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Do women like virgins?


Nov 7, 2006 @ 5:04 PM Do women like virgins?    
Elliott1001


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I'll give you my virginity Siebie
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Nov 8, 2006 @ 11:39 AM Do women like virgins?    
ynot7769


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I'll give you my virginity Siebie

ATTACK E !! ATTACK!! quick take advantage.....you can be a virgin and still be a bit aggressive
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Nov 8, 2006 @ 11:11 PM Do women like virgins?    
cutecarrie6969


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I don't have any problems with virgins.... .
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Nov 9, 2006 @ 12:23 AM Do women like virgins?    
kattoes


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Virgin know it all's.... or virgin willing to learn it all's?
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 1:48 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Ok, first off, all you people that diss on virgins back off while I school you on how a virgin can do things.


First off: I recognize that some people (Men and women both) are bad lays their first time because of apparent inexperience.

Secondly: If you watched porn or at least read some erotic books, not porno mags but rather romance books with some rather "graphic" details in it, then you would know how to please anyone regardless of how many times they have had sex.

Lastly: If you will give them the chance then you might be surprised by what they can do WITH them just being virgins. I do not mean to brag or anything like that, but just as an example, a true life example...I was a virgin til not too long ago, and yeah I am going on 21, was gonna wait for that special girl to come along, but was not strong enough to resist pussy.

Well the end result was me making this older woman who had been had many times before me, even had a kid and loads of cock before she had mine...I made her have multiple orgasms when no other man had EVER made her do that before even the more experienced ones, and I did not cum for hours and hours after she had multiple orgasms within the first ten minutes of us fucking. Later that night, the first time I had EVER ate pussy I made he cum every 5 minutes for over an hour, she passed out before I was finished with her. So thus you should not judge a book by it's cover. You would be surprised if you read into it more. ;)
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Nov 16, 2006 @ 10:43 AM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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Hello everybody, I'm new here. And I'm interested in this thread because I'm still a virgin at 41 (long story), and I've always thought (or maybe fantasized, I guess) that women would find an adult virgin intriguing or fascinating.

I know there's a lot to be said for experience and know-how, but what about first time excitement, the special appreciation a guy has for his first and only partner? I would think that would make being with a first timer pretty exciting.

Let me ask you ladies who've had virgin guys, are they generally awkward? Does it come naturally or take time to learn? Can't a first timer be a pretty good lover if he's patient and thoughtful and willing to learn?
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:58 AM Do women like virgins?    
insearchof236


Posts: 547
I would love to have a virgin!
would love to have you
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 5:07 AM Do women like virgins?    
anewwoman


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I wouldn't want a virgin. It's hard enough finding a man who can keep from cumming to fast as it is
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 8:40 AM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Lol, true most guys will cum too fast, virgins, even experienced ones. But at the same time there are those that won't cum too fast, that will make it last, or that simply just can't cum for a long time after first insertion.

I myself was like that (still am) when I lost my virginity, she was worried about me getting her pregnant but I surprised her by lasting through three of her orgasms before pulling it out and letting her suck it for a while before she made up her mind if she wanted me to cum in her mouth, or on her tits. She chose the latter lol.

Just saying that sometimes it is not really virgins that cum too quickly. There are some out there that will outlast even the most experienced.
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 9:00 AM Do women like virgins?    
ponme


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Can't a first timer be a pretty good lover if he's patient and thoughtful and willing to learn?

It's this right there in a nutshell. Anyone can be a fabulous lover if they are patient and willing to learn. Unfortunately so many THINK they know it all.. and they don't.

And then, just because one guy may have finally learned all about one woman's erogenous geography, he might not know squat about what trips the trigger of the next woman down the line. Everyone is different.
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 9:51 AM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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You know what's ironic? I'm fairly sure I'd actually last a pretty long time. The reason is that since I've gotten past forty, my libido has mellowed from the raging overdrive that it was in when I was a hormonally supercharged young buck. I'm still *intensely* enthusiastic about experiencing sex, but I suspect it'd take me a fairly long time and repeated attempts to actually "finish". I would think (I would hope!) that that would be a good thing for my partner. And then, too, after fantasizing about it for so many years, I'd want to hold back and try a little of everything before I wrap things up. I want my first time to be my best time (for both of us).

