only like a virgin ONE time lol
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Dec 3, 2006 @ 5:01 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Canu.....you are always right lmao. =))
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Dec 3, 2006 @ 6:11 AM Do women like virgins?    
smile4connie


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an erotic virgin? LOL no. I had one once. It was terrible he led me to believe he was experienced but he didn't have a clue what he was doing. It didn't take long to know he was a virgin. His foreplay was so bad. He was a very good kisser but that was about it
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Dec 3, 2006 @ 8:22 PM Do women like virgins?    
40yearoldvirgin


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You only had him once connie? He would have improved with practice. Practice makes perfect.
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