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Jul 1, 2009 @ 1:58 AM Could you date a stripper    
shorthairblonde


Posts: 75
If they have reasons for what they do that are acceptable and they would not do it forever, could u date them, and possibly have a relationship with them. And they are the sweetest person you ahve ever met and they like you back.

This could really help me out, thanks.
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Jul 1, 2009 @ 6:41 AM Could you date a stripper    
manwithoutahorse


Posts: 112
Of course I could...short term. In the long term I probably couldn't handle the lifestyle. So if she didn't want to/couldn't change, there probably wouldn't be a future. Hope this helps.
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Jul 4, 2009 @ 8:29 PM Could you date a stripper    
kattoes


Posts: 200
maybe.... depends on why she stripped....
monetary, or from need?
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Jul 8, 2009 @ 8:30 AM Could you date a stripper    
shorthairblonde


Posts: 75
Well, the person I likes strips because they left school early and got kicked out of home. So they strip to support themselves and until they have enough money to go back and study.
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Jul 8, 2009 @ 9:47 AM Could you date a stripper    
manwithoutahorse


Posts: 112
You do what you gotta do to survive. Once you've stabilized, then you work your way out of the hole. Dating is one thing...a long term relationship another. Be aware what you're in for, in the long term. Are you willing to pay the price?
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Jul 8, 2009 @ 8:00 PM Could you date a stripper    
JingleBallRock


Posts: 400
I've dated quite a few.....some were just sex, a couple lasted for quite awhile. Yeah some are a flaky nightmare (quite a few actually), but some are good people just trying to pay the bills and make the best of a bad situation by using what God gave em.

And as a sidenote...there's something about em...the sex was always incredible. No inhibitions.
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Jul 16, 2009 @ 10:34 PM Could you date a stripper    
shorthairblonde


Posts: 75
Thanks for the advice people, but it turns out that they liked the opposite sex anyway. Even though they flirted with me. I know hey.
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Jul 17, 2009 @ 6:56 AM Could you date a stripper    
manwithoutahorse


Posts: 112
Bummer...good luck on the next adventure.
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Sep 5, 2009 @ 1:55 AM Could you date a stripper    
Beast369


Posts: 12
the only job I couldn't handle my woman having would be porn-star, or in Nevada prostitute. But that's not from a moral objection rather a jealousy issue, or worry of basically not having my needs met because they were too tired.
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Sep 10, 2009 @ 3:32 AM Could you date a stripper    
lakeside64030


Posts: 7
I have. it was fun! but if she can leave it , good, if she cant-not good. its hell on a relationship.
but you
1)better be able to compensate for the monetary lifestyle she is now used to or she may find someone who can or never leave stripping.
2)If she does leave and you cant support her like that and she stays you got a quality person on your hands who loves you i assume- for you, not money obviously, if she leaves, she wasnt quality to begin with, but a shallow gold digger
3) there is a thrill about dating one, but, they are usually never home, often doing unmentionable things away from home, exposed to a very dangerous and heavy drug culture, often become alcoholics, they dont stay faithful to you, in the end the emotional cost may be too high. i guess it goes back to what her reason is for stripping and how long she stays in it. good luck.
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Oct 14, 2009 @ 9:22 AM Could you date a stripper    
carlos2342


Posts: 90
I could date a stripper but the majority of strippers are ugly or addicts.
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Oct 28, 2009 @ 6:02 PM Could you date a stripper    
drcocktail87


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carlos2342


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Yeah no ugly ones or adicts. However you can piss on him, he likes that....lol
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Nov 2, 2009 @ 7:48 PM Could you date a stripper    
ynot7769


Posts: 20,639
lived with 2 dancers in my life....not sure there's big diff other then how much they take off....
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Nov 4, 2009 @ 2:49 AM Could you date a stripper    
SamuraiPlayThing


Posts: 35
I could date a stripper. In fact I"m sure that would be a great date for me, but I'm also not the jealous type and I don't really believe in fidelity. I would actually probably end up asking her questions like "hey so did ya get any really hung guys tonight or didn't ya get to have any fun at all?" HA HA

What people do to make a living doesn't really tell you who they are. There are a lot of those girls who are really mentally stable people and just (as someone else already said) using what they have been gifted with to earn a living. They make really really good money in a lot of cases and I will tell you right now if I were a hot chick I would totally be stripping.

Someone else did mention a good point though that they may be a little sexually drained to please you but that may not be the case. Particularly in stripping they may not get the release they really want and so by the time they get home to you all they can think about is ripping your pants of and felling you insider her. I'd be curious to find out first hand if I am right or not that's for sure
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Dec 6, 2009 @ 2:28 PM Could you date a stripper    
bouncingnancy


Posts: 70
Take me out. I might strip for you when we get home
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Dec 7, 2009 @ 7:18 PM Could you date a stripper    
SamuraiPlayThing


Posts: 35
I'd take you up on that, but you are a little far away. Maybe after you climb off that Amtrak you mention in your profile
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Dec 9, 2009 @ 2:44 PM Could you date a stripper    
DEVILSADJUTANT


Posts: 150
If she was working her way through college or grad school then I probably would . But if she was a '' professional '' no way .
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Dec 10, 2009 @ 1:21 PM Could you date a stripper    
Leonidas100


Posts: 44
While it seems nice in theory, I don't think I could truly date one unless she was willing to make immediate career change. There are plenty of positives for sure: probably attractive, tight body, willing to dress up in sexy outfits, and most likely good in bed.

But i've been to plenty of bachelor parties and seen what they have to do to make money. Not all of them provide sexual favors of course, but part of their job is making the clientele spend money on them. That means tons flirting, sitting on laps, and being very touchy feely with the customers. I'm not a jealous person by any means but the thought of a person i'm dating doing that on a nightly basis would give me feel sick inside.
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Dec 10, 2009 @ 1:26 PM Could you date a stripper    
Leonidas100


Posts: 44
totally screwed up my last sentence on the last post - subsitute the word "give" with "make"
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Dec 19, 2009 @ 2:51 AM Could you date a stripper    
EYE_SEE_YOU


Posts: 14
It all depends on what u can handle. I'm sure a lot of people will disagree with this, but strippers tend to have deep seated issues. NOT ALL OF THEM! But it has been my experience that a lot of times the money is the reason they give for why they do it, but it really has to do with the value they place on attention and being made to feel special. I did, however, date a wonderful woman who happened to be a stripper and she was one of the most well rounded people i ever met. All in all, stripprs are fun to date short term and party with, but if you want a real and lasting healthy relationship, understand that the odds are stacked against you.
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