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Aug 7, 2008 @ 11:06 PM Frist date No No's    

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I don't get a good impression of a guy who brags about his sexual conquests on the first date.

Why do this
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Aug 7, 2008 @ 11:08 PM Frist date No No's    

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look at the bright side, least he isn't bragging about it and yet has no clue giving himself away as a total dead fuck
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Aug 8, 2008 @ 12:53 PM Frist date No No's    

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my no no's are:
don't try to come off as " macho man" by talking about yourself constantly
don't talk about old girlfriends
don't talk about money or your job
don't talk about sex
don't ask personal questions
don't be pushy wanting a goodnight kiss at the end of the date
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Aug 8, 2008 @ 4:37 PM Frist date No No's    

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damn... I have to start a new list of things I can do now.. thanks..
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Aug 9, 2008 @ 9:38 PM Frist date No No's    

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I'm with you on the 'bragging.' Who wants to be another notch on his belt?

More no - no's:

Telling me (her) I look like his ex-wife
Telling me he's got a cat named "Toot-toot-fuzzy hips"
Nose-picking and spitting often
Munching on sunflower seeds and spitting out the shells
When first meeting, detailing his systematized delusion about Arabs who are after him because he's descended from Napolean and is a fantastic military mind . . . then starting on UFO's . . . before asking for my number and saying he wants to go out . . . .

(sadly, all these are true!)
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Sep 11, 2008 @ 7:59 AM Frist date No No's    

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don't ask personal questions? I'm sorry what are you going on the date again for?
the rest of them I can agree with but that one is a given it's going to happen when your trying to find out more about a person.

btw lynaxkat I see by the last line in your post you meet someone I went to school he also clams to be a martial artist so watch it or he'll fall on you trying to show of his "moves"
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Sep 12, 2008 @ 1:06 PM Frist date No No's    

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1) Don't talk about yourself all night. Don't forget i'm there to.
2) Don't get into my personal life by asking about my marriage etc.
3) Don't keep feeding me drinks thinking i'll get drunk and sleep with you. I know when to stop. If I want to sleep with you I will and it will be better if i'm aleast half way sober.
4) Don't push it for a good night kiss. If I liked the date and liked you i'll give you one.
5) Don't be looking at other women. I'll pick up on that right away.
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Sep 17, 2008 @ 2:35 PM Frist date No No's    

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my only no no is don't try to push to hard to have sex
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Sep 20, 2008 @ 5:21 AM Frist date No No's    

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Don't show up not wearing pants.

Asking "would you like to see his nose goblin collection".

Something about "putting lotion on the skin and getting the hose again"?

Going to a restaurant where you have to shout your order and drive up to the window..
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Sep 22, 2008 @ 10:48 AM Frist date No No's    

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NO FUCKING is my only no, no
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Oct 7, 2008 @ 7:57 PM Frist date No No's    

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don't come on to strong or try to impress me by bragging about how good you are
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Oct 19, 2008 @ 12:19 PM Frist date No No's    

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Right now I don't know if there are any besides talking or comparing me to or telling me about his ex wife or girlfriends
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Oct 26, 2008 @ 12:39 PM Frist date No No's    

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Don't try to come on to fast. Give it time
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Oct 28, 2008 @ 12:49 AM Frist date No No's    

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Rule 1: Flat out, avoid talking about anybody else excessively, particularly exes of any sort unless asked, but includes co-workers, family, or anybody else you know. You can mention them, but don't go on and on - try to remember that you're there to get to know a new person, and avoid getting to the end of the evening realizing that you know nothing about the person you've been talking to for Three hours, whereas they have heard your entire life story, detailed information on the personalities of everybody you work with, and your family tree memorized for Three generations.

Rule 2: No barbecue, spaghetti or crab on the first date, unless you think your date won't mind stained shirts, sticky fingers or bits of crab shell ricocheting into their eye.

