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| Jun 17 @ 2:08 PM |
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onetruefreak
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I've never been able to figure out when to tell the other person what I'm about. I know they say if you care for someone that whatever they say won't matter, but it does. Some truths people just can't handle, at all.
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| Jun 18 @ 12:10 PM |
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The_Gunslinger
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It really depends on the secret... some things you need to share immediately. For example, if you have children with another woman who don't live with you... it's probably a good idea to let her know soon... if you have children that DO live with you... it's best they know that going in...
If you like taking it in the ass... give it a while... feel her out a bit... find out what she's into.
There's also no perfect time... and no perfect secret. The perfect time is when you A) feel comfortable enough with her to share it, and B) before it gets too late or things get too serious. You'd hate to find out that she's totally against something when you're ready to propose... am I right?
How about this example? It's a little extreme, but I think it will illustrate my point. Let's say you're a closet pothead, but you and her have never even talked about it before, then things are really heavy, you're discussing marriage... then she catches you with a bag of weed. It then comes out that she's had some bad experiences, and vowed never to deal with a pothead again, and she dumps you. That would suck, right?
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| Jun 18 @ 12:16 PM |
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wtxman
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I have learned from experience that it is better to tell it all as soon as possible because you never know where it going to go
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| Jun 18 @ 2:13 PM |
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onetruefreak
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what if it is a seemingly perverted, or gross "interest" is that something that should be told right from the off?
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| Jun 18 @ 11:09 PM |
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sexione1981
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In my case I am open from the get go. If a person can not seem to handle it thier loss. I am me and want to be around someone who excepts that and that even includes what most would say is a secret. I have none. Hell ask me anything lol. It is a great way to live
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| Jun 21 @ 9:55 AM |
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nice_but_naughty
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Be open and honest right from the beginning. Don't hold back and risk hurting the other person later
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| Jun 22 @ 1:41 PM |
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Natgoat
Posts: 1,500
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I've Never told anyone...........
I've never Dated my deepest Secret...!!!
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| Jul 1 @ 11:10 PM |
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lynxkat
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OK. I'm a pragmatist. 'Tell everything from day one' seems a bit naive (no offense intended, folks). I mean, let's face it: a first date with everything out there is most likely going to be a last date, too! Who's actually going to sit through all of anyone else's weirdness, then say, "Yeah - I'd love to go out again!" 
Really getting to know someone takes time. When the mood is right - open and honest - ask a leading question that can open the door. I do that. Generally, once I do, the other person feels more confident in doing the same. The answers can be very interesting. My guess is, in your case, you might want to ask something like, "What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?" The attitude and answer to that one will give you an answer about whether you want to go any further!
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| Jul 6 @ 9:36 AM |
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OdysseusMI
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You will know when it's the right time to share that deepest secret when you reach the "open bathroom door" stage.
  
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| Jul 7 @ 8:41 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
Posts: 455
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Everyone here already knows mine. So if I met someone off here there is nothing to tell.
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| Jul 8 @ 5:22 PM |
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DangerousLiaison
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If it is a secret that will not worsen the relationship if it goes untold, I don't tell anyone my deepest secret. There is some stuff, I would rather just keep quiet about. But, if it will affect the person I am with, I will tell them pretty early on, so neither of us will feel betrayed or whatever.
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| Jul 8 @ 6:05 PM |
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wtxman
Posts: 618
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Not untill you get the test results back from your bloodtests.
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| Jul 13 @ 8:43 PM |
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40yearoldvirgin
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I only share secrets with total strangers online!
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| Jul 27 @ 6:00 PM |
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carol_can_play2
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if he or she might find out anyway tell the person right away before a relationship goes to far and someone gets hurt
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