I'm always baffled when women complain about men shortcutting foreplay and then finishing too fast. I mean, why in the world would a guy want to rush such an incredible experience? If/when I get my chance, I intend to enjoy the foreplay as long as my lady is willing to go along with it, and then I intend to stretch out the "main event" as long as she'll let me.

Of course, I know that individual women are as different as individual men are, and I've always heard about the importance of getting feedback from your partner as to her wants/needs, so if I feel comfortable being frank with her, I'd ask her straight out what she wants and likes.

I've been hearing women's complaints about what guys do wrong for years, so I'm trying really hard to be different. That's why I stress my willingness to learn in my essay text. After hearing for so many years about how guys get it wrong, I want to get it right from the start. I want to be the best lover I can be.

One question for the ladies: I've thought about studying sensual massage because I think that might be a nice warm-up to give my lady as part of the foreplay. What's your opinion? Do you think most women would enjoy a sensual massage to help get them warmed up before moving on to the main event?
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 11:59 AM Do women like virgins?    
ponme


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Two words for ya.. DO IT!

Touching is one thing that too many men do get wrong. Or just don't care enough to work at. They love it when we touch or kiss any of their body parts, but so many don't care enough to return the favor. Touch everywhere.. anywhere.. the intimacy is so much more important than the actual act. Don't get me wrong, I love a good hard pounding.. but.. as I said to one guy once.. I would give three orgasms for one touch on the cheek at the opportune moment.

Good luck with getting the woman to open up and actually tell you what she wants as well. Too many are still stuck in that 'good girls don't' routine. You may just really have to pay close attention to her body signals.. breathing, tension, whatever little signals you might get.

So, best advice for ALL men, not just virgins.. touch.. touch often.. touch everywhere.
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:05 PM Do women like virgins?    
reily


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I guess I’ve been with partners that don’t like touching. I love to touch, I love for my hands to roam. I’m not talking just a few select areas either. I like to touch all over. I could spend hours just touching before getting on with actual intercourse. Makes for a very passionate night………..
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 9:16 PM Do women like virgins?    
__H__I__M__


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Ponme is right, touch everywhere, the body signals give it away, what she likes, what makes her get off better than other things. You just have to keep your eyes open for those signals. If you are keen enough to get them down from just the foreplay then the rest will appear easy as hell to get down right. And for the most part, it is about a light touch, like a teasing one at first, some women like it rough, some like it soft. But all women love to be touched in the right ways.
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Nov 17, 2006 @ 11:34 PM Do women like virgins?    
anewwoman


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that's the problem. many virgins talk great sex but when the time comes they can't last more than a minute then ask if it was good lol
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 12:35 AM Do women like virgins?    
reily


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You mean your supposed to have sex for longer than a minute?.............
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 12:41 AM Do women like virgins?    
kattoes


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and sometimes the conclusion... isn't actually before contact...
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 1:26 AM Do women like virgins?    
NewDay41


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Well, newwoman and kattoes, I think I can explain why the virgins you've apparently had were so disappointing. I'll bet they were all young guys, weren't they?

That quick-pop thing is typical of young guys, because of their hypercharged sex drives. For a guy in his teens or twenties, it's really overwhelming. But that changes as we age. By the time we're past 40 (with some exceptions), our libido has usually settled down quite a lot. Mine certainly has.

That can be frustrating for us guys, but ironically, I think it's a plus for our partners because it translates into staying power.
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 1:37 AM Do women like virgins?    
anewwoman


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are there any older virgins anymore?
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Nov 18, 2006 @ 1:42 AM Do women like virgins?    
anewwoman


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Bring me to orgasm/orgasms during foreplay and I won't care how fast you cum during intercourse
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