Rule 3: have fun, and maybe you'll get to break the rules on the next date!
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Oct 31, 2008 @ 5:48 PM Frist date No No's    

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1) if you have to brag about it DON'T (like that is going to impress her NOT)
2) if you have to tell her how big it is, DON'T (most women know how big a cucumber is alread)
3) if you have to tell her how much she will cum, DON'T. she already knows it, and your not the one to make her.
4) if you have to hide your face but show your cock, DON'T.(she wants to see the face first dummy, then she may want to see the cock. not the other way around)
5) when you hit my age, sit back and enjoy the ladies. they are not impressed nor do i try to make them. rather enjoy them than have them mad.
sane rules apply to those females that have to show tits, tell everyone how good they are, then want you to drool over them.
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Nov 23, 2008 @ 12:53 AM Frist date No No's    

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Thanks Serdom, you may have just found the secret of happy dating. I like your style.
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Nov 23, 2008 @ 2:47 AM Frist date No No's    

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Nothing says the slight itch on my ass is more provocative than actually keeping my word, more than this. You make words to form a bond, keep it. At the very least, assure me the level of humanity you yourself would like. Re-scheduling, touching bases, and other forms of identifiable acts of standard humanity apply. Use them = happy me. In short, honor your word. It goes a long way.

2) Punctuality (or the lack thereof)
I HATE BEING LATE. Especially when my No.1 NoNo is, what it is. Be on time.
If someone is as (insert benign adjectives here) as you say they are, being on time says I mean what I said. It says I'm looking forward to you and sharing some of your time. Lateness, shortness of breath while running to a meeting spot just says I have a pint of beer more interesting than this.

3) Look like the ambiance of the date
If we're going casual, dress the part. However, don't dress down when the date was clearly established as formal. The same way I know how to press a shirt, and tie a tie, you should have some familiarity with a dress.Some styles may vary, but the idea is.... synch with the ambiance. Dating formally hasn't been court-marshalled or outlawed [yet]. Mesh (oh look, a fashion term lol) with the date. It says I give a cup-and-balls about you.

4) Don't use the [first] date to prove the "idiocy of all men"
How frustrating is this ? Seriously, what reason do you have to justify yourself as a healthy dater/potential relationship material, if you're strategizing what exactly the slight nuance in my hello means ? Let me make it lucid for you. IT MEANS HELLO. If you've managed to do 1,2, and 3, but you're convinced flowers mean I want you to do some serious SWALLOWING, you have no business dating. For the love of humanity, HEAL YOURSELF. No, my comment on your choice in colors does not mean I'm imagining what you'd look like with your ass in the air. It means I'm appreciating your attention to detail. No, Nice blouse doesn't mean flash me. It means nice blouse. What does that say about you, if you are more interested in picking apart what my eye-contact means, than the fact that I'm trying to enjoy the date.?

5) [not] talking to me
If you're having fun, say so. I'll live if you do. Conversely, if not, tell me. I've experienced enough of life to be creative on the fly. Talk to me, let me know where I am, where you are, I can just as easily carouse the halls of a dept store and play you a song on the kiosk of pianos they have, or pull out my book and sketch you as a cartoon. Give me some head[way, lmao... there's your innuendo]. Not talking to me, means I'm doing the date for you, as opposed to with you

My last name is not "Because the last guy I dated". My last name is not "Because everyone else I gave my heart to" For crying out loud, THIS IS THE FIRST DATE. Secondly, each of those things you're sick of to some degree or another, required your assistance in the furtherance or creation of said bull-shit/lie/game/etc. Growed you right the hell up,didn't I ? I don't don cape and cowel to save ANY woman from that which she won't save herself from. I'm sure as hell inappreciative of anyone forcing me through hoops because you refuse to HEAL YOURSELF. Seriously, I'll get up and leave you right in the middle of a hundred-dollar meal.

Sorry if I hogged up the forum space Carry On.
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Nov 25, 2008 @ 12:16 PM Frist date No No's    

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Use your false teeth adhesive.

Nothing worse than someone's teeth coming loose when they talk and that awful sound it makes when they talk or chew.

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Dec 3, 2008 @ 9:00 AM Frist date No No's    

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Anybody notice that most of the posters are gone???
Must be fear of first dates..Not 'frist' dates..
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Dec 4, 2008 @ 1:31 AM Frist date No No's    

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I don't fist on the first date.
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