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Jan 14, 2010 @ 4:32 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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It seems like there are several different types of attraction to ponder. The first is the immediate attraction. Walking around, or at a party, you're seeing a number of people. Some of them stand out inside your mind, others are just lost in the noise. Why? Bold colors, bold actions, or sheer volume, I suspect.

Then a different question comes up, once you've noticed the person. Why do you crave some people and not others that have a similar style/personality/look?

I've been pondering something related for a while and find myself stumped on this one. Have you ever met somebody and felt like you've known them for a long time? Or met somebody, and instantly, before you have a good reason felt like this is a person you want to know? A Platonic attraction...
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Jan 20, 2010 @ 10:59 AM Pondering Attraction...    

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When there is familiarity, and no history, that'd be your past lives, tapping you on the shoulder.
Then again, I have this theory. We wear our lives and experiences in the lines on our faces. I think our primitive selves, or higher selves, or whatever name you put to it, recognizes more than our conscious mind can.
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Feb 18, 2010 @ 12:44 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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what bout the kind where you start to talk to someone and just all of a sudden feel you've known them your entire life....just that umm ''connection'' happens....
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Feb 22, 2010 @ 5:57 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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Yeah but that kind of attraction is rare. Now I have met men with a connection but wasn't sexual more of a friendship basis
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Feb 28, 2010 @ 2:13 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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maybe a lot of attraction is mental
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Mar 1, 2010 @ 6:49 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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Mar 1, 2010 @ 7:00 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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whatcha laffin bout shorty
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Apr 21, 2010 @ 3:24 PM Pondering Attraction...    

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Gee you scared her off
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