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Mar 21, 2010 @ 12:49 PM Can't find the clit?    
B9CC1D


Posts: 356
This is mostly intended for women, not to exclude men but I just know that EVERY man on here will yell "I AIN'T GOT NO PROBLEM PLEASIN' A GIRL."

But then, how can that be true when almost every woman I've ever been with has complained about at least one guy they have dated that didn't know their anatomy from a hole in the ground?

So how about it? Have any of the women on this site had trouble with a guy who just didn't know where to find things or what to do with them?
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Mar 21, 2010 @ 12:54 PM Can't find the clit?    
attractivelatinmom


Posts: 247
Not sinse I was a teenager
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Mar 24, 2010 @ 1:51 PM Can't find the clit?    
lunanegra


Posts: 1,478
Yes, three years ago I hooked up with this professor of astrophysics from the university here. He was sweet, interesting. First guy who actually took me somewhere nice for once.

Anyway, we sat in his apartment and talked over some red wine and when I get a buzz, I'm more than friendly and he was cute(he looked a little like the actor who played Monk,lol) so we decided to take things upstairs.

He was an okay kisser, pleasured the twins okay, too. I dont know whether he ever gave oral to a woman or was just shy but I had to literally instruct him on where to lick, as in: left, no..right...up,no..down...up! At one point he was licking the inside of my thigh, so I told him to stop. He ended up rubbing me with his finger and amazingly I got off.

He wanted to fuck and we didnt get too far because I was too wet(shockingly) and too um...snug. He kept slipping out,lol. I did give him some head and that was it.

I saw him once more, but 3rd time wasnt the charm. Least I got books out of the deal

/novel over
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Jun 24, 2010 @ 1:54 PM Can't find the clit?    
asiandelite


Posts: 135
If a man knows where a clit is he'll find mine easilly. It's not huge but big enough so he'll know when he hits it.
I can remember 2 times when i've been with a man who didn't have any idea where a clit is. In both cases they went down, used their tongue and fingers but never went to where my clit is. One even accused me of being cold saying he did everything right but I didn't come close to having an orgasm. All I could tell him was to find out where a womans clit is before he wastes his time and hers, There was a blank look on his face and nothing else was said.
Men who know where a clit is will find me extremely orgasmic. Some have told me they can't remember when a woman came as hard as I do and it's true. More than once i've passed out having an orgasm
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Jun 29, 2010 @ 2:51 PM Can't find the clit?    
thenewsharon


Posts: 52
Yes and not to long ago. He was 27 and had no clue as to where my clit is and couldn't understand why I wasn't having an orgam. I explained to him where it is. He finished like he had been doing it all his life. I had orgasm after orgasm. He learned something and we were both happy in the end
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Jun 29, 2010 @ 7:17 PM Can't find the clit?    
Playguy40


Posts: 180
I've never known it to be in different places but I have noticed that there are different ways to 'approach' it from woman to woman. What might drive Angela wild would do little for Sandy while what Sandy likes doesn't do it for Ciara and so on and so forth.
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Jun 29, 2010 @ 7:22 PM Can't find the clit?    
Spaz2000


Posts: 15
I've never had that issue but i have to friends that have been dating for year and NEITHER of them know where it is lol they keep trying to figure out what isn't working and they just can't find it on her
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Jul 4, 2010 @ 7:32 AM Can't find the clit?    
blondebutnotdumb


Posts: 78
mine isn't that big but men have no problem finding it
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Jul 4, 2010 @ 11:41 PM Can't find the clit?    
mo_stargazer


Posts: 272
I've been with guys who are lost when it comes to a woman's anatomy, but it's really not a big deal to me. I think it's pretty selfish and close-minded when women get frustrated without taking the time to voice what they like. There's a way to go about teaching the right moves that involves more than just saying "you're doing it wrong!" or worse - not saying anything at all. Having open communication truly helps improve sex all around.
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 12:41 AM Can't find the clit?    
lycanLife


Posts: 4
So true.. but not being able to find the clitoris?? that is just retarded
even a very small one is always pretty much in the same spot
and when in doubt use your mouth
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 10:06 AM Can't find the clit?    
str82urheart08


Posts: 142
He didn't have any trouble finding it yesturday
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 10:16 AM Can't find the clit?    
craignwi


Posts: 814
I've never been not able to find it, and it baffles me how it seems so difficult for other men. Maybe I was the only one actually paying attention in sex ed.
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Jul 5, 2010 @ 8:06 PM Can't find the clit?    
Luv2Laugh2


Posts: 450
I had to ask a 25 year old recently if he had ever heard of a clitoris. He said he had so I asked if he knew where they were located. He didn't answer right away but kind of laughed it off and said yes. I told him he may want to touch it, rub it, lick it, etc. the next time he was with a woman. I explained the difference in clitoral and vaginal orgasms and that most women do not have vaginal ones, so if he wants to get a woman off, slow down. find it, love on it and it will probably happen. My guess is that a lot of men just don't care.
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Jul 6, 2010 @ 1:08 AM Can't find the clit?    
craignwi


Posts: 814
I had to ask a 25 year old recently if he had ever heard of a clitoris. He said he had so I asked if he knew where they were located. He didn't answer right away but kind of laughed it off and said yes. I told him he may want to touch it, rub it, lick it, etc. the next time he was with a woman. I explained the difference in clitoral and vaginal orgasms and that most women do not have vaginal ones, so if he wants to get a woman off, slow down. find it, love on it and it will probably happen. My guess is that a lot of men just don't care.

Luv, I'd be more inclined to guess that most guys either:
a) don't really know where it is, or
2) don't know it exists, than
iii) don't care.

I could be wrong (wouldn't be the first time this hour), but with something that special, it'd be hard not to at least pay it lip service
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Jul 9, 2010 @ 6:56 PM Can't find the clit?    
you_will_like_me


Posts: 59
If he knows where it is he won't have any troule finding my clit
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Jul 10, 2010 @ 8:05 AM Can't find the clit?    
melissa4real


Posts: 475
mines not big but it's easy to get to
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Jul 14, 2010 @ 6:32 PM Can't find the clit?    
str8_2_the_point


Posts: 89
If he doesn't know where it is I don't need him
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Jul 15, 2010 @ 7:45 AM Can't find the clit?    
TexasRacer


Posts: 56
Ya know what all that useless skin around a womans puss is?



Da Woman!
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Jul 17, 2010 @ 1:20 PM Can't find the clit?    
tammy37


Posts: 108
He didn't have any trouble finding it last night
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Jul 22, 2010 @ 5:25 PM Can't find the clit?    
hugskissesandmore4u


Posts: 78
Yes I have. After several dates I gave in and had sex with him. He had no idea where it was when we were doing oral . It was the worst sex I ever had . Not just because oral was terrible. Fucking wasn't any better . He came faster than any man I had ever been with
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