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Oct 9, 2006 @ 3:47 PM Pondering Attraction...    
Dominus


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We use terms like attraction or chemistry all of the time. Hell, even I use them. But I think it comes down much more to genetics and behaviorism than most people are comfortable with admitting.

CanU brings up that exact point with his entry about auburn hair. Simplified, auburn hair was paired with a pleasurable experience. Each time it's matched with pleasure the pairing of those two things will be reinforced. The same can be said for lots of other traits and circumstances, like attractions to certain body types or ethnicities. And while this might sound clinical, it's natural and healthy. The only unhealthy circumstances would be ones where his attractions keep him from leading a normal life (ie, "She's perfect for me, but she doesn't have auburn hair!")

Otherwise, what we're doing is looking for a good genetic match. Something that compliments out own genes in a positive way. Sure, a woman might think of a big cock to win over her immediate pleasure, but in the long run if you really want to drive her nuts then things like health, intelligence and body form will take her over the edge. Why else would this be if not for reproductive instinct?
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Oct 9, 2006 @ 5:03 PM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


Posts: 3,351


I think we can control who we're attracted to


I'm not so sure about controling our attractions. We can control acting on those attractions, but we still notice it,just don't act on it, some may even deny it to themselves. I'm going back to sleep now.
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 12:17 AM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


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I guess I can't edit and amend? The little pencile is gone! I'll have to form a posse and look for it!

I just wanted to say wow, I've heard from so many red heads since posting that. I didn't know that's all it would take! Oh Irish at that too! Brings new meaning to te phrase my Grandpa used "I got me Irish up..."
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 12:52 AM Pondering Attraction...    
Dominus


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You know what gets my Irish up?

giggl_sprite.

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Oct 10, 2006 @ 11:08 AM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


Posts: 2,999
You know what gets my Irish up?

giggl_sprite.

How damned cute is that??? Oh, I'd say about as cute as she is! What a hottie you've got there, Dominus!
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 12:46 PM Pondering Attraction...    
ynot7769


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hmm i think explaining an attraction is like tryin to explain your favorite flavor ice cream..... .it just IS....no reason ..just how it is....
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Oct 10, 2006 @ 3:22 PM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


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I'm less interested in why physical traits catch my eye, as Dom pointed out, they are easy, lately I'm curious about why certain personality types are more appealing than others.... I'm still wondering why I keep turning a dial, pulling a string and listening to a see-n-say too.... I have lots to ponder... give me a break here.
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 12:52 AM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


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I wasn't necessarily talking about physical traits...my background is so varied I know that's not what it is for me. But I am starting to get an idea of what attracts me.
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 11:06 AM Pondering Attraction...    
ynot7769


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SxzeBBW
i'm all ears...well ALMOST ...keep talkin lol
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 1:42 PM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


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Mmmmm, bad boys. Love 'em naughty!
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 8:47 PM Pondering Attraction...    
ynot7769


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mmm can be as naughty as you like......and then some
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 10:51 PM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


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better watch out...i've been reading the bondage and discipline thread...taking notes...been shopping...be careful what you ask for, sweetie. I'm bitchy today!
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 10:53 PM Pondering Attraction...    
ynot7769


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but but but babyyyy you know how much i love a bitch!!!! wooo hooooo Bitch on !!!
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 10:58 PM Pondering Attraction...    
belle1010


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Shopping???? Hey, I want to go!!!! I have a few ideas for items to purchase (Movievid says he has purchse approval though )
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 11:09 PM Pondering Attraction...    
ynot7769


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oh hell 2 women shopping????
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Oct 11, 2006 @ 11:53 PM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


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You're doomed.
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:10 AM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


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remember my 3 words? fuck, debauchery, and wicked....
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:16 AM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


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what kind of shopping trip would that be?
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:17 AM Pondering Attraction...    
JJN4Fun


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sex toys, baby...want me to something up for you? some Rocket Fuel, perhaps?

Belle - let's just make a date and go!!!
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Oct 12, 2006 @ 12:24 AM Pondering Attraction...    
canuhelpme258


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If you happen to hit the yellow brick road take my brain back to that dumbass behind the curtain, tell him it's defective.
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